Being in love numbs me and makes me lose the direction of my life!

You yourself are not assertive. If you love her, does he love you, if he loves you, he will wait for you, and he will be with you no matter how obstructed.

Now the seafarer has a salary of tens of thousands of dollars a month, and I am afraid that I will have no money in the future, and I am afraid that she will not be able to wait, which proves that you have chosen the wrong person, and he does not love you.

A seafarer can become a rich man after a few years, and are you afraid that you won't find a girlfriend in the future. There will be a queue waiting for you to pick and choose. When the time comes, I only blame him for not having this wealth.

You still have these things on your mind, and you don't put your heart on studying, and you can't get a certificate, I think you are like a seaman. Wholeheartedly study, for future work. also for her in the future.

Brother, your current life values are completely possessed by love, how can you not lose your direction in life! You should try to adjust your direction and goals. Now the most important thing is what she thinks?

Do you know her? Does she really love you? If I really love you, I believe that there is true love in this world, and she will wait for you!

Who told you not to work hard?

If the college entrance examination is admitted to the key points, even Peking University and Tsinghua University.

Are you afraid you don't have a beautiful girlfriend?

Will her parents still look down on you?

The college entrance examination is such an important opportunity to turn over, and you have lost it.

Why don't you hurry up now?

Hurry up and take a graduate school entrance exam!

Don't ruin your life for a woman.

Do you want your son to be like you?

Now how can you say that you have lost the direction of your life?

Could it be that after a while of the university, you will have a direction?

Landlord, I'm from here.

I'm also a rural baby.

Aren't I also a good white-collar worker now? Don't you have a beautiful daughter-in-law?

I understand you, but you don't have any chips right now, you don't have anything.

Can you change someone else's parents?

So hurry up now.

Try to win your chips!

No love is reliable now. The only thing a man has a career can have everything, don't let love regret it.

In this case, it's normal to feel unhappy, everyone will be unless someone with a particularly cheeky face, but don't look down on yourself, if you have a good relationship between the two, just continue, if it's a vain woman, just give up.

Hey, that's a hard question to answer

You need to hurry!!

Are you sure she loves you? If not, don't wait. True love doesn't need any reason. If she really loves you, she won't go with him. Emotional matters barely come.

If you miss her because of your inferiority, you may regret it for a lifetime, since you like it, you have to be brave and persistent, I used to miss a very good girl because of my inferiority complex, and now I regret it, I must continue to give myself confidence, encourage myself, I can bring her everything, since you can accommodate her, it means that you like her very much, so don't give up easily, have confidence in yourself, you can have an in-depth talk with her, show how sincere you are to her, so that you can stabilize your relationship, Give it a try.

It's normal for people of your age to live in such a state, I've seen a lot of people like this, including myself who used to be one of them, when I was 19 years old, I lived a more decadent and confused life than you, but now I'm the one who helps others answer their life questions, why is that? Because of the uncertainty of fate, once a person like you changes his attitude towards life, the potential is very large, you have to use your diligence to wake it up, but it does not mean that you want to work hard now, but to obey the current state, you should face the college entrance examination now! If yes, I can give you a suggestion:

Change yourself completely and do your best to fight for the college entrance examination. If you don't face the college entrance examination, you don't want to change anything, go with your life, and fate will change you at the right time. Good luck!

I guess you should have failed at something, or suffered some big setback, right? Whether it is or not, I hope what I have said below will be helpful to you, and if you are offended, please forgive me! Life is originally so ordinary, some people can achieve great things, why, they have worked hard and diligently, and have no regrets; Some people are like you now, they have lost interest in life, they feel bored and bored doing anything, most of them are caused by a variety of factors, they may have rested for a long time, they have nothing to do, or they may have suffered frustration for themselves, there is only one time in life and you can't start all over again, if you continue like this and are willing to fall, God can't help you, you should think more about hope around the corner, do something meaningful that you are interested in, make more friends, think about what you live for, think about your dreams, If your future is still like this, what will the future look like, there is also a possibility that you are depressed, and you should go to the hospital to check it.

Then you go and find some ...... changeTraveling on my own is my approach. You can go and do some activities to participate in, to do something that you haven't done before, such as going to a live CS, going to participate in survival in the wilderness, or going to some lectures, philosophy, business, life, etc. If you want to speak well, don't listen to the mess.

A lot of ways, you are still young, life has not yet begun, now is just the stage of playing, learn to play, people can play in a lifetime can not have much time, can play unscrupulously (except for those who break the law, except for those who lack morality) There is not much time, you are now .........I'm still depressed and idle, I'm really defeated.

>> don't let the past dictate your life, but let the past make your life.

Any restriction starts from one's own heart.

The most unhappy people in the world are the ones who always care about what others think.

Don't show off when no one knows your worth; Don't be discouraged when no one appreciates your talents; Don't be confused when no one understands your interests.

The most beautiful thing is not to be born like a summer flower, but in the long river of time, the waves are not shocked.

As long as you keep persevering, the sad things will one day make you smile and say it.

The human heart is like a container, the more happiness it contains, the less depression it has.

Sometimes we have to be cruel to ourselves, and we can't indulge our sadness and disappointment.

On the road to your dreams, whether you are sure of success or not, you must understand that since you have already started, you should go all out.

The biggest laziness in life is our attitude towards life when we know that we have the ability to choose, but we do not take the initiative to change it.

If you live in the eyes of others, you will get lost in your own heart.

That's the case in China, wood has a way. So you have to learn to have fun with boredom. For example, get together with a few friends to vent your frustration, or find a job to do by yourself, experience society, and chat with other like-minded friends more.

The mind is not mature enough, in fact, life can be colorful, and it can also be like you said, the key is how you do it!

Are your living conditions good? In other words, does it require your hard work?

If you need to, rack your brains and find a way to make money! It's not okay to have no money in this society!

At the same time, you're 19 years old, try to have a girlfriend......

Maybe it will feel different......

It is true that we have a very difficult life, we have to endure all kinds of external pressures, and we have to face our own inner confusion, but no matter what, we have to work hard to survive. Do you dare to say that you die every day without regrets?

Life is for yourself, you have to be better, and you can only know how beautiful life is when you go out.

The reason why you are like this is because you love her too much.

Her departure has caused a lot of damage, young man, I used to be like you, and slow time can dilute everything. To be a man, you must be able to afford to put it down. There is one thing to remember: men should be themselves.

Don't reminisce about the past, wash your face and teeth, get dressed, and the sun will still be shining tomorrow.

Believe in the spare wheel for you.

Then go back to square one, she just teaches you what you haven't been exposed to.

She's just a passer-by.

You don't have to be sad.

Because you're going to meet the next one.

Many people have a similar situation, and they don't know what to do in life, maybe they don't have a very clear goal, and then they don't know what to do. For some feelings, it should be said that he has invested too much, but he has not been satisfied with the fairytale ending that Pai Hui thought in his heart. Then he magnified this feeling of injury, in fact, he was unwilling to really face this outcome, even if he lost it, he had to keep it in his heart.

In the end, it hurt more and more. Finding someone to love again may be the fastest way to forget, but it's not easy, but it's also a palliative solution. Only when you can really understand and face it is really liberating Speaking of experience, you can speak, in fact, I am also a similar person, I guess I haven't got out of it, and I'm still struggling.

The subconscious in my heart still wants to do something, the real thing! But still no motivation! Too many people working together!

If there is no loss, how can there be gain? It's not terrible to lose, it's to be afraid of your own fall.

What kind of bullshit is in the past.

See what you have and how you're doing.

If you have it, enjoy it, and if you don't, you will strive for a better future.

It's better to be pragmatic.

It's the same as me.

Because I'm a student, I spend a lot of time studying to numb myself, and I know it's an escape, and I've tried many methods, but all...

Now let your mind be empty and focus on what you want to do, just have fun.

I think it's similar to what I am now, I feel the ups and downs of the past, there have been struggles, successes, failures, laughter and discomfort

It's not bad to have a good memory.

Brothers. I'm in a similar situation to you. Hehe.

Go for it. Someday it will burn.

Give up your memories, let yourself come back to reality, you still have life, let yourself be reborn.

Regain your self-confidence and find yourself. Create value and realize dreams. It's all you have to do right now

Many things are about fate, what is a good woman is difficult to define, besides, good is not necessarily suitable for yourself, I don't know why you have a girlfriend, this is not important, but since you have her, why not be nice to her?

The second one is more blunt, not as subtle as the first one, and I think you know what she means, but you don't want to admit it

I advise you to wait, since what you want is the feeling of being loved, don't be so proactive, and it is not so easy to be loved, it is to give, pay your love, others will give you the same love, therefore, love is so touching, because she is not as easy to get as family affection

Good luck!

Eventually, someone who loves you is waiting for you in the crowd to hold her hand.

There's no way, wait, I'm waiting, haha, women nowadays are either too realistic, too naïve and can't do anything, and there are fewer good women now.

Yes! Why do you think so much? Just be nice to yourself. Pick and choose. Don't look at yourself!

As long as there is still a breath, love will still not leave for a moment. On the other hand, at the moment, love still favors you, but you focus on the pain and ignore the care and love of all the people around you. The friends from all over the world who answer your questions and encourage you here also give you pure friendship.

It's time for you to open your eyes and see the world, and there are still many truths in this world for you to pursue, have, and cherish.

Divert your attention to other areas, such as work or other hobbies......

After waiting for a while, my heart calmed down, I was a little empty, I wanted to look for it, and then I started looking for another ......

I have a friend who fell out of love for the first time and calmed down for 2 years before he started to talk to another person.

What is love. Love is marriage and having children. It's not a big deal, it's that you take it too seriously, so you're lost.

Giving up a lifetime is a dream for all. But how many people can do it? If an ordinary person doesn't want to live anymore.

Jump down from the 20th floor. I didn't die when I came down. You're asking him to go up and jump again.

Hehe, the person who can jump is really one in ten thousand. I believe you are not one in ten thousand.

Hehe, I've just recovered from a broken love, who can't live if he's gone, I haven't talked to him for more than 20 years, and I'm not happy to live with him, and the sun will rise ...... tomorrowAlthough it feels dead and alive now, it's good that this feeling has passed, and it will definitely pass, to be honest, it's really hard, but you can't get better without this process, so just get through it, just get through that time......

Let it go and everything will go naturally.

Most people are against you.

Prove that he's really not for you.

You can walk with him for a while.

Prove that you only have that part of the fate.

Let it go, why not give yourself a chance to be happy.