Why does a girl like to fix me and hurt me?

Either you inadvertently offend her, and girls are more vindictive, so they will naturally punish you when they have the opportunity. Or maybe she likes you, she's trying to get close to you, get in touch with you, and make you remember her. Either way, you're likely to end up together.

Some girls may have a special interest in the whole person and the victim, which can be due to a variety of reasons. Here are some possible reasons:

1.Purpose of entertainment: Some girls may think that being wholesome and harmful is a fun form of entertainment, and they may get some pleasure and satisfaction from it.

2.Attention to you: Some girls may like you, and being wholesome and harmful is their way of getting your attention. They may want to get you interested in them this way.

3.Psychological problems: Some girls may have some psychological problems, such as aggression disorder, mental illness, etc., which cause them to have a tendency to harm others.

Whatever the reason, if a girl is constantly pampering you or hurting you, you need to take timely steps to protect yourself, such as keeping your distance from her, avoiding being alone with her, expressing your dissatisfaction to her, etc. If her actions have caused you substantial harm, you can seek help from others, such as teachers, parents, friends, etc.

Love is an emotion that you can feel, and having love is not the same as having marriage. So although you are in love with someone you shouldn't love, you have already tasted love, and it is your happiness to have love.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it.

So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

1. Too honest and dull

The success of an excellent boy often stems from his parents' high requirements for him, and high requirements often require more sweat and hard work, so his life experience almost revolves around the word "hard work". In this context, he will appear more honest than other boys, but if he is too honest, he will become dull. Sometimes I really want to chase girls, but I haven't had such an experience since I was a child, and I don't know how to chase at all, and I may have a lot of ideas, but I can't do anything.

It's a good thing to be good, but no one likes a boy who can't do anything, so even if he's good, he wastes his excellence because he's too honest.

2. Too mature

The reason why young people become young people is that they have the courage to fight and dare to break through, but these excellent boys are different, they don't like to play and make trouble. looks at a good age in his early twenties, but it always feels like he is approaching his twilight years. It is precisely because of their overmaturity, not to mention in love, that is, when pursuing girls, they can't meet the requirements of girls, and because of this, they will always miss love again and again.

3. Doing things and speaking too "straight".

If a guy is very good, but his emotional intelligence is not high and he seems to be very straight, will the girl be willing to be with him? I'm afraid I have to think twice, maybe I will accept a boy who is not very good but knows how to please himself. In life, honesty is indeed a good quality; But if honesty is put into love, I'm afraid honest boys won't be so popular.

What girl can accept her boyfriend talking about her shortcomings? Even if you know it, it's not like saying it.

4. Get used to being single

Good boys often don't have any experience in love, so they have always remained single, so even if he meets a girl who likes him one day, he may not be able to accept it and can only escape. And this kind of escape will only make girls give up slowly, and in the long run, no matter how good a boy is, he can only bear the name of "single dog".

Because you don't have confidence in yourself, you always seem helpless, so you can't attract girls.

Because you are not good enough now, you need to constantly improve yourself to attract the attention of the opposite sex.

It depends on fate, you haven't met the right person yet, and you will meet one day.

I think it's probably because you're too introverted, girls like cheerful guys.

Maybe it's because of your own reasons, how much knowledge you need.

You have to have the confidence to build yourself into a capable and profitable person, and one day there will be girls who like you!

That's where you don't have a place where girls like themselves, if you want to find a girlfriend, then you have to work hard, learn some skills, earn more money, and find a girlfriend when you have money.

Dude is too pessimistic, right? Confidence and grades can get you out of the way.

Don't be pessimistic, just go with the flow, because you're not the worst.

Reflect on yourself, improve yourself, and improve yourself in virtue and wisdom.

Don't have this kind of thinking, first do some achievements and then say, women like successful people.

Because you're not particularly good or not particularly good, but it could also be someone who likes you and doesn't know.

Go and work hard to make money. Don't ask why?

You have to believe in yourself, if you don't think so, there must be a lot of girls pursuing you, you have to be confident, you have given up on yourself, I don't think it's good for you to say this, believe in yourself, cheer for you!

As long as you can be as rich as Jack Ma, all girls will like you.

As a person who has come over, as a person who has been stuck to two girlfriends, and finally broke up. I must give you some advice. You'll make him happy.

But at the same time, it will also give him the illusion that it is too easy to get her love. Slowly it will lead to him not being proactive and enthusiastic about you. In fact, you are very clear about your feelings, and in the end you throw a question.

I don't know if that, right? I'm you, no. The reason is simple, even if you are rejected 100 times, you tell her now that by the time you are 20, at least she will know that you have liked her for a few years.

Maybe it's because the two of you have the best relationship, you don't care about what you say, you are open-minded and popular, it's really hard to find a good person like you.

I want to be friends with you, get your attention, and let you take the initiative to play with her or something, otherwise, it's just a bit of a boring person, and I feel like I have a lot of ability to bully other classmates.

It may not please the eye.

Probably kidding you.

It may be that each other's acting styles are different and they have misunderstood.

Calm down......Good men don't fight with women!

Revenge goes ... Don't be angry.

Explain that you are not the person she loves and is not someone she can take advantage of.

If you are a boy, then if a girl is not interested in you, she should not think about hurting you verbally when you are doing nothing, no one is so idle;

If you are a girl, then this girl is likely to look at you unpleasantly, and she has a bit of a good attribute.

If you don't have fate, you won't come to see each other, you can cross the same boat for a hundred years, and you can sleep together for a thousand years, since she hurts you, it means that the relationship between the two of you is particularly good, and the relationship between people who are not familiar with you is not very good to hurt others, others will be angry, girls hurt boys, either male girlfriends (iron buddies), or she likes you, and will leave deep footprints in your heart in this way.

When a person is born, his mind is not sound, and it is easy to have unhealthy thoughts. In this kind of distorted mind, once someone is regarded as a bad person, out of self-protection, it will go to extremes.

So in my opinion, habits and personalities can completely change lives.

Your personality makes you often misunderstand that someone often attacks you, which shows that you are immature, do not know how to use things flexibly, and do not know under what circumstances and in what ways and methods to make problems simple and feasible.

You're still in the midst of simple and violent work, if you have any ideas, I suggest you lay out the problem, okay?

Hey, yes, it's a good sign, you're miserable if you don't talk back to you, and talking back shows that she's suppressing you, why? Think about it, would you talk back to a girl you don't feel like? It won't be right, because you don't have mood swings in girls who don't feel it.

At most, it's just a casual joke. And if you have a crush on someone, but you want him to think that you are not so easy to like his person, then you will suppress the other person, this is obvious.

If you're a boy, girls may be more interested in you, think you're funny, and want to get closer by making jokes about you. But generally this damage is not too much. If it's too much, it may be that the girl is hostile to you or lacks emotional intelligence, she likes you, she is deliberately approaching you like this, she wants to get your attention, I hope to adopt, thank you.

If you're a boy. It might just be interesting to you. But I don't know what to do.

Or maybe I just hate you a little. I think you're a bit arrogant. And then to your detriment through words.

If you're a girl. It may be that she is jealous of you, or that she feels inferior to you in some way. So it was struck with words.

to attack you. If you're a girl. This kind of girl should pay attention to one point.

It's right that you can't have a heart-to-heart. Otherwise, I don't know how to get caught. If you're a boy.

This kind of girl can try to think about it. Because the personality should be very lively and cheerful, similar to the type of female man. Anyway.

It's up to you to think of it.

It may be that it is interested in you, but it doesn't know how to express it, so it is a savage way to get your attention, but it is also possible that it is because it hates you and bullies you, hahaha, you have to learn to observe the details.

Suppressing you means that she is working against you, and if you ignore her, she will find fault for no reason, there are always such people in life, especially when you just come to work in a strange place.

Who told you to be so high-profile? A little undertone. No one will suppress you.

There are two possibilities, like you or hate you very much. Caring about you means that I have you in my heart, I may like you, but I don't have the courage to express it, so I want to get your attention, and the other is that I hate you very much, I just don't want to see you good, I just want to bully you, and I can experience it myself.

There is a reason why that girl always oppresses you, first, you are more beautiful than her, second, you have better academic performance than her, and third, you have more friends than her, it is normal to have such a person.

There are two things at stake:

1.Human Nature The word bullying applies to a point in human nature.

2.Hostile You are superior or slightly superior to others in one area, which can give people a relative distance and lead to disagreements in life.

I think this is a way for little girls to attract the attention of boys, just like when a boy has a girl he likes, he will tease her and get her attention, which is the same reason.

Of course, it may also be that I can't get used to your bragging, and I can't help but want to say a word.

But I think this girl has no ill will towards you, just kidding.

If you're a guy, she's probably a little interesting to you and wants to get through this.

ways to get your attention; If you are a girl and she suppresses you in front of everyone and makes you very uncomfortable, it is obvious that she is intentional and unfriendly to you. If she suppresses you in private, it may just be a joke made by a close friend, the best friend!

Girls are much more complicated than boys, and they think more and do more. Sometimes she will be in a bad mood for no reason, so there is no surprise, just stay away from such a girl.

It may be that she likes you, or is jealous of you, and likes to hurt others to satisfy her inner satisfaction, and does not like to admit the good of others, or she may have a little inferiority complex in her heart to attract attention.

You may be stronger than her, and she is afraid that you will surpass her, so she suppresses you everywhere.

There are two possibilities for a girl to suppress you.

1. Like you and want to get your attention.

2. Be jealous of you.

Basically, these are the two possibilities.

Hitting is kissing and scolding is love, brother, you should be happy to have such a girl who likes you, remember to be nice to her.

You've ever liked girls.

Compound? If you don't like it, how can there be a girl who likes you?

If you like it, you zhi

How? Have you given her enough love and consideration?

Love is not waiting to come, you have to take the initiative to pay in order to reap the sweetness.

I thought: you probably don't have too many same-sex friends, right? This should have something to do with your personality, a confident, open-minded and masculine boy should be proactive, enthusiastic and generous in his dealings with people.

If you don't take the initiative all the time, who will look for you? Others still think that you are arrogant and reject people thousands of miles away.

This is an era of cooperation, so you have to improve your interpersonal skills, and there are many, many college students who are counseling because of their interpersonal barriers. In a sense, a person's interpersonal abilities can determine how far that person can go.