Is it possible for a girl s natural vanity to change?

What should be able to change, it depends on how you look at it, people are perfect, not to mention that there are innate, as long as it is something she identifies in, there is an introverted girl I believe she will change.

OK. Innate, it's just hard to change, and if she wasn't born with, there would be.

A woman's vanity is hard to change, unless she loves you to the point and is willing to give everything for you, including vanity :)

But the probability is very small, and besides, when you love her a lot, vanity will come back :)

Unless she has paid a terrible price for her vanity, has learned a lesson, and may change.

It's generally impossible to change, it's innate.

The likelihood is very small

You can try it if you want. Hah

Everyone has vanity, not girls!

Summary. Hello, do girls have vanity: Most girls have vanity.

Do girls have vanity.

Hello, do girls have vanity: Most girls have vanity.

Psychological research: vanity is the third sexual characteristic of women, relying on comparison to satisfy their vanity, is a kind of social means used by women, vanity is a manifestation of excessive self-esteem. Everyone has self-esteem.

And normal self-esteem is a reasonable, moderate. If self-esteem is impaired, or threatened. Or when you have too much self-esteem, you can have vanity.

Such as the jewels, swaggering, grandstanding, etc. If a woman's vanity is induced by self-esteem, she can hide her inner flaws and emptiness through vanity! Over time, you will fall into the trap of vanity and cannot extricate yourself.

It looks beautiful, but I think it can cover up the shortcomings in many aspects. In fact, I have lost myself.

Excessive vanity is a manifestation of excessive self-centeredness, they are very much in pursuit of others to their own acres of praise and praise, will be excessive pursuit of utilitarian mentality, the main swiftness of blindness will be manifested as blind comparison, extremely concerned about face, jealousy is very strong.

It is very unrealistic, very different from its own actual situation, and will become very distorted, and will excessively pursue the approval of others.

This is to be too vain, to care too much about what other people think, and this is particularly inappropriate.

How to change? The first is to know what vanity.

And then let's change.

The dictionary definition of vanity is: superficial glory, false honor.

Psychology believes that vanity is a distorted sense of self-esteem.

It is an excessive expression of self-esteem, a character defect that pursues false appearances, and an abnormal social emotion that people show in order to achieve honor and attract universal attention.

In daily life, everyone has self-esteem, people want to be recognized by society, people with strong self-esteem are more concerned about their reputation, prestige, etc., and people with strong vanity generally have strong self-esteem.

From the perspective of individual psychology, the reasons for vanity are as follows:

First, the concept of face driven. Love face is a national psychology that is common in Chinese society, face behavior reflects the feelings and needs of Chinese respect and self-esteem, losing face means denying their talents, which is absolutely unacceptable, so some people in order not to lose face, through the way of "slapping a swollen face and filling a fat man" to show themselves.

Second, with the dramatization of personality.

tendency. Most people who love vanity are extroverted, impulsive, repeatedly fickle, and contrived, with strong and strong emotional reactions, pretentious, lacking real emotions, and showing off themselves in dealing with others, and being restless. Behind vanity is a deep psychological defect such as low self-esteem and weakness.

If a girl wants to change her vanity, there is only one way, to change her vanity to self-esteem.

If a girl's vanity is stronger, how can she change it? I think that if you want to change the vanity of girls, first of all, mmmmmm Matter and the like have to satisfy him.

Girls in general seem to have this problem. I don't think there's anything you can do to change the environment, and it's really hard to get a woman to change.

1. Girls have vanity.

1. Girls have strong dependence and lack of independence. I think I am "lacking" in ability.

2. Girls have stronger self-esteem than boys However, because of dependence, self-confidence is not enough, so it is manifested outwardly as too strong self-esteem, too sensitive to certain things, concerned about others' evaluation of themselves, and internally as inferiority, not believing that they can achieve their wishes through hard work, and hoping to obtain what they want through a quick way.

3.Girls because of this kind of dependence is because of the parents' incomplete, incorrect education caused, often parents also have vanity, dependence and do not know it, generally this kind of parents pay attention to the cultivation of children's morality, but do not know how to cultivate children's ability, or their ability is not very strong.

2. Vanity**.

1、。The realization of self-worth cannot be separated from the needs of social reality, and it is necessary to base the understanding of self-worth on the sense of social responsibility, and correctly understand the connotation of power, status, and honor and the true meaning of personal self-esteem.

2. Adjust the need. For a secondary school student, the requirement for normal nutrition is reasonable, but the need for a wide range of needs is unreasonable. The need for clean and tidy clothing that is in line with the student's identity is reasonable, but the need to pay too much attention to the appearance and wear gold and silver is unreasonable.

We must learn to be content and happy, and think more about what we have in order to achieve our own psychological balance.

3. With a sober mind, face reality, seek truth from facts, deal with problems from your own reality, and get rid of the negative effects of herd psychology.

4. With physiological development, adolescents' self-esteem has also been developed and significantly enhanced. With the physical and psychological maturity of people, people's social awareness ability and self-awareness have gradually improved, and individual socialization has begun. With the development of self-esteem, vanity begins to intervene in the emotional realm of the person.

Vanity is actually a distorted sense of self-esteem. People with high self-esteem are more concerned about their reputation, prestige, etc. Doing good deeds, psychological happiness is a manifestation of a sense of honor; Cherishing honor and taking care of one's face is a normal requirement for maintaining one's self-esteem; And to do good deeds for the sake of praise, even at the expense of deception, this is a manifestation of vanity.

In general, in the face of women's vanity, most men have the spirit of "beating out teeth and swallowing blood": "Can this stump me as a man?" "Men who quarrel with women or even divorce because of women's vanity should be rare, and most men just regard it as a woman's ignorance or idleness, but this does not mean that women's vanity can be indissensibly inflated.

Most of a woman's vanity is caused by "scarcity", such as what she once wanted but could not get, and there is a deeper psychological state behind this that needs to be interpreted, that is, lack of confidence, which leads to a full sense of insecurity, and she has to grasp something substantial, or to please others and attract the attention of others. Showing off is a woman's self-defense instinct, which is understandable, however, if you can't strengthen your confidence from the root, for example, through continuous learning and self-enrichment, communicate with friends from the outside world, and live a vulgar and vain life every day, then if a man meets a confidant, he will soon be attracted to it, which is the real fatal sequelae. Therefore, a confident woman must not be able to get along with her purse in the first place, and she is happy to be a loser; will not be busy with the nonsense of "wives are more expensive than husbands" or "wives are more expensive than children"; Not to mention creating the illusion of a "public lover" like a nymphomaniac, waiting for others to be starry and moonless.

On the contrary, it should be the "gentleness" for fear of bragging, and the "thrift" of doing what you can, this kind of temperament is completely different from vanity. Whether it is work, career or community performance, compared to women, modern men have been at a disadvantage everywhere, in addition to trembling and getting along with women, if you still feel the vanity of women from time to time, it will definitely have an impact on emotions and marriage management, and if you can't keep the man himself, you will retreat first, I believe this is by no means what women who want to grow old with men expect. The vanity of women in the eyes of men is also manifested in:

B: I never ask for help, for fear of being laughed at by others for being incompetent. In the face of hardship, she would rather knock out her teeth and swallow her stomach, and usually you will be cold-eyed if you offer to help.

C: Never allow others to oppose her, especially in public, she is more authoritative than the Empress Dowager Cixi. If you contradict her in front of outsiders, you are offending her, whether you are right or not.

D: I always say that I am young, and when I am in my thirties, I have a mouth of "we girls".

That's not a question of good or bad! Vanity is something that women are born with and need! It's normal to have vanity, but it's not good to have strong vanity!

Look what kind of vanity it is.

Everyone has vanity, but the degree of vanity is different.

Some people are too vanity, and it's not good.

Vanity.. Generally everyone has it. It's just that some people are good at hiding. Some people just show it.