We re both only 20 years old, and now we re pregnant again, do we want it?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-30
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Dizzy. Don't say it. You're at risk of not being able to have children. You should not have children, and there will be no more.

    If you want to, then you're ready now. Later in life your life will be miserable. At such a young age, there is no great future and freedom. So homeschooling is important. It's sad.

    Knowing that it is very stressful to be pregnant unmarried, you are still ** three times, I don't know what you think. If a woman does not love herself, she has no love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Too many times will lead to infertility, maybe you beat this, you won't be able to be a mother in the future, it is recommended not to**, you can give your parents first after birth, and 2 people can afford to work to raise a child.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Any miscarriage may lead to secondary infertility or habitual miscarriage, relatively speaking, the more miscarriages, the greater the damage to the uterus. It is advisable to consider your decision carefully.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Having children out of wedlock is stressful. But it must also be considered already ** 3 times. The risk of reflow is significant. Why don't you take security measures beforehand. I don't understand what your boyfriend's attitude is. His family hasn't thought about selling for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's time for this, because you've done it 3 times, and it may cause a habitual miscarriage and infertility! And the damage to your body is considerable!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Such a person may have another choice in life, after all, everyone's attitude towards life is different, anyway, I can't accept that kind of life.

    In the most youthful time of life, but used to have children, without their own life freedom, the future life is likely to be limited by the child's family. In my opinion, this kind of life is not meaningful, of course, everyone's pursuit of life is different, and everyone's outlook on life and values are different. That's why there are people who get pregnant before the age of 20, and they may be exposed to society too early, face the choice of marriage too early, and start a family.

    In my opinion, these are incomprehensible, but they are also understandable. I can't understand that it's because I haven't met the person I really love, so I won't give too much of myself and sacrifice too much. I can understand that it is because everyone is different, everyone's life is different, they waited for me to get married and have children early, it is just their life choice, we have no right to evaluate anything, let alone talk nonsense about other people's badness.

    The kind of life they choose is what they like, but they can't be accepted and liked by me. I don't like to be involved in children and family matters, I like to live a freer life. And I think that around 20 years old, it is the most youthful period of life, and at this time, you should work hard to improve yourself and make yourself a good enough person.

    To be a mother, I think she should be very good in her own right, at least be able to give her children a good educational environment. At the age of 20 or so, you have just grown a little bit from a child, and in a sense, you are still a child, so how do you educate and raise a child? What are you capable of raising a child?

    These are all problems, but these problems all fall on your parents, that is, the child's grandparents, so isn't this affecting the parents?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Although the choice of many things is in their own hands, I think this kind of person is still extremely irresponsible to himself, and he is also irresponsible to his children, and he will definitely disappoint his parents.

    If you are not yet 20 years old, you should still be in junior high school or high school, and what you should do at this time should be to study hard, strive for a good high school or university, and strive for your future. Early love is actually understandable, after all, they are all boys and girls in the flower season, and they will definitely have some good feelings. But it should be a formeous feeling, and it's your own body, and you should be responsible for it.

    Take a step back and say, if you really can't control yourself, then you should also take protective measures to avoid some things from happening, after all, you are still so young, how to deal with the arrival of this child. Do you take a leave of absence to give birth to this child, then what will you do in the future, and what will the people in the school think of you. Or is it **, that kind of damage to the body is particularly great, not to mention that it is not yet 20 years old, and it is likely to lead to infertility in the future.

    And if you get pregnant before the age of 20, you will inevitably have to face some gossip, which will hurt your parents very much, and the neighbors will point fingers at them behind their backs and talk about them all the time, and they will also feel that they have not taught their daughters well, so this kind of thing will happen. Parents may be innocent all their lives and have a very good reputation, but in the end, it will be bad for this unfilial daughter.

    Therefore, many times, we must be responsible for ourselves when we do things, think more about ourselves, and think more about our parents, which is the right way to do it.

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