How depressing is the feeling of having nothing to say to your parents?

At first, there is nothing to talk about, you can ask your parents how they are doing, and finally talk about their own situation, and then ask them to pay more attention to their health.

I talk the most at home, and I've always wanted someone to listen to me and talk to me, but no one in the family talks too much, and my dad talks a lot, which is annoying, because most of it is useless nonsense.

It's so normal. During the time when I lived at home after graduating from college, my relationship with my mother has always been very confused, that is, the kind of person who desperately finds a topic to talk to her, she doesn't care, and responds to you without a match.

From my point of view, I'm a high school student who just wants to sit and take a good rest when I go home, and I usually don't take the initiative to talk about things that are not too important, unless I get into some trouble. But there is no embarrassment at home at all, as long as there is a topic, it is very active.

It's normal, it may be that you are introverted, and your thoughts are different, which will be the reason for not talking to your parents, and this needs to have a medium in the middle, like adding a baby to the family, which will bring a lot of common topics to the family.

Family doesn't necessarily have to talk a lot to be considered family, but as long as we are together, we will feel very relieved, and my dad and I have almost no topics to talk about, but our hearts are very warm.

It's normal. Me and my mom too, she had more fun with her peers. Two days ago, I met my girlfriend and learned the new recipe of milk**.

My parents and I are so normal, and my brother and my parents are so abnormal, because my parents think that education is a school affair and they are only responsible for food and clothing.

Although it is not that there is nothing to say between my dad and me, it is basically close, because my dad doesn't understand things, and I can't learn it after teaching it many times, and then I don't teach anymore. My dad knows a lot about the short parents and the world, but I don't like to listen to these, so I don't communicate at home except for playing mobile phones or playing games!

College local but go home less, although there is a small world in my heart but it's okay to be with my parents, they are nothing more than concerned about my studies and broken thoughts, from abandoning my studies to failing the graduate school entrance examination to now drifting north in the second year, going home less now once a year for the New Year, when I go home, my parents will talk quietly and do housework.

There are two reasons to ponder:

First, there is a generation gap between myself and my parents due to the difference in age. And as you grow older and change your social experience, the generation gap will get bigger and bigger, resulting in some communication difficulties, so that you can talk less and less.

Another point is the lack of necessary communication between you and your parents. Your parents don't know what you do every day, and you don't know what your parents are thinking about every day. This is when you should reflect on yourself.

Is it too little concern for parents. Let your parents know about your life, in fact, they are very concerned about you. Then there will be more and more words between you.

Your world parents can't get in. You don't want to go into your parents' world either. The best thing to do is to get into the lives of your parents.

Find out what they're busy with every day. What are you doing? You will feel that it is not easy for your parents, you will be grateful to them, and you will understand them.

The important thing is that you don't understand them now.

One. When you go to college, you and your parents don't have the same perspective.

Presumably, this netizen is also very depressed in his heart, otherwise he would not have written nearly 1,000 words to talk about the relationship with his parents. From your remarks, I have distilled three key points, which we will analyze one by one from these three aspects, and then find out the reasons why there is no topic to talk about with your parents. First of all, you are already a college student after college, and your parents and family are from the countryside, so in terms of this relationship, your vision is different.

I believe in a saying very much, that is, the vision determines the mind, because they have not seen the outside sky, so they can't understand your current thoughts, and the disagreement of views is your biggest problem now.

Two. I don't have anything to say to my parents because you live in a different environment.

The second is your living environment, going to college and working, you are in other places, and your parents still live in their original place, decades of living habits, have fixed their thinking to the difference in living environment, resulting in your views and plans for life are also very different. In their eyes, opening a small restaurant and living your life in a down-to-earth manner is the best choice, and you must be more yearning for a better and higher pursuit outside.

Three. Your parents have patriarchal tendencies.

Finally, I think your parents may have some patriarchal tendencies, or some misconceptions about women. Why do women have to stay at home with their husbands and children? If your parents want your future to be focused on your family, then why send you to college?

It is unacceptable for you to have seen the wonderful world out there, and then to put you back in the cage again. Now is a new era, men and women are equal, everyone has the right to pursue and pursue their own bright future independently, why should girls be willing to be housewives? I am very supportive of your struggle with your parents, you can't go to college in vain, your future is up to you!

You can't change your parents' minds, but you must stick to your heart!

We often have a generation gap with our parents, because we grew up in different times and accepted different mainstream values, so many times we feel that there is nothing to say between the two generations. Especially for young people, many times they accept a kind of modern values that are in line with the mainstream of others, which leads to the collision of two ideas, and there is no way to integrate them well. What we can do is we need to break down these barriers.

1. Communicate more with your parents. There are fewer and fewer topics to talk about with parents, and there is a generation gap, which is inevitable, especially as you grow older and slowly enter the work. I don't have more time to get along with my parents, and gradually I can't get into the same environment, and I gradually have a lot of topics.

But in many cases, for the company of parents, you don't have to tell them everything, as long as you talk to them more about the trivial things in life, and communicate with them, the situation will gradually improve. As an adult, we have our own responsibilities and the troubles in our lives, which can be told to our parents, and we think that it makes us closer to each other.

2. Encourage parents to get in touch with new things. In many cases, the reason why there is no topic of conversation with parents is because young people nowadays are always exposed to a lot of new things.

As they grow older, children will have a certain generation gap with their parents, once this situation occurs, it is often because their living environment has changed, their ideological status has changed, and their cultural long-term governance has changed, which may lead to less and less communication with their parents, and many people will find that as they grow older, their parents' requirements for you always make you feel very bored, and you always don't like to let your parents guide and teach, so you will communicate less and less with your parents. But as you get older, and you reach forty or fifty years old, you will find that you will spend less time with your parents, and then you will realize how much kindness and affection your parents have for you.

Therefore, once a person reaches the age of 40, there will be more opportunities to communicate with his parents.

With age. Many children feel that they are talking less and less to their parents. I don't think there's anything to say.

This is also normal. As you grow older. to all sorts of things.

It's up to you to judge. You don't need to ask your parents for advice on everything. Especially the point of view of all these things.

I don't like it very much, and it's the same as my parents. But that doesn't mean you're alienated from your parents. If you feel it, there is this.

Then you need to communicate with your parents as much as possible. After all, the parents are older. They still see a lot of things quite thoroughly.

As the saying goes, the older you get, the more lonely you are, after all, the society is developing too fast now, as the saying goes, there is a generation gap between 10 or even 5 years of communication and living habits, not to mention parents.

When you were a child, your parents talked a lot, you felt particularly long-winded and annoying, and the more you grew up, you found that there were fewer and fewer words, which is a natural phenomenon, after all, you are not a child and you are getting older, you have your own knowledge, your own experience, your own work, your own love, your wife's work, life, study and understanding of the world, so my parents have more and more generation gaps.

This is also normal, if you want to break this deadlock, you have to take the initiative, especially when you go back to your hometown or your parents, go home for the Spring Festival to accompany them to have a reunion dinner, chat, see things, chat about family life, chat, people and things around you, and discuss family affairs on the news together, so that there will be more and more topics, because home is a common harbor.

Home is a safe haven and a warm root for everyone.

I love my home.

That's because, you have your thoughts, you want to have your behavior free, you feel that your parents are regulating you for everything, so you are very annoyed, but you want to be a good child, so you can't stand this kind of behavior, you want to close your own thoughts and practices, so as not to be reprimanded by your parents for not agreeing with your parents' minds, so that the longer you go, the more you feel that you have nothing to say, in fact, you try to say your thoughts to your parents as someone else's business, just see their reactions, so that you will understand your parents' thoughts, Combined with your own thoughts, see what you should do and what you shouldn't do, and you will slowly get better. And learn to empathize with everything, think about your behavior, if you are a parent, you can let it go, if not, learn to be a good person. Remember that there is something in your elementary school moral book that says that it is a very wrong thing when you are not able to appreciate what your parents are doing when you are an adolescent?

After all, the experience of parents is a book worth reading! Maybe you can't read it all your life!

Why do you feel that you have more and more nothing to say to your parents, because there is such a difference in concept with your parents in the first place, that is to say, your parents' concepts may be different from the concepts of the people and things you come into contact with. For today's children, there are a wide range of access to information. So when I talk to my parents, there are some things that my parents don't know at all, so I have more and more nothing to say to my parents, which is one aspect, and another aspect is that the more the child grows up, he needs to go outside.

And when I have a lot of contact outside, I feel that what my parents say is not so attractive. They even think that what their parents say is wrong, so they have less and less to say to their parents.

The reason why you feel more and more speechless with your parents is because you have grown up, and many ideas are not consistent with them, and sometimes after you tell them what you think, they will even think you are naïve. It's okay to think about these useless thoughts all day long, just want you to live a stable life, but they don't know that sometimes they are very tired and want to find someone to talk to, but they can't find someone who is willing to talk to, you want to treat your parents as the object of confiding, but your parents don't understand you, so over time you feel that you have more and more nothing to say to your parents.

I have been living outside and going to school, and I am more introverted and usually go home for a short time, so I can't say anything;

2.It's their own parents who are not good at words, and over time, there is nothing to say.

3.I am dissatisfied with the current situation of my life, I don't want to communicate with my parents, and I feel that it is useless to talk more.

The classmates around me also have this situation, generally belonging to the second type of situation, and some are raised by their grandparents since childhood, and they have lacked feelings since childhood.

After graduating from college, entering the society, their thoughts and all aspects of dealing with people will be mature, I feel that it is not easy for my mother and father, only the family cares about us, and gradually the communication with my parents will be smoother, and I will be willing to share my feelings with my family in career and love.

They all say that they don't raise children, and they don't know their parents' kindness, so sometimes we are always working against our parents when we are at the age of study. You always feel that he cares about everything, you always feel that you can't communicate with him, she doesn't understand some of the things you go through at your age, but we often ignore one thing, they all come from this age.

One. We always say that our parents should understand us, but how many of us understand that our parents think from each other's point of view? Parents are good for us, and she hopes that her children can have a better future, so she does her best to create better material living conditions for them.

Two. They are afraid that their children will lose at the starting line, and they are even more afraid that their children will feel inferior to each other, so no matter how much they have to sacrifice, they must let their children feel that they are the same as others. I will work hard to create conditions for you, as long as you are willing to work hard.

Three. Children are getting older day by day, they have their own hearts, and they also have their own rebellion, so they have a very naïve, no consequence idea of some things, that is, they can do whatever they want, they ignore the feelings of their parents, and they never take into account the love of their parents. quarreling with their parents, not feeling their parents' dedication to them, they should know gratitude.

They only take it for granted mentally. Only one day, when they get married and really have their own children, they will know how their parents thought about things from what perspective their parents had back then, and his parents were really good for them. Parents eat more salt than we travel.

What he has done for you, including the future he envisions for you, is the experience he has summed up along the way. You can not listen, but you don't argue with him, and you don't quarrel with him. There are many times when you have to know that not all people are willing to think about you and do their best for you, even if they sacrifice their lives.

No one is willing to give without asking for anything in return, only your parents. Same idea as me, just take it!