Why is the child always at home? Outside but very well behaved?

Because of the doting of their own family, they are particularly prone to tantrums at home, but people outside will not get used to them, so they will be very well-behaved outside.

Commonly known as the nest, someone at home will not be beaten, but others outside will not get used to him.

Because when the child is at home, the parents generally spoil him, so he can do whatever he wants, and no one spoils him outside.

Because they will feel very safe and relaxed in their own home, they will always think that their family will always spoil them, but they will feel very insecure outside.

Some children are in the nest because their parents are too indulgent to him, and they won't discipline him, if he goes outside, he won't dare to do this.

Because children will always show their truest side at home, and children will always instinctively hide something outside.

Because this child is a bit of a bully, he is afraid of being beaten outside, and when he returns home, he will spread his anger at home, which is not right.

Because the children can also feel that when they are at home, the adults always spoil her, but when they are outside, they will find that it is not like this.

The reason why the child is always domineering at home is that the parents are too good to him and spoil him too much.

People are like this, and people who are more familiar with themselves and close to them are more horizontal, and in your place, he also understands that there will be no problems and will not be beaten.

1. No matter what happens at home, no one will teach her a lesson. I'm the youngest anyway, and you're all going to have to let me.

Second, I went to the kindergarten, and when I went outside, I found that there were many people who were better than me, and before I could make a move, I was frightened. Naturally behaved on the outside, it is well-behaved, and sometimes it may be a little angry. ‍‍

I think it's caused by the family's excessive doting and excessive satisfaction.

Parents must also develop a good habit for him, and set a rule for him.

Most children nowadays are only children, probably because they have been pampered at home since they were young and do not know how to get along with others.

I believe that many parents have experienced the situation of their children in the nest, and this is also very distressing for many parents, because they are just in the nest to the outside, but they are not well-behaved, so why is this?

In fact, it is also because children have a greater sense of security at home, and they also know their parents very well, if they go outside, they will feel very strange when they come into contact with an unfamiliar environment. So when I'm outside, I don't dare to break the rules casually, and I don't even know what the rules are, for fear of touching something bad, so I will be well-behaved when I'm outside. This is also because children know their parents better at home, and the environment at home is also controlled by themselves, which also leads to children always being in the nest.

In the child's heart, he knows that parents will rely on themselves and will not behave too much to themselves, but once he is outside, when he behas excessively, he doesn't know what outsiders will think of him, or how they will treat him, so there are a lot of uncertainties and dangers for him outside. Although parents will scold their children at home, they will not do some very excessive behaviors, so children are in the nest at home, in fact, they also know that parents still love themselves and can tolerate their own behavior, so they will be in the nest. It's very well-behaved outside, also because there are so many people outside, and he doesn't know or have no contact.

When we enter an unfamiliar environment, we will be very shy and timid, and dare not act rashly without authorization, this phenomenon is actually more obvious in children, that is, the so-called nest horizontally, but outside it is very well-behaved. We can also think about whether this phenomenon often happens to ourselves, and we have a bad temper with those close to us, but we have a good temper with outsiders, which is also very similar to the behavior of children.

Because they are relatively timid, they dare not be too strong in front of outsiders.

Because children know that someone spoils them at home, and when they are outside, if they lose their temper, they are easy to be beaten or scolded by others.

In fact, there is a problem with parent education, parents are very spoiled by their children, and parents feel that what their children do is right, so children will be lawless at home. Children are not familiar with the outside environment and people, so they are very well-behaved.

Because of the excessive doting of parents, the child is a very smart child, understands his own situation, and the child understands his own dependence, so he will be like this.

Because parents spoil their children excessively, this situation occurs.

When parents take care of their children, will they find that most of the children are prone to the phenomenon of nesting? But when the child goes outside, the child behaves very well-behaved, and the same is true for his own children. As a parent, you should know that the main reason why your child will form a nest is because your child gets along with her family for a long time and can also understand the temperament of her family.

Therefore, children will have some practices to do whatever they want, and parents spoil their children excessively, resulting in children in the nest.

As a parent, when educating children, you should know that every child can live with their parents for a long time, so that children are not afraid of their parents at all. Therefore, when parents talk well to their children, they will find that children are prone to the phenomenon of horizontal nests. But when he went out to play with the child, Hu Liang could feel that the child was very timid and very well-behaved.

When parents see their children behaving like this, they should know that their children go to an unfamiliar environment, so the children are not particularly familiar with such an unfamiliar environment, and they are more well-behaved.

It is believed that parents should know that if their children have such problems, parents should properly consider taking their children out for a walk. At the same time, it is important to know that when every child is faced with a strange environment, the child's personality is completely different from the character shown at home. Parents should encourage their children to let their children unleash their natural instincts, so that others can better understand what kind of person their children are.

Although it is said that the child is in the nest at home, it can also be felt that the child belongs to a lively and cheerful child. In such a situation, parents should also encourage their children to make more friends outside, even when they are outside, they will be a little timid. Parents should encourage their children more, make them aware of their own shortcomings, and at the same time do not cultivate children's two personalities.

My child is not like this, I think the child is in the nest because of the daily life of the parents to the child's bottomless behavior continues to indulge too doting, to the outside is very well-behaved because the child lacks interpersonal communication skills, not welcomed by others, because he is at home no matter what the parents can forgive or forgive him, and everything is centered on him, and outside, others will not be centered on him, but the mountain can also because of his character does not like or hate him, isolate him, This caused him to have a huge gap in his heart, and he felt anxious and afraid.

Because the child's subconscious thoughts are like this, he thinks that everyone at home can spoil him, and when he is outside, he is not necessarily in front of friends, so he will be like this. Yes, many children are like this.

Some children are very afraid of life and will restrain their behavior outside, so this is a very normal phenomenon, and my children are like this.

Introduction: Some parents find that their children are still more distinctive, for example, they are more arrogant and domineering at home, but they become very timid when they go out, which also makes parents very worried. What is the reason for the child's horizontal face at home and cowardice outside?

In fact, this shows that children do not know how to express their feelings appropriately in their daily life, so in order to meet their own needs, they will be very presumptuous in front of people close to them, such as at home. Coupled with the connivance of the family, the child will become very arrogant and unreasonable. But the child knows that when he is out of the house, others have no way to humble himself, or that the child has been arrogant outside before, but because the child is afraid of other people's lessons, the child is very cowardly outside.

It means that there is a problem with the parent's education, if there is a child at home, unreasonable, parents should criticize and stop in time, so that the child knows that his behavior is wrong, so he does not dare to be presumptuous. Parents should not spoil their children too much, if the children are too spoiled, they will become strong and dry, and it is difficult for children to experience the hard work of their families, and they continue to ask for it. Therefore, when this situation occurs in children, parents should be vigilant and improve their own education methods.

In fact, every child needs space to grow independently, and parents should not interfere in this space. Some problems and setbacks encountered by children in the process of growing up should be thought about by the children themselves and propose corresponding solutions. Parents can gradually let go, in fact, it is also conducive to children to go into society later and deal with various problems in social life.

If parents have been interfering in their children's growth, then children are likely to give up the opportunity to grow up in the process and become more and more avoidant of society.

It is caused by personality reasons, family reasons, educational reasons, human reasons and environmental factors. Therefore, when this situation occurs in children, parents must pay attention.

It's because when I'm at home, everyone will condone the child's liquid split, but after he goes out, no one is used to his stinky problems, so he will be especially cowardly when he is outside the mascot.

Because the child is particularly hypocritical, the child's vanity is particularly strong, so it will be like this.

The "nest" of children is largely related to the unprincipled concessions of parents. When educating their children, some parents either have no principles at all, or set rules and compromise easily. Many parents will find that their children have goals in their "nests".

He is not "horizontal" to everyone, only to those who dot on him.

The family did not project an image of authority on the childMany parents only care about their children's food and clothing, and ignore their children's psychological and emotional needs. In the long run, it is difficult for the child to have an authoritative impression of his family. Three-year-olds are in the process of building self-esteem and confidence.

The child's impression of the parent's lack of authority directly leads to the child's lack of self-esteem and self-confidenceFeeling inferior on the outside. And this kind of inferiority complex will be vented when the child gets along with his family, thus becoming a "baby in the nest".

Children lack social skillsChildren go out to play with children and show timidity, and many times, it is because they are not being properly guided at homeFailed to learn the right interpersonal methods.

Parents do not teach their children how to say hello, how to express their needs, how to deal with arguments, and children have limited ability to deal with social issues aloneWhen encountering strangers, it is easy to appear fearful, withdrawn, and anxious.

And when he goes out, the child is no longer a "little emperor", no longer the object of care and attention, no one follows him like his parents, and is on an equal footing with other children.

Secure attachment between parents and children is not well established We say that attachment is the beginning of the child's socialization development, which is formed and developed little by little from the first months of the child's life, in this process, the child not only develops a high degree of trust in the parents, but also forms and develops the concept of self, awareness"I am loved, I am safe. He is also likely to develop positive exploratory behaviors and social needs, as well as a sense of trust in his peers.

And those children who do not have a sense of security are unlikely to develop an interest in the outside world, but will spend more energy on seeking and proving the love of their parents, so there is a situation where they cling to their parents, or frequently lose their temper with their parents, but lack interest in the outside world.

ConclusionWhen encountering this situation, we parents must pay attention to adjusting the parenting style, and at the same time give the child some independent training, so that he can match his own age characteristics and do what he can, so that he can appear as an independent person outside, instead of relying on his parents everywhere.

1. Children who are "in the nest", relying on their family's love and tolerance for themselves, know that their family will not do anything to them, so they do everything and are arrogant and unreasonable. 2. But outside, children will find that their arrogance and unreasonableness will not work, and every child at school is the baby of their parents, and only by showing good behavior can they win the love of teachers. 3. Many human behaviors are learned, and people are born with a tendency to "seek advantages and avoid disadvantages".