If you have a bad family background, others care a little about you, and you will feel a little unco

If your family background is not good, if others care about you a little, you will feel more uncomfortable, and in this case, it is because you feel wronged. Because there is a person who understands your grievances, you are more moved.

This is caused by an inferiority complex, if your conditions are not good, it is most likely to lead to such a mentality, so at this time you must adjust your inferiority complex.

It may be because of the extreme inferiority complex in your heart, so when others are kind to you, you will also feel pity from others.

I think you should have a strong self-esteem, although your family is not good, but you also have your own dignity as a person, you feel that others care about you, in fact, this is a kind of pity for you, so you feel so uncomfortable.

It's that you don't need the sympathy and pity of others! You feel that even though your family is not good, you don't want others to sympathize with you. That's why I feel uncomfortable.

In fact, if you have a bad family background and others care about you, you should feel happy because they really care about you. You feel a little sad in your heart, maybe you have some low self-esteem.

If you feel that your family is not good, others care about you and feel uncomfortable, because you are too inferior to be so sensitive.

If your family conditions are not good, others are a little concerned about you, and your heart is a little uncomfortable, it must be because of the feeling of inferiority.

It should be your heart problem, you can go to see a psychiatrist, I don't think there is a big problem with a bad family background, but there are a lot of constraints from a good family background, you can make true friends, because there is no money, a lot of intrigue and intrigue in money will disappear, and more is to enjoy your life.

If your family background is not good, and others care a little about you, how can you feel a little uncomfortable in your heart? It's not very good, it shows that the classmates are still very enthusiastic and willing to help you.

Hello, the main thing is that you mind the family situation, then others will ask you to be unhappy, you have to change your mentality.

Prove that you are a very grateful person and that you will find it very uncomfortable that others are kind to you.

This situation depends on the attitude of the other party, if the other party is sincere, then you have no feelings, you should feel grateful, grateful.

If your family is not good, others care about you a little bit, will you do it? How? No, it won't.

Do you feel that when someone cares about you, you feel that he is pitying you?

If you don't have a good family relationship, others have a little relationship with you, and you feel a little uncomfortable, I think it may be that your self-esteem feels hurt, so you feel a little uncomfortable.

I have several ways to help the landlord solve the problem of low self-esteem due to poor family background. One is through your own effortsEarn some pocket money to help yourself improve your quality of life at school。The second is to try to give full play to their talents in other fieldsEstablish a new competitive advantage

The third isMaintain a positive and optimistic attitudeto recognize that wealth is only one part of life.

1. The most concise way to solve the inferiority complex in this situation isWork your own way to earn money。The courses for university students are not very tight, and there is a lot of free time on weekends, so classes are generally not arranged。So use your knowledge to do an English tutor, math tutor, etc. to increase your incomeis a very realistic and feasible approach.

And this way of earning money will not only meet your own consumption needs, but also reduce the financial pressure on your family, and develop your social skills and work ability.

2. Establish your own competitive advantage from other aspects. In modern society, knowledge is money, and ability is wealth。The fact that your family is poor now and you don't have enough money doesn't mean that you will continue like this in the future.

Therefore, instead of wasting more time worrying about your own money, you should go to the library more to read, study, or participate in activities in clubs to develop your communication skills and skills.

A positive and optimistic state is also very important to improve low self-esteem。Because you have to recognize that there are still many poor people in China, and families with average family backgrounds account for the majority of society. Therefore, you do not need to have any inferiority complex about your family's wealth, but you should work harder, try your best to change the living situation of yourself and your parents, and strive to create a better future for yourself.

In short, it is sometimes difficult to avoid low self-esteem about family background, but there is no need to be depressed about it, or afraid to go out to eat and shop with classmates. Everyone has their own consumption ability and consumption concept, just stick to yourself.

I came from the village of farmer, and I used to go to bai

When the crops are ripe, I will go home to harvest wheat, but in the past two years, my parents have not been able to do anything, so I have no farmage, and I do not have an inferiority complex because of my poor family background.

A person cannot choose to be born into a family, but he can make himself stronger through his own efforts, I believe in you.

In college, each classmate's family background is different, du

There is no need to feel inferior for this, because now you don't have the financial ability, just focus on yourself, the most important thing is not to blindly compare, it is better to do something interesting and meaningful.

It is useless to have low self-esteem because of family background, it is better to study hard in college and change your quality of life through your own efforts.

My family background is not very good, and I am not very willing to go shopping often. And I am also very envious of the people around me who can wear it.

Back to a brand. At first, it was okay, I didn't feel much about famous brands, but then I gradually nourished the concept of appreciating famous brands, and I was also very envious of being able to wear famous brands. But I have never had low self-esteem, my parents have given us everything we can and without reservation. We should not feel inferior for these things, and besides, such a state is not the worst, the worst is the really poor.

We should not feel inferior, we should feel lucky.

Can't do bai

The rich second generation is hard.

Du Li is a rich generation, the family background is not good, it can only be said that your parents have no money, but you can use your own power to make money, you have already studied in college, there should be a lot of opportunities to make money by yourself, and you can work hard to change the fate of the family in order to fundamentally solve the problem, whether the family is good or not does not affect your own future, don't use the bad family background as an excuse for not working hard.

If you look down on you, it means that the man is not a good person, not a person who takes a fancy to you, and you can break up. The nobility of people is not judged by money!

Actually, it is.

The problem of copy mentality is too much to save face.

Bai leads to inferiority complex, you just see the surface, zhi maybe they are not as happy as you, maybe they have a good family, but their parents do not care enough for them, so they can only make up for it from money, although their family is not very rich, but the family is concerned about my parents who love me, so if you want to change your mentality, you will not feel inferior! You will also feel like the happiest person!

It's always because of the family's financial situation.

Why should you lose your self-esteem? Isn't that what motivates you to work hard? In addition, low self-esteem is just your own opinion and disapproval of yourself, please note that you eat and play with those classmates who are better than you, but people don't mind you, these are just yourself denying yourself.

To eliminate this inferiority, you only need to work hard, and strive to make yourself superior to others in some aspects, and get the recognition and admiration of others.

Although there are a lot of rich people, Du is the same as you, there are many people with ordinary family backgrounds, and even people with difficult families.

There are more people coming back. A: Since you know that your family situation is worse than others, why don't you try to create what you want with your own hands? Spending your own money is more glorious and proud than spending your parents' money, right?

Why copy? What is inferior? If you really have ambition, you have to be motivated to earn more than them, and let your children no longer experience this feeling in the future, how good.

And the classmates' money is not earned by themselves, you really have nothing to be inferior in front of them, don't regard money as the most important thing.

Society is so realistic, if you have money, people are very jealous of you, and if you don't have money and status, you are inferior, so why do you want to be with money?

This is because of your inferiority complex, and friends do not look at background identities, but at the communication between them. If your friends care that you care about you, get rid of that. Playing with their money (rich people anyway) is what it feels like to be friends.

True friends are people who have difficulties to help you and support you, not to laugh at you, it doesn't matter if they have money or not, they make hearts, don't care about those.

If you're uncomfortable, keep your distance, making friends is based on personality rather than family, it's better to stay comfortable, you're not happy, why do you want to mix together? Masochism?

It's you who have too good a face, do you want to play with them, see if they are really sincere, if you are sincere, it is worth making deep friends.

There's no need, it's because you're too face-saving and too strong! They have the money to want to take you to play, but they don't treat you as an outsider. You just have to be grateful for their kindness! Don't take people's kindness as showing off in front of you!

Mentality, don't be arrogant or impatient when you have money, don't feel inferior when you don't have money, those people naturally have your own points when you interact with you, don't think too much about some aspects.

No matter who you play with, as long as you feel unhappy and aggrieved, is it fun to continue playing?

If he believes it, he probably doesn't think he deserves you.

If he doesn't believe it, he should think you're lying, you're a fake, so he leaves.

However, the former is a little more likely. My husband also has no money in the family, he feels sorry for me, he often hugs me and says that you marry into our family, it is like a phoenix turning into a grass chicken.

We almost broke up because of this, but then I gradually understood that for him, you should try to show your weak side, let him protect you, so that he doesn't feel worthless, and then you have to go to his house more often to talk to his family.

Just don't put too much pressure on him.

Then I have to tell him: It doesn't matter if you have money now, I believe that you will succeed in the future.

That's pretty much it.

Maybe the man is making excuses, and you can tell him what you think again.

Hello, a bad background will have some impact on yourself, but in study and work, most of the time you still rely on your own abilities in all aspects. You may need to understand this for yourself, and your birth does not determine other aspects of you. You can prove it all by your abilities.

Take a look at what you've achieved, or do something to make it a success. I believe you can! Hope it helps!

If you're a primary school student, they're not going to be too much to do to you, because they're not sensible, and when you get to middle school, especially college, you should rarely discriminate against poor students, because you have your own standards of judgment, and if you study well, no one will bully you, even if you're weak, and when you're in trouble, others are willing to help you.

Ignore them. The glory and shame of going to school don't last a lifetime. What is in society is true. You'll have to compete with them to see who can have the last laugh.

Don't feel inferior Do other people's families have rich Or there are fewer rich people and more poor people There are hundreds of thousands of dollars in the family to be considered a little rich Your classmates have hundreds of thousands of dollars in their families...

Rely on them, don't scold your classmates, what's the big deal about being poor, isn't it also a human being, dead pulling is not pulling to make fertilizer, I hate people who don't respect others the most, don't be such classmates and friends.

It's nothing, so Einstein didn't commit suicide sooner!?

We go our own way! If you ignore it, you will ignore it, and justice is far from being right!! Let them grow up to blush at their sons and say that they were ignorant before

Believe it! Time washes everything, everything is instantaneous!!

What do you want them to look up to? Just do your part, I never answer such people.

Let's just say, you're all too rich! Our family can be compared to your big family! No way! It's not my fault that I'm poor! Congratulations on being born into a large family.

It's good to go your own way, those little children, they will only spend their parents' money, and when they work in the future, they will buy good ones for their parents, they are good children, and people must be filial!

Does it matter, does it matter.

You're a little inferior.

Relax and you're definitely on the merits.

Take a good look at yourself.

Get to know yourself.

You can do it.

This has to ask yourself, if you love him enough, then even if the conditions are not good, it is nothing, two people can work together. If you say you love him and worry about his conditions, then you don't love him enough, so let's choose again, and don't regret it later.