Why do I like a girl?

It's your third year of high school, don't be distracted! Put aside all the unhappiness and worries for the time being! Otherwise, I'm sorry for my family, and I'm sorry for myself!

You're mentally normal! There is no need to worry about this thought, because there is nothing at all! The most important thing is to do a good job of studying!

Hurry up and adjust yourself! Looking forward to your success.

Try to find her bad.

Don't get trapped.

It's really bad for you.

Adjust your mindset or see a psychiatrist!

You should learn more about women, know yourself more, and have more contact with the opposite sex.

The eternal topic between men and women is the love between men and women. There are boys they like, and boys have girls they like. Some people are red-faced when they meet the person they like, and some people are enthusiastic in the face of the person they like.

So, what kind of behavior do girls like boys?

If a girl likes a boy, she will rely on the boy as her own and will treat the person she likes wholeheartedly. And the attitude is different from other boys. The first manifestation of the difference is to remember more clearly what the boy commands.

If a girl is interested in a boy, as long as the boy explains something, she will record it in her heart, and occasionally provide you with some surprises. For example, you can do what you like, or give a surprise gift on your birthday. Another manifestation is that he will be very patient and gentle with men.

Once a girl likes a man, she will be very patient with this man, and her usual savagery will become gentle, and she will accommodate the boy in everything in life. When a girl likes a boy, she thinks about him even after a breakup, and she will contact him from time to time. If a girl breaks up with you, but contacts you frequently and constantly harasses you, it means that she is already in love with you.

Girls like boys' performance and always speak for boys in front of others. When a girl falls in love with a guy, she will often defend you before anyone else hails. If you defend you in front of outsiders, it means that this girl likes you very deeply.

There are four aspects of a girl's liking of boys, she will remember the things the boy tells very clearly, treat the boy she likes more patiently and gently, and will continue to harass and contact the boy when she breaks up, and defends the boy when others count or criticize the boy.

As for your family of origin, your parents, you can choose to reconcile or not, forgive or not, and solve the original trauma, so that you can have more confidence to establish an intimate relationship.

Secondly, to look at the emotional problem calmly and rationally, in the process of pursuing love, you should have a little bit of your own opinions, don't like it because of the scum others are good to you, you like it, this kind of love is not necessarily love, and don't easily take gratitude as a sedan to know the excitement of love, such feelings often can't go to the end, the best thing to do is to understand your own deep feelings, and have a correct attitude towards feelings, so that you can really have the love you want!

Third, the lack of love when I was a child will indeed form a kind of dependence psychology, and it is normal to like a person who depends on it, just like your admiration for girls, but it is impossible to achieve love for a one-way like for one person to another, it must be a manifestation of love for each other, there is no difference between liking the same sex and the opposite sex, it depends on whether you like that person or not, will you want to have further intimate contact with closed socks? If you have both, of course, it can't just be a friend.

Fourth, you have resistance to intimate contact with the opposite sex, largely because you don't know or understand intimacy, and instinctively have fear or resistance to such unknowns, on the one hand, you don't like it enough, on the other hand, you don't know enough, if you meet your own heart and make yourself feel at ease, it may be much better, these things that only you can be sure of.

Finally, study psychology appropriately, read more books on this subject, learn to deal with all kinds of psychological distress, try to get yourself out of mental internal friction, and the first step in establishing intimate relationships with others is to establish correct cognition, and at the same time have a strong heart, everything must come slowly, come on!