My mother remarried to a businessman in Uganda, what should I do? I am 4 months pregnant

Updated on parenting 2024-06-08
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It doesn't seem that you need to do anything. Since your mother agrees to marry him and have his children, it means that she thinks that this is very happy, comfortable, and risky, and that she will accept and face any situation in the future. I think you're a good kid, and it's important to be self-reliant.

    You won't rely on your mother and this businessman for your future life, right? Welcome and thumbs up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This doesn't seem to be up to you to think about, it's up to you, your stepfather, and your mother to decide whether to have a few or not. Anyway, you don't have to worry about spending money. If you don't want to live with them, you can go back to your Chinese father.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If your mother and him really love each other and are very good together, then he will not force your mother to have many children, because they will consult each other if they love each other, and if he loves your mother, he will respect your mother's choice, and he is a businessman, and he does not worry about food and clothing, which is very good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How many children did his ex-wife have? If his ex-wife only gave birth to one child, then he probably wouldn't have forced your mother to have children all the time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hurry up and get rid of the child, why marry a black man, is there no man in China, or no black man has money, what do others think of having another child, probably be despised, think about it yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Being able to give birth and wanting to have a baby are two different things, if your mother refuses to be a baby machine and the man is disrespectful, don't live with him, stay away from men who don't respect women.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Respect your mother's decision and bless her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As long as they truly love each other, I think children should be supported, after all, it is normal to marry a foreigner now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now it's not a feudal society, and if you don't want to have a ligation, you can go to the ring. If that person really loves his mother, he doesn't need to worry too much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The domestic ones can't satisfy your mother, so you don't have to worry about it

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, you don't have to worry about that, as long as your mom is happy with him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As long as your mother is willing, don't interfere, it's better not to get involved in adult affairs, just live your own life, and plan more for your future, this issue is what you really need to consider.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your mom can use contraception, don't worry.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's going to rain, and it's a child who can't stop it from getting married, all you can do is bless them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    African women are especially good at giving birth, and it depends on whether you are willing to have children for African men.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Pregnant, pregnant with his child, he doesn't recognize you as his own person, an outsider, married without happiness, it's best to break off the relationship with him now, don't be together, otherwise there is no happiness in marrying like this, leave the relationship with him early, and find a better home.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    He treats you like an outsider, what do you say?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Have you reflected with your husband, have you ever thought about the feelings of your children for this kind of divorce? Is it fair for your child to be born without a father's love? If possible, hire a babysitter to take care of you until you can take care of your baby after you give birth.

    Of course, if your husband treats you badly, then you can consider divorce. After the divorce, you are a single mother with children, and your income comes from **? Can your parents help you raise your child?

    Do you live **? It's hard to find a partner with a child, so think twice.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Divorce after birth is a very troublesome matter. And the lactating child must also follow the mother. As for raising a child, you have to think about the future path, but I still think that women should be self-reliant!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Not good. Marriage is a matter of two families. But your mother-in-law has no obligation to take care of you, so it can be said that it is the duty to take care of you, and it is the duty not to take care of you. The child belongs to you and your husband, and has no direct relationship with your mother-in-law. If your mother-in-law doesn't take care of you, you don't want children anymore?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This husband doesn't love you much, he said to return the money of the woman's parents, let him pay it back, pay off the divorce, what does that kind of in-laws mean, don't bring grandchildren together, marry a daughter-in-law and earn a nanny more than 100,000 and two grandchildren, don't let go, I can't stand the anger after I let go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't know how to cherish it, although it's a matter of two families, don't get through everything.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your husband treats you well, there's no need to divorce! In the future, you can live without your mother-in-law.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better not to get divorced, it's not good for the baby in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Are you married to your husband or his mother?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In the absence of such a requirement, marriage can be registered as long as both parties are consensual, have reached the legal age of marriage, are not lineal or collateral blood relatives within three generations, have no medical conditions that are not considered to be married, and have a sound mind.

    The following are the provisions of the Marriage Act:

    Article 5 Marriage must be entered into free and complete free will be between the man and the woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other or any third party to interfere with it.

    Article 6: The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women. Late marriage and childbearing should be encouraged.

    Article 7: Marriage is prohibited in any of the following circumstances:

    1) Immediate blood relatives and collateral blood relatives within three generations;

    2) Suffering from a medical illness that is medically deemed unfit for marriage.

    Article 8 A man and a woman who wish to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. Obtaining a marriage certificate establishes the relationship between husband and wife. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

    Article 9: After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, according to the agreement between the man and the woman.

    Article 10: Marriage is null and void under any of the following circumstances:

    1) bigamy;

    2) There is a family relationship that prohibits marriage;

    3) Suffering from a disease that is medically deemed unsuitable for marriage before marriage, and has not yet been married after marriage;

    4) Those who have not reached the legal age for marriage.

    Article 11: Where a marriage is entered into due to coercion, the coerced party may request the marriage registration authority or the people's court to revoke the marriage. A request by the coerced party to annul the marriage shall be submitted within one year from the date of registration of the marriage. Where a party whose personal liberty has been unlawfully restricted requests the annulment of marriage, it shall be submitted within one year from the date on which personal liberty is restored.

    Article 12 A marriage that is invalid or annulled shall be null and void ab initio. The parties do not have the rights and obligations of husband and wife. Property acquired during the period of cohabitation shall be disposed of by agreement of the parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment in accordance with the principle of taking care of the innocent party.

    The disposition of property that results in an invalid marriage caused by bigamy must not infringe upon the property rights and interests of the parties to a lawful marriage. For children born to the parties, the provisions of this Law on parents and children shall apply.

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