Because my family is against it, my boyfriend wants to calm down for three days, what should I do?

Actually, I think it's mainly you, your grandparents are from the past after all, and they may see some problems, but the main thing is that you think that your grandparents' opinions can be foreseen and bearable, so talk to the man. 1510 Just make it clear. The result depends on creation.

How old are you? Puppy love or what? It wouldn't be easy to do with the former, after all, they don't like it when they're old. If it's the latter, I can only say that the man's sincerity is unproductive.

If you break up with your family because of your family, there is nothing to save, if he really cares about you, he will not choose to break up with you because of your family's opposition, but he will convince his family. But now because he is too filial and too obedient to his family, he has to think about it. Even if you don't break up now, you will get married in the future, and it will not be easy to live together, unless he insists on being with you and his family listens to him, otherwise it's all about it.

If you break up with your family simply because of your family, that's your boyfriend's problem. Your love can't stand the test like this, let go as soon as possible!

Why don't my grandparents agree, I will think of one word when I see this, old stubborn.

If this man breaks up because of family reasons, he is too irresponsible!

The first time I went to my boyfriend's house, my parents were very cold to you, and after analyzing it, there are probably several reasons.

The first point may be that your boyfriend's parents have such a personality, but they are not very enthusiastic about people. There is no need to be too picky about this kind of words, because I have indeed seen this kind of old man, who is not good at dealing with people and not good at showing feelings.

The second point is that this kind of possibility is relatively large, that is, your boyfriend's parents do not fancy you, it may also be due to appearance, or family and other reasons, you are not the daughter-in-law they want in their minds, so they are very cold.

This is more common, because in the eyes of parents, their sons are the best, which is definitely not worthy of ordinary girls, and such parents are often overconfident and narcissistic. This situation is often more troublesome, and even if you are together in the future, they may be more critical of you.

The third point may be that it has little to do with you, it is that the relationship between the son and their parents is not very good and relatively cold, or it may be that this son often goes home to get his girlfriend, and his parents are used to it, but these two points are speculation, and the possibility is not very large.

Although the attitude of his parents towards you is important, it depends on how your boyfriend treats you. And you have to make sure that your boyfriend is the kind of mom boy who listens to his parents for everything, and has no opinions at all, if that's the case, let it go as soon as possible.

Thanks to the little girl for asking questions and asking for help on the Internet, it can only be my personal experience: online loans are not terrible, what is terrible is that you can't avoid it, and I also believe that you will soon get out of this black hole of online loans. Mother and son are almost 30 years of relationship, although you and your boyfriend are small, but the relationship is far less than that of mother and son, because if your boyfriend has any problems, your mother can do not hesitate, and you will look forward, because you have a father and younger brother behind you.

The in-laws are worried that their son will become their family's oil bottle after marrying you! That can only show that the man's economy is not very good! But a girl in love and marriage are different, after marriage, there will be a lot of expenses, whether you and your boyfriend can face them alone, if your boyfriend can give you enough security, so that you don't worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt for three years after marriage, this boyfriend can fight, if he needs to rely on his parents to solve the life after marriage, then your future will be very hard and not understood!

Girl, there are more men and fewer women in this society at present, don't be afraid, miss this, the next one will be better! At the same time, you will also be strengthened by this emotional experience! Investing in anyone is better than investing in yourself, and if you are excellent, you can take better care of your loved ones!

Your mother loves you very much, there is no doubt about that! Hope it works for you!

You should please your boyfriend's parents, maybe you haven't done something well. Having your boyfriend play a good role in the middle, and chances are his parents will change their minds.

3 allHello, after reading the content of your question, I first think that you are a good girl, reasonable, kind and filial.

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The reason why your boyfriend is cold to you is because of his family's concern about the problems that may arise in your later life, you say that you have a younger brother and are in school. You have a loan yourself, your family also has debts, and the man's mother is worried that you will have pressure in your life in the future, but she is not directly against you being together.

It's not that your boyfriend is really cold to you, it's that he is also stressed and needs time to convince his family, so he doesn't contact you as often as usual.

You have to believe that your love will stand the test, and that someone who truly loves you will overcome all odds to marry you back home

**From the web.

A colleague of mine, in a similar situation to you, has a younger brother at his girlfriend's family, who is in college, and her father owes a lot of money because of gambling, and they often ask his girlfriend for money.

His family knew that this situation was also very hesitant, and persuaded him to think about it, to buy a house and a car when he got married, and to raise children after marriage, and the financial pressure was very great, and the family was afraid that they would not be able to bear it.

My colleague's girlfriend also knew the attitude of his family, she thought they were not far from breaking up, but my colleague persuaded the family that they entered the palace of marriage smoothly.

After getting married, the younger brother of my colleague's girlfriend never asked her for money again, and her father asked for money less often. My colleague's family is not worried.

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Of course, people are different, different people will make different choices for the same problem, and there is nothing wrong with sticking to the original intention or retreating.

Your boyfriend doesn't want to break up with you, which means that he loves you, it's just that he is also stressed and needs time.

Finally, bless you!

Then put your requirements directly out, let their families rest assured, if it is for you to get married and ignore your brother and father, then there is no need to talk, everyone compromises a step, see where the problem is tangled, how everyone can take a step back.

It's June 7, 2020, and what you mean by June 10 in your text is 2019?

You typed so many words, didn't you see that his parents were against you?

The key is to ** your father's problem after marriage, is he want** or his mother wants**, if his mother wants to **, practice eloquence, plan the way of communication, and explain to his mother the problem of your father, your brother's problem, and the problem of bride price after marriage.

Did you quarrel with him? Did you quarrel with his dad? Your dad's problem, does his dad have an opinion, does he have an opinion, if he has a quarrel with his parents, you have to plan how to alleviate it.

The debt problem, you must make it clear to his mother that it is a premarital debt, and you will bear it yourself.

Since May 27, 2020, it has only been ten days, and you have been in a hurry for a few days without contacting you well, which means that you are not living together? If you are not cohabiting, it is advisable to live together for a year or two before making other considerations.

It's only June 7th today, so let him be cold for a few days, anyway, you are willing to give him space, and you won't pester him, so that you don't have to ask for an answer when he has no clue.

Just stick with it for a while, and if your boyfriend is still cold to you and doesn't want to face it with you, then give up. After all, life is short, and it is easy to find someone who is willing to spend the rest of your life with you.

It's not coldness, it's upset, he has to think about it, or how to convince his mother, so give him some time. If it doesn't work, it's divided. Don't dwell on it. Make up your mind for a month or half a month.

Persistence is victory, don't let go if you like it.