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Hello! Human qualities include weight, psychological and cultural qualities. The original meaning of the word "self-cultivation" includes self-cultivation, self-reflection, moral cultivation and moral cultivation.
This is just a definition of quality cultivation. Specifically, I believe that quality cultivation is not only manifested in one aspect. First of all, whether a person is kind or not, this is the greatest cultivation and virtue, without this as a foundation, even if he is only high, he cannot be regarded as a cultivated person, this is also the most basic quality of a person, although it is basic but very important!
Secondly, in terms of appearance, the conversation of a person we see is also an excellent expression of a person's quality. The content of the speech, the issues of concern, and the words spoken are also good criteria for judgment. How you talk and what your quality is, you can just talk to him, and you don't need to say much, you can see it in just a few words.
Again, a person's thoughts, actions. Thoughts determine his connotation, behavior, and show his attitude and method of dealing with things. Don't underestimate it, a person does things and thinks about things, this is the carrier of his literacy.
In fact, whether a person has literacy or not, manifested in all aspects, these are just the most intuitive and typical. As long as you deal with this person, you will know whether you have literacy or not. Personal opinion, I hope it is useful, if you still have questions, you can continue to leave a message.
Let's study and discuss together.
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Quality is a person's upbringing, an intrinsic.
Self-cultivation refers to a person's character and morality, as well as an internal level of life and life. Rong is the level of internalization that a person has reached through training and training, and a person with quality must be a person with inner cultivation, not measured by status, money, and appearance. He is a true self-respecting person, a self-disciplined person, a quiet person, a principled and tasteful person, a person who knows self-respect and respects others, a person who is good at restraining and regulating his words and deeds, a person who only advances and retreats, understands self-reflection, and is a person with tolerance, strict discipline, elegance and integrity.
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People's cultivation is a kind of connotation, and the temperament that exudes from the inside out is closely related to people's cultural literacy. Parenting is the education given to children by parents in the family, and the performance of children reflects upbringing, which has nothing to do with education and family background, and cultured people do not necessarily have upbringing, and vice versa.
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Parenting refers to the level of education you receive, including the teaching of your parents, elders and teachers. Cultivation refers to the richness of what you have learned.
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Cultivation is influenced by the environment and family, as well as the school, and upbringing is mainly the degree of education.
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Elegant, high bai
Still; To: Fun. The character is noble, and the love is far-reaching.
It was originally appreciated that the author of the "Poetry Dao Jing Daya Edition" had the right to profound insights. Later, he described the person's speech and demeanor as good. Corporal Lixian - treat talented and virtuous people with courtesy, and make friends with ordinary talented people regardless of their status.
Must be respectful - respectful, respectful: dignified and polite. The attitude is very respectful.
Respect for the virtuous and virtuous - Li: treat each other with courtesy and respect; Shi: In ancient times, he was called a learned person.
Respect for those who are of high moral character and outstanding learning.
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It is shown in his way of dealing with the world, his style of dealing with things, his work, his speech and behavior.
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Upbringing: refers to an individual's relationship with their parents and the family environment.
The level of education received, the content of the DAO focuses on the internal etiquette and morality of dealing with others, including the words and deeds shown in daily life. It can be used on children as well as on adults.
Self-cultivation: refers to a person's self-improvement and self-cultivation, including not only etiquette and morality, but also intelligence and temperament. It is generally not used to describe children, but is used to describe adults.
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Self-cultivation is the accumulation of acquired learning and practice; Upbringing is the influence of the family or family and the environment in which the person lives.
Cultivation and upbringing will be embodied in the words and actions of each individual.
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A person's cultivation and upbringing can determine a person's fate.
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A person's moral character is revealed.
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This is a major event in a person's life.
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In a few words, one can be identified.
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When the body can control your soul.
When reason is still dictating your actions.
This is quality and cultivation.
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104 The cultivation of a Buddha and Zen is often embodied in this one place.
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<> "A person's cultivation is embodied in these five aspects.
1. Pay attention to your appearance.
Someone said: "A person's appearance hides his self-disciplined life and the life he is pursuing." "If a person is disgraced all day long, the beauty in life will slowly move away. No matter how old a person is, he cannot give up the pursuit of beauty.
You can not have outstanding looks, but you can have a good body through exercise, and you can clean yourself up. Only those who take life seriously can gain the favor of life.
2. Pay attention to words and deeds.
It's easy to get a good impression of people with a bright appearance and a decent outfit, but if you want to keep people alive for a long time, it's more about your conversation and demeanor. Some people feel very uncomfortable getting along with each other, but some people can always make people feel like a spring breeze.
A person's words and deeds are his best business card. The so-called high emotional intelligence is not to be left and right, but to have others in mind, treat people kindly, and do things thoughtfully. To get along with others and to be considerate of others is to be kind to yourself. Those who are gentle with the world will also be treated gently by life.
3. Temper your temper.
As the saying goes: tantrums are instinctive, and not getting angry is the ability. There are always things that don't go our way in life. Some people are led by temper at every turn, and really powerful people understand that excess temper is not helpful in solving things, and it can also affect physical health.
Those words and actions when you are angry often make people regret it when they are sober. Don't let yourself fall prey to bad moods, learn to restrain your temper in order to reap blessings.
4. Forging character.
Walking in the world, character is a person's best pass. Only by being innocent and honest can we be stable and far-reaching, and feel at ease.
Trees are afraid of hollowness, people are afraid of no quality, rather than being exquisite, it is better to be a man; Instead of being opportunistic, it is better to do things in a down-to-earth manner. Don't go with the flow, don't follow the crowd, and always keep your own heart. With a good character, all the good luck and surprises will come as promised.
5. Adjust your mindset.
If the heart is cloudy, there is pain everywhere; The heart is empty, and the scenery is everywhere. People have a heart, not to be uncomfortable, but to feel, if you want to live freely, you must learn to adjust your mentality. When you suffer a loss, smile calmly; When things don't go well, deal with them calmly.
If you are optimistic about everything, there is no mountain that cannot be crossed. Those who stay at will, look down on gains and losses, and can afford to let go are the winners of life. No matter how dark the front is, light a heart lamp, and everything will suddenly open up.
Only by constantly precipitating and improving, can you cultivate into what you want, and only by becoming a better version of yourself, the life you want will come to you.
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Ten manifestations of good cultivation.
Self-cultivation refers to a person's comprehensive quality, and a person's self-cultivation is hidden in the details of dealing with people, in the bits and pieces of life, and in communication with others.
2. Elegant conversation: Educated people will listen carefully to each other's speeches and never interrupt others' conversations casually.
3. Kind attitude: When a cultivated person talks to others or even subordinates, he always looks into the eyes of the other party and maintains a high degree of concentration.
4. Calm tone: In dealing with people, be calm and convince people.
5. Conversation skills: respect other people's views and different views from oneself, patiently state one's own opinions, analyze things, and explain reason.
6. Never be proud: No matter how brilliant your life is, you will not turn your experience into a reason for pride.
7. Keep promises: Honesty is the consciousness of a cultivated person, even if he encounters some special difficulties, he will not break his word.
8. Caring for others: Whether the other party is a woman, a child or an elderly person, a cultivated person always shows concern and gives the greatest care and convenience.
9. Be generous-minded: Cultivated people are often open-minded when getting along with others, and will not have opinions with colleagues about work, or even cut off contacts.
10. Be compassionate: When others encounter some kind of misfortune, they will always do their best to give sympathy and support.
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1.No matter how powerful you are, you don't just point fingers at others.
2.The moon is full of losses, and the water is overflowing, and you are in an advantage but not self-improvement.
3.Respect for strangers, but also respect for family.
4.Use both hands to hand things to others.
5.Respect for the service industry.
6.understands that the tree is a big move, and knows how to be low-key.
7.If you don't see through it, you can control your mouth.
8.When living in a dormitory, others know how to sleep quietly.
9.What you can't say in front of people, don't say it behind your back.
10.Don't regard lack of cultivation as a straightforward heart.
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