-
How can there be a husband and wife who don't quarrel, and if they are fired, they won't quarrel and get used to it! However, it is more rational for the two of them to sit down and communicate calmly, and find the problem and solve the problem.
-
Couples can quarrel for a variety of reasons, but there are two situations that are most easily overlooked. 1. There are many times caused by poor communication. When you are in love, both parties will patiently listen to each other's opinions, and it is easy for both parties to find common ground at that time.
After marriage, both parties have a clear understanding of each other's thoughts, especially when one party is in a bad mood and wants to talk to the other party, while the other party will arbitrarily think that they know exactly what the other party wants to say, so they rudely interrupt the other party's opportunity to express their views, which is easy to cause the other party to misunderstand, which is also a major reason for quarrels. 2. There is a lack of necessary norms between husband and wife. Although the husband and wife are not separated from each other, they are a family and a small society after all, in this small society, not only the relationship between the two needs to be coordinated, but also the relationship between the family and the outside world and both parties needs to be properly handled.
In order to handle these relationships well, the husband and wife must negotiate some rules so that all aspects of the relationship can be handled equally. It is also an effective way to reduce the number of quarrels between couples. In addition, the main point of the man's demeanor, on the premise of not involving issues of principle, try to tolerate his wife as much as possible.
-
Yes, if the two sides don't have a heart of tolerance, they will quarrel every day.
-
1. Why do husbands and wives always quarrel?
1. When husband and wife live together, quarrels often originate from complaints between each other, such as the wife complaining that the husband's things are not well placed, the husband complaining that the wife's house is not clean, etc. Many times this kind of quarrel doesn't matter to the two people after the quarrel, but if it is like this for a long time, the more they dislike each other, it is not a good thing.
2. There is another reason that causes couples to quarrel often, it may be the reference of other people in the family, so the husband and wife are unable to communicate well, especially the more sensitive topics such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is also a common factor that causes husband and wife to quarrel. Therefore, it is best for husband and wife to live in peace and talk calmly about anything.
Second, what does it mean that the two often quarrel.
1. For couples, if two people often quarrel, then it can only mean that the relationship between two people is really very bad, or that there are many contradictions between two people, and they have not been talking about it for a long time. The more noisy and contradictory the more conflicts, the worse the relationship, and eventually the relationship will break down, and you may embark on the road to divorce.
2. It is definitely not good for husband and wife to quarrel all the time, in addition to not being good for each other's mood and physical and mental development, it also has a great impact on the happiness of the family, and if it is a family with children, there are many shadows on children. As an adult, if there is anything to do with each other, it is better to talk to each other and not always use quarrels to deal with things.
Because in daily life, every word and deed of either party, every move will cause greater or lesser harm to the other party, then it is natural to quarrel, and it is impossible to have a husband and wife who do not quarrel, but the important thing is that no matter how deep the woman or the man is in the eyes of the other party and how deep the mutual understanding is, then there will be few quarrels, and even if they are quarrels, When you do the above, you are irreplaceable in the other person's heart, so at this time, just tolerate the other party and understand the other party. If the other person apologizes, then there is no one who cannot accept the other person in this situation. And the quarrel between husband and wife is also a very common thing, because no one's life is smooth sailing, so the same is true of feelings, so since this is the case, it is inevitable that some different views will occur, and it is the main reason for the quarrel caused by the difference of these different views.
There are inevitably bumps and bumps in life, and the same is true between husband and wife, as long as they understand each other more and be more tolerant, everything will be calm, and the satisfaction of both parties in the life of the husband and wife, there is no good relationship between husband and wife to live a married life when the other party is in a bad mood, and it is impossible to achieve what you need. >>>More
In fact, married life is like eating, no matter what you eat, no one likes to eat the same thing for a month or even a year, so occasionally some small friction is also a little good for love, but everything must be done in moderation, especially not to think about it, be cautious. Oh.
There are several reasons for quarrels: first, men and women have different ideas in some aspects, men pay more attention to the righteousness of their buddies, while women mainly focus on feelings, and second, although you have the same starting point and end point when dealing with the same thing, but there are differences in the process of dealing with problems, resulting in different opinions and easy quarrels. Third, people are more selfish, always consider from their own point of view, to look at the analysis of problems, will not take into account the feelings of the other party, because the perspective is different. >>>More
Have you ever been in this situation?