How do you get along with people who are overly conceited?

Someone once said that if you can understand the Chinese people's feelings, then you will save most of the trouble. We have to deal with different people every day, but there are always some people with strange tempers, and working with them or communicating with them will be a kind of torture for ourselves. There is a kind of person who is overly conceited, centered on individualism, and his world is completely left alone.

To get along with them, you must have a good temper and emotional intelligence. They generally don't care much about your feelings, only about their own mood or their own interests. If you have strong ability, the ability is far superior to him, then you should be stronger, conceited people are generally admired by people they believe in, and sometimes their conceit does not exist at all in the face of some people.

Under normal circumstances, we still have to follow the golden mean of the ancient Chinese and use the methods of human affection and sophistication to get along with conceited people. To put it mildly, it's flattery, but it's not that unbearable. It's just a kind of tolerance and modesty of your own, you are conceited, I don't care about you, I want to skillfully dissolve his conceit about you like a fist on cotton, not only to embarrass yourself and suffer, but also to satisfy his conceit.

A conceited person is generally stubborn, so even if he doesn't speak the right way, or thinks very differently from you, you can't expose him and get on the bar with him in the first place. That is, superficial agreement, you have an idea in your heart and want to refute it, you can also express your opinion on a suitable occasion or when he is not there. Also, give him more time to speak, and all you have to do is agree, "Well, you're right."

If you take care of it, it will be much easier for you to get along with conceited people.

Conceit is only one aspect of a person's characteristic, but if you think that he is excessively conceited, then it is possible that you think that his behavior is bad.

I think in fact, in terms of personality, as long as you don't enter into psychopathology, that is, into psychosis, you don't need to judge him for being good or bad. It's a bit selfish, but his self is good to himself and his own people, and some people like to be conceited, which naturally means that his self is more complete, and he doesn't care so much about other people's feelings.

In fact, I know a lot of conceited people, because although these conceited people don't care about other people's feelings, they are actually very talented people, and some people are even well-read and rich, and they are not like ordinary ordinary people at all, they are ordinary people.

When you go to chat with them, you will find that they can bring you a whole world, and you can have your own opinions and opinions on a different topic every time.

I remember one time in high school when I was with a liberal arts student.

Chatting, he talked to me about the topic, why do women don't like to get pregnant, while men like to have children?

You know, for a 16-year-old me, I thought it was incredible to talk to a guy about such a topic.

People like them, under normal circumstances, talk to you for a while, and find that you have nothing to talk about, so they will naturally not talk to you anymore, because they feel that your world is too small and not as wide as theirs, and it is a waste of time to talk to you.

If there is really a very conceited person who is willing to communicate with you at this time, then you should thank him, because he gives you the opportunity to understand a world that you have never seen before, so it is a good choice to communicate with them more and treat them with a very open and respectful mind.

It's very simple, obscene development, follow him whatever he says and do, let him wave!

First of all, you have to think about what kind of mentality this kind of person has. Generally speaking, they are young, have not experienced any setbacks, the first 20 years have been smooth, in school or in life may occupy a little advantage or temporarily ahead of others, did not roll over the big waves, so they think that what they have experienced is the whole life.

People who are overly conceited often have a sense of superiority in speaking and doing things, a sense of superiority in honey, and feel that everyone is a spicy chicken except for themselves. Obviously I am a loser, but I feel that I have successfully reached the top, become the CEO, and reach the peak of my life. In fact, he may still be boiling hot water in the rental house and waiting to eat instant noodles.

This kind of person you let him be prodigal, obscene and developing, and he will be the king in the end. Let him continue to immerse himself in the world of his own life winner, don't persuade him, don't care about him, what he says is what, he says that he has a monthly salary of one million, you express envy, let him wander outside, there will always be a big brother who can't stand it to come out to clean up on him, you remember to send some fruit to see him when the time comes.

Don't take this too seriously, because you can't get good results if you're more realistic, just keep your distance.

In fact, many people will have a little bit of conceit. There is also the need to learn to empathize: the conceited person will not be aware of his conceit, and perhaps he is indeed outstanding in a certain ability, and has been provided for before.

He will mistakenly think that it is his true evaluation of himself, and he is kept in the dark by himself, which is actually pitiful. Only when they find a gap between their subjective evaluation and their objective reality can they realize that they have this problem.

First of all, you can't at least let him look down on you, because the conceited person thinks too highly of himself, so accordingly he has a high eyeliner for others. If you are not even objectively inferior to him, then in his eyes it is even worse. You can humbly show your unique strengths and specialties, and let him know what it means to have people outside the world, and there is a sky outside the sky.

But don't let him think you're deliberately comparing yourself to him, as that will make him seriously hostile and prejudiced against you. Although conceited people have a wrong perception of themselves, they still understand what efficiency is. If you can make rapid progress in a short period of time, although you have not yet surpassed him, he will also think that maybe one day you will surpass him?

In order not to let that day come, then his self-esteem will not allow it too much. They will secretly pay attention to you and learn from you. If he's lucky, maybe he'll find out his shortcomings and help him get rid of his conceit,。。

Summary: The most important thing to get along with an egotistical person is not to let him look down on you, which is the basis for getting along on an equal footing. And show yourself, but not too high-profile, so that he gradually pays attention to you. At this time, if you can pretend to be confused, try to pretend to be confused

If he has a bad nature, he can still try to be friends with him, after all, no one wants to be lonely.

Learn from him and make yourself strong.

Most of the conceited people look down on others, feel that they are better than others everywhere, selfish, rarely care about others, conceited people have strong self-esteem, contact with them, must not hurt their self-esteem, conceited people are also very inferior. If you want to get along with someone who is conceited, you must first understand the reasons for his conceit. Is it because of strong self-esteem that he is conceited or because of inferiority, or he is already very good and has conceited capital.

You can get to know these gods through the conversation with him, and I think people who are conceited because of their high self-esteem take a joke seriously, they are more angry, and they will refuse any help from others. People who are conceited because of low self-esteem love to compare, die to save face, and are better than others everywhere. Some people are better than others regardless of their family background or their own conditions, and people here have conceited capital.

It is easy to grasp the topic, communicate better, tolerate each other more, communicate more about everything, put yourself in the other party's shoes and think about it, as long as the other party is not particularly excessive, you can bear it, and try not to conflict with the other party. I think people should get along with each other with each other, if you know that the other party has strong self-esteem, and you have to show your advantages in front of him everywhere, then the two people will not become friends in the future, and may become enemies.

Be open-minded, be kind to others, treat everyone around you sincerely, don't be too careful about everything, and get by. If another person wants others to treat her, then he should treat others with the same attitude, don't blindly ask for nothing and don't want to give a little, and treat the friends around him with an open heart, so that you can get more friendships.

To be too conceited is to overestimate one's abilities. The inability to properly perceive oneself is essentially a manifestation of ignorance. As the saying goes, people are self-aware.

People who are too conceited sometimes act like they are arrogant, doing things that are beyond their means. Like the overlord Xiang Yu in history, he was caught with the characteristic of conceit, and finally killed himself in Wujiang.

People who are too conceited often don't admit their mistakes and insist on doing what they want to do instead of listening to the advice of others.

Conceited people tend to deliberately behave themselves, do things without going through their brains, and rely on their own recklessness to do things.

People who are too conceited are not able to handle life well and get along with others.

People who are too conceited will suffer setbacks in life and society if they do not correct themselves, and often the result will only be failure.

It is good for oneself to be properly conceited.