What are some things in life that are destroyed in your own hands?

There are too many variables in my life, such as academic things are wasted in my hands, wasted, I have good conditions, I don't cherish them.

My job, my girlfriend, my workIf I can hurry up and work hard, my work can be said to be beyond your reach.

I don't have anything, my life is safe, there is nothing I spoiled, the only thing is to pick a wallet and give it to someone else.

I just did one thing, I beat my mother, my mother ran away, I was left alone in the house, my father was not at home, my life was like this.

Others say that there is only friendship and family affection in this life, and there is no future life, and I just offended my aunt, turned her face against us, and stopped associating with us, all of which were bad in my hands.

I regret my feet, I have become a thousand hatreds, I will never be able to go down to the ground from now on, I have hurt myself.

We all say that bad things are not broken by one person, there must be two people, what I break is my body, I am reckless, and I will not be able to get up for the rest of my life.

My life is fine, there are not too many regrets, that is, my son and other people's children are going to get married, I said a wrong word, and I don't succeed, I regret it very much.

My girlfriend, I began to like a girl who was afraid to say to her, and just like that, every day passed, and my good friend confessed before me and succeeded.

I have a good friend, I didn't treat him as a friend at first, I knew that I teased him every day, but I didn't expect that when I had something, he didn't say a word to help me, I was really selfish.

The moment I saw this question, I really wanted to go back to the past, to those youthful days when I sat in the classroom and listened to lectures and learned. At that time, it was the time when Han Han and Guo Jingming became popular, and at that time, I also had a dream about writing - Han Han Guo Jingming's achievements were not what I dared to think, I only hoped that writing could become a means of making a living for myself.

But I never worked hard for this dream, and I destroyed my dream all my life.

When I was in high school, high school divided into arts and sciences, science students took the college entrance examination in the number of languages + science comprehensive four papers, liberal arts students in the college entrance examination test outside the number of words + literature comprehensive four papers, the liberal arts mathematics paper is simpler and easier than the science mathematics paper. If a student wants to make a living from writing in the future, he should choose liberal arts when he Chinese science in high school, and after the liberal arts college entrance examination, most of the schools he can choose from have Chinese or journalism majors. But I didn't choose liberal arts, as for the reason, now that I think about it, it's just two words - vanity.

When I was in high school, our high school began to divide into key classes and parallel classes, the so-called key classes are to divide the top 130 candidates in the county into two classes according to the examination rankings during the high school entrance examination, the first class to the first class, the second and third to the second class, the fourth and fifth to the first class, the sixth and seventh to the second class, and so on. I am in the first class, and my grades are still very good, and not only does our high school not have a key liberal arts class, but the teaching quality of the liberal arts class is still relatively poor, so I wondered, why should I go to the ordinary class if I am in a key class? Then I chose science.

In fact, during the college entrance examination, I still had the opportunity to study Chinese and journalism - some schools' Chinese departments would actually recruit science students, but I heard that it was easier to find a job after graduating from engineering, so I marked my thought engineering major on the volunteer form without hesitation, but my IQ was lower than now, and I mistakenly regarded the information management and information systems major as an engineering major and filled in the first choice, so four years later, I became a bachelor of management.

But you say, even if you go to university, if you really want to make a living from words in the future, you can also take a second specialty, such as advertising, new literature, Chinese, or prepare for graduate school, cross the examination of a graduate student in the Chinese department, such as modern and contemporary literature of Jilin University, but these efforts, I have not done anything, and I am once again drifting away from my dream.

Let's go! Always saying that you have dreams, and always selectively forgetting dreams when faced with choices, isn't this destroying dreams in life?

My iron rice bowl was ruined by my own hands! I really regret it now that I think about it.

After completing kindergarten education in a private school, because they do not have a dispatch certificate, they cannot be assigned to work like a kindergarten teacher in a regular school, and they can only sign a contract with the employer. Although I went to a private school, I was favored by the principal of a public kindergarten, so I have been working in a public kindergarten since graduation.

After two years on the job, our school received a document from the Education Bureau to regularize all private teachers. And they also said that this is the last chance for private teachers to become regulars, and if they miss it, they will never be able to touch it again in the future. There is only one condition:

You have to pay 20,000 yuan for training, and then there is an exam fee and so on, a total of 26,000 yuan.

I had just started work and the salary was very low, so I couldn't have come up with that much money. After going back to discuss with my mother, my mother said that if she wanted to become a regular, she would find a way to borrow money from me. As soon as my mother said this, I knew that my family didn't have the money, so I gave up the idea of becoming a regular worker.

I told my mom that I could do a lot with more than 20,000 yuan, so why bother buying a job.

In fact, the idea at that time was very stupid, if you borrowed money at that time and became a regular teacher, you would be a formal people's teacher, and you would not have to worry about finding a job in the future. And with a stable job, it is not difficult to repay the 20,000 yuan.

I didn't regret it in the first few years, because I was young and had no burden. I heard that private kindergartens have high salaries and large room for development, so I switched to private kindergartens. Sure enough, I was like a fish in water in a private kindergarten and became the deputy principal.

But later, after getting married and having another child, I slowly lost interest in this job and changed careers.

If I really turned into a regular teacher at that time, even if I didn't want to be a preschool teacher, I could have changed to a primary school teacher, and I didn't have to worry about finding a job all the time like now. And the welfare of teachers is very good, there are many holidays, and the salary is not low, a good thing! I think my brain was really in the water!

I feel like I have a lot of things in my hands when I come back. For example, I actually like to draw, and every time I make a painting, I always want to make some changes when it's almost over. Then when you revise, you always erase a part, don't worry too much, and then when you make up, it will be ugly, and you feel that a painting will be ruined in your own hands.

I especially admire those who stick to their direction despite outside pressure.

After graduating, I went to work in a company, at first it was obscure and transparent, I don't know why, like a hanging, the performance is getting better and better, and it soared all the way to the position of manager.

When I thought that the future was scattered, my family suggested that I take the civil service exam and the career editor, while I was young, I had just left the campus, and my study was still there. I was very confused at the time, why did I have to take the exam when I worked so well. The family began to enumerate, what girls don't float around every day, it's better to be stable, in addition, work within the system, guaranteed, balabala ......

So, I resigned and joined the public examination army.

Maybe all the luck was used in the last job, I took two exams in half a year and failed twice.

My mom started urging me to find a job, she was a very strong woman and super face-loving. The sentence on her lips was "Hurry up and find a class, I'm embarrassed to say that you don't have a job." I was stunned again, my family doesn't support exams, and there are a few of them that can go ashore at once.

I decided to give up the exam and go to work, and she started to disagree again, "No, I have to take the test".

I gave in again, then I will find a job as a supermarket shopping guide and cashier, and I will have time to study. She objected again, "No, you have to get a decent job." ”

I was completely devastated, it turned out that I was asked to take the exam because she had face. What followed was an endless argument with my mother.

I went out to live on my own, and I wanted to close myself off. My spinal tease began to polarize, going out to chat with friends, as usual, but when I got back to my cabin, I could spend half the night. I realized that I wasn't in the right place, so I changed cities, got a job, and started working.

I'm starting to regret why I should let someone interfere in my life.

In a fit of rage, I gave up my job and went home.

This time I have a clear goal and I am fully prepared for next year's exam, I have put so much energy and financial resources into it, why should I give up. I've been so young for so many years, and I can't afford to waste it.

My life will be ruined, and it will be ruined by my own hands.