Tell us about the truths that you didn t understand until you broke up?

Don't get back together, you can't go back to the past when you get back together, and when you say you're back together, you've already put yourself in a much lower position than the other party.

After the breakup, leave some morality, don't slander the other party, keep saying bad things about the other party, and reflect more on your own mistakes; Even if the other party is unbearable, it is much better for you to remain silent than to be full of swear words.

After the breakup, I realized that couples can really be friends, so she posted her boyfriend from time to time, and I held my forehead like a teaser.

The man who pursues you violently at the beginning will generally not continue to hold you after he gets his hands on you. The strategy you start pursuing is like a probationary period with a strong desire to get a job, and you can show your best self once you are accepted.

Girls don't take the initiative too much, they will drop the price. After breaking up, don't care about your ex and miss everything, for yourself, it's torture, and for each other, it's just superfluous, and a mental burden. While you are young, make more friends and read more to add value to yourself.

After breaking up, I realized that, as Cheng Jiayang said, on the road of love, the biggest fault is missing, in the era of naked marriage, Liu Yiyang once said that details make love and defeat love.

Understand that the so-called love process is acquaintance, acquaintance, love, quarrel, stability, plain ......Then we broke up and found someone to do it all over again.

Two people who I thought were going to love broke up. There must be at least one big thing with a bang. For example, a third party. For example, terminal illness. But no. Restless, busy, tired, enough is enough.

When we got back together, we felt that we were very lucky, and we finally returned to each other's side after a big circle, thinking that we would meet each other again as mature each other, until we decided to separate again, and I didn't understand what it meant to repeat the mistakes of the past.

Girls should never be too proactive, the result will always be the same! People who cherish the people you treat wholeheartedly with your heart and lungs will generally fail you!

Don't force anyone to stay, otherwise you will lose your last self-esteem, your parents have raised you for more than ten or twenty years, not to make you die or live for a certain scum.

After I broke up, I learned all these truths.

The first truth, he taught me reality. Money is the foundation of love, and a woman must be financially independent and mature in thought. Don't rely on any man, the sense of security is given to you by yourself, don't look for it in front of any man.

If a man wants to break up, he will use cold violence to force you. Men are more realistic and materialistic than women, and older boys will consider many factors, and they will think that suitability is the most important, and love is not important. Girls in love should never post upside down, and never lend a lot of money to boys, they will not pay it back.

The second truth is that people who are not worthy of love should stop losses in time. People in love may really have a decline in IQ, thinking that everything is good, but when you really come out, it will be different to look at a relationship as a bystander, which is called a fan of the authorities.

The third truth, breaking up is actually nothing, no matter what the reason is, it is the same, separation proves that fate is not enough, every breakup can summarize that you have not done a good job, or there is a problem with two people, every breakup is a summary of experience, which can make two people grow better, and make yourself better in the future, no matter who you are with in the end, you can live a good life, do your best, and live a better life in the future!

The fourth truth, two people can get along happily, not only to have the same three views, but also personality and living habits are also very important, both parties must be tolerant, but also have empathy. Tolerance should be used in the other party's character, to be honest, the character is really difficult to change, at this time there must be tolerance, to understand the other party, empathy should be used in living habits, to take care of the other party's feelings, whose habits are more reasonable, it will be unified in whose habits, such as squeezing toothpaste from the bottom or squeezing no matter where it is, there is nothing fundamentally right or wrong. Another example is to eat spicy, people who eat spicy food have to put chili peppers in any dish, and people who don't eat it are really difficult to swallow.

In short, they will quarrel over some trivial things, fight for right and wrong, and finally say nothing and hurt their feelings. So how to get along happily is also a time to test emotional intelligence.

Knowing that two people have a lot of problems in their relationship, it takes two people to work together to persevere, as long as one of them wants to give up, he can't go on, and it's not that he is good to the other half, the other party will treat himself in the same way, which is not worth cherishing.

After the breakup, I learned that when chasing a girl, I must pursue her with my heart, and I must cherish her after chasing her. Because every relationship is hard-won, sometimes we break up in a fit of anger and may make us regret it for life, so when we find someone, we must treat her well and cherish her.

After the breakup, I learned that love can't be forced. I used to think that love was my own thing, and I could do everything I could to exchange for a lifetime of opportunities to be together, and I loved him more than myself. After the breakup, I realized that love can't be forced, and whether that person doesn't love himself or not depends on how much he gives.

Love yourself before you love others, and don't just touch yourself in the end. Distinguish what it means to love each other and what it means to love yourself, and don't do it in the name of loving each other, but in the end it is an act of loving yourself. Sadly you don't know it yourself, and it's even sadder that you probably won't know it for the rest of your life.

I didn't understand until after the breakup. People who don't love each other can definitely go to the end. I don't cherish it when I have it, I regret it when I don't have it, and then there is the eternal commotion that I can't get, and the one who is favored has no fear. Sometimes life is just helpless.

After I broke up, I knew that the most important thing for two people to be together is to be a good match, and two people's families have a great influence on two people's ideas, if two people live in the same family environment, their ideas will be more unified, and there will be no more differences.

1. People's hearts are really changing, and you who once loved you can have a new love in an instant after breaking up.

2. Don't hurt anyone who loves you, if you don't love him, please keep him decent and let him leave with dignity.

Not everyone will revolve around you, it's not your own world, it's not you, we all have our own choices, since you didn't choose me, then I should choose a better person.

Life does not necessarily need two people to be better together, there are wine, songs, poems, distant friends in life, and it is the most important thing to do to maintain a love for life.

What truths do you know after the breakup, that is, don't love someone too much, don't let yourself rely on him too much, and be independent.