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Men should look like men, don't be mother-in-law, don't be indecisive. Everything you do, you have to be clean and neat, and you can afford to put it down. Truly successful men have their own qualities, not "groundless".
You can see how strong they are and admire their achievements, but you should also look at the sweat and hard work behind their success.
When a man begins to become stronger, there should be five performances, and if you persist for a year, you can also "turn over".
First, the wind and water are all on their own.
It's a very realistic society, and you know it when you're down once. People who come and go close on weekdays will take a detour when you are down, which is chilling. If you really want to make yourself stronger, you have to rely on yourself.
If you are not strong, who will you show if you are cowardly"? Others won't care about your tears, but when you succeed, they will still give you applause, and they will still "tend to be inflammatory". When a man becomes stronger, he must be able to take the initiative to take responsibility and pressure, instead of complaining about society, let alone blaming others for suffering.
Second, there is no distraction and a firm goal.
Some people say, "A person can spend 60% of his time doing something, and the probability of success is as high as 90%." Most people don't succeed, they still don't spend enough time and energy, they always want to "sit back and enjoy it", or they are too tired, so they change the direction of their efforts. "Insist on Qingshan not relaxing", when you choose a goal that suits you, and then tirelessly pursue, even if you do not achieve the expected results, you must have gained a lot of experience, which is the foundation for the next sprint.
is who a man falls in love with, if he doesn't "chase and fight", it is difficult to hold hands for a lifetime. Those who fall in love with several people at the same time often don't get any of them, because his goal is "scattered" and his mood is wavering. People who are able to "turn around" are often "ruined and fighting against the water", and they are not running around or escaping from reality.
Third, keep exercising and be physically and mentally healthy.
Health is the greatest wealth in life, and if you are in good health, you can earn money back. Health is not only about the body, but more importantly about the health of the mind. A person with a twisted mind always sees the dark side of society, carries negative emotions, and does not feel good about anything.
A man who can shoulder family pressures and responsibilities needs a healthy body and a healthy mind. When he knows how to insist on exercising and cultivating his sentiments, his life will gradually improve, and people will become sunny.
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If everyone has their own mediocrity and their own excellence, we must have a good attitude to face it at this time.
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Since you have chosen your husband to be mediocre, maybe he does not have the ability to earn money. But he just worked hard for this family.
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So first of all, you can examine yourself, whether you are also a mediocre person, if you are not particularly good, then we can't ask our husband to be too good.
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How to say this, the days are originally pinyin, so it is natural to accept the mediocrity of the husband. Who can stand out?
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You think like this, peace is bliss, as long as he can be safe and happy, he will be happy.
That should be to learn to accept your own mediocrity, but also to be unwilling to accept your own mediocrity.
Some people can only be an ordinary person in the end, whether you are willing or unwilling, this is a fact, but with a normal heart to accept yourself will live an easy life, contentment, what kind of ability to take what kind of road, everyone will change the society, with their own strength to tighten their own screws, this society will be better. Facing up to yourself, accepting your failures, and trying to do what you can do is what I think is the way to accept your mediocrity.
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