How to tell a person is good from bad? In what ways can you judge a person s good or bad?

What politicians, military strategists, and strategists say that they should learn from him, but what can they learn from him, learn from his political wisdom, and we are not done with political science and military strategy, should we still lead troops to fight? So for ordinary people, his wisdom of recognizing people and recognizing people is particularly effective, and everyone knows that he is very accomplished in this area, and he can often take one after only a few meetings.

There is no distinction between good and bad people, and they should be evaluated from a certain aspect, such as how they behave in the world, how they treat people and things, emotions, personality, relatives, family and friends, etc.

Idioms for evaluating people: noble, modest, helpful, proud, humble, arrogant, selfish, selfless, loyal, enthusiastic, helpful, etc.

Sentence of evaluating people:

1. Love can make people forget time, and time can make people forget love. As the hour hand turns around and the calendar is torn off page by page, it will gradually fade out of your memory, and your heartache will slowly heal.

2. The meaning of a person is useless, and the real meaning is reflected in the interaction with people.

3. Jealousy is actually a deep inferiority complex, and a person who harbors jealousy in his heart will never become a useful person.

Evaluation is a Chinese word, pronounced píngjià, which means to refer to the conclusion of a judgment or analysis of an event or person.

From Song Wangyi's "Yan Yi Conspiracy", Xu Shuofang's "Preface", "Song History, Yin Yi Biography, Qi Tongwen".

First, the eyes. The eyes are the windows of the soul, which can reflect a person's mental activities, happy or sad, like or disgust, sincere or deceitful. For example, when you are happy, you smile, and when you are sad, you have a wound in your eyes; Affectionate gaze when sincere, evasive gaze when deceitful, etc.

Second, small limb movements. A person's unconscious body movements are also the most reflective of people's psychology, for example, when a man lies, he will not feel like scratching his nose; Rubbing hands when nervous; When confused, they will hold their heads in their hands or scratch their heads; Holding your hands across your chest indicates that the person is cautious, has a sense of distance, and insists on her own opinions, which are all small actions made by the human body inadvertently. Third, expressions.

As the saying goes, a good relationship is born from the heart, and a person's joy, anger, sorrow and happiness can basically be seen from the expression, and it will be found from the subtleties of the facial features. For example, a heartfelt smile is the overall movement of the face, the corners of the mouth are raised, the eyes are narrowed, there will be wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, and the eyebrows have a certain inclination, while the whole facial movement is slightly stiff when smirking, and the eyebrows do not change. Fourth, the way of speaking and attitude.

If a person likes or hates you, the way he speaks and the attitude will be different; If a person asks for you, then he must speak enthusiastically and his attitude will be much better than usual; When a person likes to show off and boast when he speaks, then such a person should be an arrogant, complacent, and conceited person. Different psychology, different situations, and different people have different ways of speaking and attitudes. Fifth, dress up.

This characteristic should be the most obvious and easy to identify, and a person's dressing style, hairstyle, makeup, etc. can also highlight people's psychology. For example, people who dress casually and do not pay attention to their personalities are hearty; People who dress up fashionably follow the trend and are avant-garde in thought; People who dress modestly are stubborn and do not show their opinions; People who wear bright and eye-catching clothes with heavy makeup are confident and have a flamboyant personality. 

Nowadays people are very good at disguise, and it is difficult for you to judge whether a person is good or bad from one side or in a short period of time. But China has always said two words very well, one is: see the hearts of the people over time; The second is: like gathers like.

If a person pretends to be good at the beginning, he can't pretend for a lifetime without enough patience and acting skills, even for a short time; But if he can pretend for a lifetime, and without hurting you, it means that the person is not bad. A good person, he will definitely have good friends, even if you don't know that his friends are not not in the category of good, but as long as you say something once, how much connotation is in his words (whether the words are coherent and logical, whether they do not take into account the feelings of others, whether they are inconsistent, whether the words are flickering, whether the person will tell you bad things about the person you care about, even if it is only implicit), you can make a rough judgment. This standard must be taken care of by yourself.

It is difficult to use a certain yardstick to measure a person's quality in interpersonal communication, the most important thing is to look at yourself, you think you can talk to him, you can talk, then he will be a good person in your eyes, otherwise, you should not make more. Of course, it's best to keep your privacy yourself, and if you can't keep your own little secrets, don't expect others to keep them for you.

The above remarks are purely personal opinions! Hope it works for you. ）

Looking at a person's good or bad, there is a classic saying:

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time!

The above is to observe for a longer period of time; Of course, we can also quickly understand a person's good or bad from a person's ordinary details of lifestyle, and how to behave in the world; For example, a person who is usually helpful and willing to suffer will not be so bad that he will not be bad; However, this is not absolute, some cities are deeply hidden, and it takes a long time to carefully observe to understand the good and bad of the other party.

The shape of the man's lazy discipline is closely related to his own personality, and the conclusions of the Chinese physiognomist are relatively close, but not identical, and now let's take a look at the fact that he said that the people of Changxia are more delicate and elegant, but they also seem very cold and arrogant, and they are too reserved, and people with too thin chins are usually accompanied by neuroticism, and family and marriage are very easy.

I think, first of all, you must not judge simply from what he did, if you have seen a crash, you will understand that a good person who dares to save people desperately dares to do bad things about sexual harassment, but can you say that because he is sexually harassed, he is a bad person? No! There is also a righteous policeman who kills a civilian by mistake and then does not call the police but hides the evidence, but can you say that it is a bad person?

No! So how do we judge whether a person is good or bad!? Good, I think that a person's good or bad only depends on what you think, how you think, for example, most people think bin Laden is bad, but will those **** think he is bad? No!

That's why I say that a person's good or bad only depends on what you think, and the decision depends on your own psychology, and the influence is multifaceted. Then you ask me how to judge a person's good or bad, then a person has a person's opinion, this matter can not be established, anyway, if you want me to see, that is, I think that those who violate the moral bottom line are bad people, so what is the moral bottom line? Or do you have to have a person with a view, and a person with a bottom line, right?

Of course, there are some people who don't see it that way. That's why I said that everyone has a different way of telling a person from good or bad. You can refer to mine, but I hope you can think for yourself what kind of people are good people and what kind of people are bad people.

The quality of people can not be seen, otherwise how could there be such a thing as a smiling tiger. After all, people are good at disguise, and they will show their good side in front of the public, but who knows what he will do secretly. People's feelings are more subjective, and subjective is generally not objective, so it takes a long time to judge a person's good or bad, and after a long time, it will naturally show its feet.

Looking at a person is not temporary.

You can see it when you have a deep relationship.

But the premise is: you just know a friend, you don't have to go deep into the relationship, you get to know him slowly, see what kind of person he is, what kind of person he is.

It can be good or bad.

When you almost know him, you're having a deep relationship with him, it's from some aspects, hey, society is very complicated, you have to be careful, especially when you have friends, you have to be careful.

In fact, there is no absolute good or bad, but it can be used as a reference.

1. Words and deeds, people before and after words and deeds.

2. Character, both to value oneself and others.

3. Emotionally stable, emotionally unstable people are not necessarily bad, but it's like a time bomb, if it explodes, something will happen!

There is nothing good or bad about people, it just depends on how the person does everything! A person's essence is formed after the fact, if you want to know whether a person is good or bad, it depends on time! As the saying goes, you can see people's hearts over time!

A person's good or bad is only relative to a certain person, and there is no such absolute difference between good and bad.

The best way to identify the good and bad of people in China: when buyers find problems with goods in the business field, sellers are more active and enthusiastic to deal with them than when they are selling; When you borrow money, return it on time and be grateful to Dade. How many are there, please?

Only after dating can I know that there is a saying that people's hearts are separated from their stomachs.

The personality that he showed when he was alone.

The easiest way is to lend him 10,000 yuan and pay it back in a month.

Pay more attention to a person's eyes!

It can be analyzed through a few small things.

(10) There is a version of "Hu Sixianggong"; (11) There is a version as "Jinan Daoren";

There are no absolute good people, and there are no absolute bad people in the good. Good and bad are relative. No matter how heinous the bad guy is, there are people he cares about and will be good to this person, and for this person, this recognized bad guy is a good person, so there is no absolute answer to good and bad, and the usual good and bad are also moral concepts.

Don't be afraid of bad people, maybe you can make this bad person into a good person, and it is a very happy thing to turn a bad person into a good person.

Dream of a world full of good people.

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