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The New Year's flavor felt in the countryside is particularly strong, and more and more urban men and women yearn for the atmosphere of the rural New Year, which is intuitively confirmed, but if you don't grow up in the countryside, you will be troubled by a lot of red tape during the rural New YearFor example, the kowtow that is still prevalent in many rural areas is unbearable for young people in urban areasEven rural children who have not been in the city for a long time will be affected by this traditional etiquette when they come home for the Chinese New Year, but considering that they have been passed down from generation to generation, it is indeed difficult to make changes in a short period of time.

Since it is the New Year, it is natural to have a reunion of relatives and friends, although the crowd will make people feel happy, butRelatives are always comparing their children's studies, work and family, which can be extremely annoying for young peopleEven some young people with more stubborn personalities stay at home and refuse to go out in order to avoid such hardships when visiting relatives and friends, which is also a resistance to many traditional customs of the Chinese New Year in the countryside, after all, the generation gap between young people and elders is insurmountable.

In addition to these more common New Year's customs,The etiquette of the drinking table in some rural areas is also unbearable, especially in relatively remote and backward areas, and there is still a bad habit that women cannot attend the main tableAlthough it is not necessarily caused by the mentality of discrimination against women, but in a highly civilized modern society, these traditional bad habits should indeed be abandoned, I believe that many urban women are unacceptable to this, even if they go to the countryside to celebrate the New Year by chance, they will be hurt by these bad habits.

In general, the taste of the New Year in the countryside is indeed incomparable to that in the city, especially the various original ecological delicacies will make people salivate, and the various social fire activities before the Lantern Festival are also endless, but the deep-rooted traditional ideas and bad habits make it unbearable for young people in the city, and I hope that in the near future, these intolerable so-called customs and etiquette can be completely abandoned.

Giving out red envelopes and earning some money a year is not enough to catch up with gifts.

What I can't bear is not to let the cannon fire.

The most unbearable thing is that there is no sound of firecrackers.

Personally, I think that returning to the countryside will not be as convenient as the city, or not very suitable for the rural environment, after all, compared with the city, most aspects are not as good as the city, and even the quality level is a bit lacking.

The most unbearable thing about going home for the Chinese New Year is: people who love to show off, think that they are very rich, look down on people, and feel that they dislike the poor and love the rich. said that he himself was full of treasures, wore gold and silver, ate fragrant and spicy food, and was very invited.

There are also people who don't help the elderly cook in their hometowns and sit and wait for dinner, and they still have to twitter at the dinner table.

The most unbearable thing about returning to the countryside during the Chinese New Year is that everyone sits together and compares with each other, says some false compliments, and goes to relatives to buy a lot of things at other people's houses, but the New Year's money for the children is five yuan and ten yuan.

When I returned to the countryside during the Chinese New Year, the last thing I could bear was a group of unfamiliar people pointing fingers at my own life. It doesn't matter if the relatives say it, but some neighbors also follow the coaxing, and they really can't bear it.

I think that when I return to the countryside during the Chinese New Year, the most intolerable thing is that the three aunts and six mothers-in-law get together to talk about the object, and there is always inquiring about other people's salary income.

When I returned to the countryside for the Chinese New Year, what I couldn't bear the most was these things.

The first aspect is that I am a migrant worker working in the city, my personal opinion is that I have been working hard for a year outside, and I have returned to my hometown, and everyone gathers to talk and drink! For fun, the most intolerable thing is how much money you have earned this year, you say that you don't often play together, you don't usually speak, and now you suddenly borrow money from you, you say to give or not to give, if you say to lend him, I don't know much about this person, you have to use the money to ask him, he turned his face for you, this money is also Cui, saying that you are too immoral! If you don't lend it to him, say that you have no favor, and you won't borrow any money after a year!

Whoever has the easy money to tell the truth, who sets something up!

The second aspect of the thing, now that young people have not been married for a long time and have returned to their hometowns, what is intolerable is that some people ask, whether they have given birth or not, they can't be born and hurry up to check while they are young! I know best if I can give birth to myself, I'm sorry for the little couple who are embarrassed! Especially when girls talk about marriage, when they return to their hometown, some people will ask if they have a boyfriend and whether they have a partner!

These girls are embarrassed to speak! There is also the fact that today's young people have just been subjected, and they can't tolerate their parents forcing them to marry as soon as they arrive home!

The third aspect of things, let's go back to the countryside, it is mainly that many things are inconvenient. For example, the courier may not be able to find a specific village. And people don't have much culture.

It may be that the language is vulgar. But all the folks can understand. There is also the toilet, and now the toilets in the countryside are all squatting toilets.

Especially in winter, it is particularly cold to squat. It is particularly inconvenient, and there are more bear children, etc., and the network may not be available.

The fourth aspect of things, the most unbearable thing for me is drinking, going to a relative's house to a friend's house is the same, people can't drink and force others to drink, if you don't drink, you look down on you or something, drunk they seem to be very happy, I can't stand it the most, the rest is fine.

Let's go back to the countryside, it's mainly that a lot of things are inconvenient. For example, the courier may not be able to find a specific village. And people don't have much culture.

It may be that the language is vulgar. But all the folks can understand. There is also the toilet, and now the toilets in the countryside are all squatting toilets.

Especially in winter, it is particularly cold to squat. It is particularly inconvenient, and there are more bear children, etc., and the network may not be available.

The most unbearable thing for me is my relatives, who keep asking how you have been doing lately, whether you have a partner to introduce you to, or asking you about the relationship between you and the partner, etc., in fact, they don't care about us very much, they just want a little talk.

The most intolerable thing is the free-range dog in the hometown, as a person who is afraid of dogs, I will really be frightened when I see a dog running around without a leash in the countryside.

Whoever doesn't let you go back, you can ask him why directly, and I'm really looking forward to it.

Men don't have girlfriends, there's no point in going home, women don't have boyfriends, there's no point in going home, they go home and see a lot of couples, and they are full of happiness when they walk on the street, so they don't want to go home until the year when they are single, that's it.

There are many young people who do not go home during the Chinese New Year and still work outside, mainly because the salary during the Chinese New Year is relatively high, earn more money, and go home after the Chinese New Year, and the ticket is easy to buy.

Young people will be urged to marry when they go home, and in order to save costs, after all, the tickets to go home for the New Year are very expensive, and there are young people who will have a holiday very late, and they can't catch up when they go back, so it is better to be on duty in the unit, and there is a higher salary.

This phenomenon is becoming more and more common now, one is that the New Year is too busy to go back and forth, and the other is that all kinds of New Year's money during the New Year is really unbearable, and it is impossible to go home to buy gifts.

Nowadays, many young people, including some children, have grown up in the city since they were young, or they have moved to the city to live when they were very young, and they do not go back to the countryside much. Then we can know that many young people are very reluctant to return to the countryside.

Because first of all, they are accustomed to life in the city, so it is very unaccustomed to letting them return to the countryside, after all, although the rural development is also good, there is still a certain gap compared with the city. If there are no young people at home, the elderly will not install some wireless networks at home, so many children are used to using wireless networks to access the Internet at home in the city, and they will be very unaccustomed to returning to the countryside.

Another point is in food, clothing and housing. In the city, we can see a lot of street streets are snacks, you walk past the smell is very fragrant, but in the countryside, there are basically no such snacks, and even supermarkets are relatively few. If you wear it, you go back to the countryside and are surrounded by some old people, in fact, you will not pay much attention to what you wear, and you may just wear it casually, and you will not be as particular as when you lived in the city.

So in terms of living, the countryside is definitely not as good as the city, everyone in the city buys a small house, and then decorates it very beautifully, but the rural area may be more simple. Some pampered children simply won't get used to it. Soon after returning to the country, there will be a clamoring to go back.

The most unbearable thing for me is that kind of relatives ask questions, and the neighbor is the kind of person who likes to take advantage of small things, because the neighbor quarrels with your family because of a little thing.

That should be some relatives meddling, there are too many such relatives. But because I can't make too much trouble, I can only turn a blind eye to it, and if it really touches my interests, then I'm sorry.

I think the most unbearable thing is that those relatives and friends are asking all kinds of questions there, and I think it's very annoying. And there are some questions that they don't want to answer at all, and they keep asking where they go. I just find it annoying.

Now the most unbearable is definitely the network problem, although now the rural network is also slowly established, but there is still no way to compare with the city, so for us people who have certain requirements for the network must be unbearable.

I think it depends on the individual, if you have a loved one to go back with, then there must be nothing unbearable.

If your parents and relatives are waiting for you to go back in the countryside, then you also want to go back, and your heart is like an arrow, so what can't you bear.

If you don't have the heart to go back, there is no clean room, no comfortable bed, no wife, no computer too, no air conditioning, no shopping mall, plus the annoying three aunts and six mothers-in-law are unbearable.

During the Chinese New Year, I felt that the most intolerable thing was to get drunk, drunk and unconscious, which was the most intolerable, and I felt very tasteless.

The most unbearable thing for you to go back is the greetings of the seven aunts and eight aunts, ask if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend? When are you going to get married? I'm annoyed to hear that.

I'm still a student now, and the most annoying thing I hate when I go home for the New Year is to call the seven aunts and eight aunts, some people really forget what to call, and if you don't call it, you will be told by your parents, and there is studying, what does it have to do with you if I study well, I keep asking.

What a difficult question! A few days before going back for the Chinese New Year every year, I will be nervous in my heart, and we have worked hard for a year, and no one knows the ups and downs outside. The most helpless thing is the moment when I leave my hometown, the scene when I really have no choice but to leave my relatives.

It's relatives who ask this and that, ask if you are married, ask you if you have children, and don't ask you how your salary is, anyway, all kinds of questions are particularly annoying.

With less than a month to go until the Lunar New Year, young people who work outside the home are eager to return to the countryside to reunite with their families, but they are afraid to return to the countryside and dare not go home for the Chinese New Year.

1. Relatives urge marriage.

Young people in rural areas today are different from those in the past, they are not in a hurry to get married, nor are they in a hurry to have children, they pay more attention to the pursuit of their own quality of life. But relatives and elders don't think so, they are still very traditional, and hope that these young people can get married and have children as soon as possible. Therefore, young people who have been running around for a year will be urged to marry when it comes to the New Year, and the most annoying thing for young people is to be urged to marry, so they dare not go home for the New Year when they think of it.

2. I didn't make any money.

It's not easy to make money outside now, it seems that the income is not bad, but after removing water and electricity bills, rent fees, ** fees, etc., it is good to have extra money a month, but in fact, you can't save much money at all. But when I went home for the New Year, my family thought that I had earned a lot, so I finally had to buy a lot of gifts after returning home to give the children New Year's money, and the savings of the year were gone, so young people did not dare to go home for the New Year.

3. There is no New Year's flavor.

Now there is no New Year's flavor in the countryside compared with the past, and relatives do not move around, if they move around, they put gifts in the elders' homes, and the task is completed. The favor has become weak, and there is not much difference between the New Year and usual, the only difference is that it costs more money. So such an uninteresting year, young people are not very interested.

In fact, no matter what, the Spring Festival is still a very important festival for our Chinese nation, and it is also a very special festival, the family is reunited at this time, whether there is a New Year's flavor or not, the family reunion is the most important, so this year or go home.