What kind of couples are most likely to divorce?

As long as the mother-in-law is involved, there is no inseparable disaster.

The most perfect husband and wife combination should be two people with complementary personalities, when one party is thunderous and the other party will not be on the tip of the needle, which is also similar to the physical principle of "the same sex repels each other, the opposite sex attracts", and is also in line with the philosophy of "overcoming rigidity with softness", therefore, if the personalities are too similar, both people are competitive tempers, and the couple's marriage edifice will be overturned sooner or later.

Grumpy, swearing, I care too much, I can't say what he doesn't like, oppress me everywhere, I'm very annoyed, I talk so badly, I'm really tired of this life, I don't want to be with him for a second, but I'm married and have a child.

We had a good life when we had no money, and when we had a little bit of money, we were not happy, of course, my ex-husband was happy, and I was happy when I left. Haha, middle-aged men and women, how to have fun.

As soon as I get home, I play games and ignore each other's love. I feel like I'm married to a fake husband.

Marriage is a special relationship based on the equality of rights and obligations of both husband and wife, and it is certainly unacceptable if one party is always domineering or arrogant over the other at home. Think about it, who wants to become a slave or slave of the other party for a long time? After all, people need dignity and respect, and there is no happy marriage without respect.

This will lead to the dissolution of the marriage.

Husband and wife are still separated after marriage because of work, and they don't see each other for a long time, so they rely on ** and the Internet to contact their feelings, but sometimes there are contradictions, disputes but it is difficult to explain clearly, which makes it easy to cause the relationship between husband and wife to fade. Moreover, if your partner is absent for a long time, it is also prone to the problem of third party involvement, and the probability of divorce will be very high.

The mind and soul are not in the same channel. In today's society, the most harmonious relationship between husband and wife is no longer to be close to each other, but to grow together, evenly matched, you are self-improving, and he perseveres; You pursue your dreams, he fights for his ideals, among the two husband and wife, if one person is always dragging his feet, standing still, and stagnant, while the other person is striding forward, self-improvement efforts, your distance will be farther and farther away, one day, two people no longer have a common topic, common language, then can only be you at hand, I am at the end of the world.

Qiong Yao** and the TV series all know that the heroes and heroines in it are all talented men and women, they are full of wind and snow all day long, entangled in emotions every day, crying and laughing, no need to work, and no need to worry about oil, salt, sauce and vinegar at all, it is a completely idealized pure emotional life. Love may be like this, but marriage is different, marriage has to face a lot of troubles other than emotion, to buy vegetables and cook, to have children, to pick up and drop off children to school, to worry about children, to work to work, so can it be a day of wind and snow? The dream is broken and distressed, and he is extremely disappointed in his marriage, and the result of waiting can be imagined.

Always accusing the other party of their shortcomings, people's words are like spilled water, sometimes the speaker has no intention, just to express the resentment in his heart, but the listener has the heart, magnifying your resentment, thinking that you are aimed at yourself, leading things to an irreparable situation. The reason why this is the case is because everyone has their own pain points and counterscales, just like a thorn in the heart, whenever someone sees it, it will ache faintly, so they don't want to be mentioned by others, but some people like to accuse each other of their faults when they quarrel, and they specifically jump the pain point and say, let this thorn pierce his heart, make him feel unbearable, and as a result, instead of making your relationship better, he will push each other farther and farther away, and finally stay away from your side.

Both husband and wife are workaholics, busy with work all day, and are bound to have no extra time to communicate and contact. After getting married, there must be a lot of cumbersome things in life, if both husband and wife are busy with their careers, they must not take care of the family and children, they only know how to enjoy life at work, there is no opportunity for husband and wife to communicate, and there is no family happiness in the family, such a marriage will have problems sooner or later, and the probability of divorce between husband and wife is very large.

When quarrelling, old things are always brought up, and when quarreling, people are easily excited, impulsive, and blurt out things that should not be said. In fact, it is not that husband and wife cannot quarrel, on the contrary, appropriate quarrels are also the spice of ordinary life, but when quarreling, you should grasp the proportion, venting emotions is one thing, what to say and what not to say is also very important. Always bringing up the past during an argument will make your spouse think that you are very strong and tricky, and who has no secrets in their hearts?

Seeing through and not talking about it is the virtue of married life, some things have passed in the past, and it is unpleasant for yourself and others to mention it again.

Couples who are not in the right household, couples who do not agree with each other, couples who do not know how to operate, and couples who are not in harmony are the most likely to divorce.

The door is not the right one

Speaking of the right person, many people think that it is the traditional thinking of the older generation, but now more and more people feel that it makes some sense. There is a huge gap between husband and wife, and there is a huge gap between the way of life and ideology, and it is very likely that there will be conflicts with each other because of these factors after marriage. In addition, what people say now is that they should be the right people in terms of spiritual thought and concept.

Couples with different views

The three views are imperceptibly cultivated in the long-term life, and it is difficult to change in the future, and the three views between husband and wife do not agree, and it is easy to have all kinds of problems, from the trivial matters of planting sheds and hunger in daily life, to the future development direction of the family, the two people have never been able to reach an agreement. If the three views do not agree, in most cases, the husband and wife will not get along, and life will be full of conflicts and quarrels, and it is easy to divorce.

Couples who don't know how to operate

Marriage is not the same as love, love can rely on full of blood, but marriage must rely on two people to manage it seriously. If you want to manage a marriage, you need both parties to have enough respect and understanding for each other, always pay attention to each other's thoughts and feelings, and tolerate each other. If you don't know how to manage after marriage, only live according to your own ideas, ignore each other's feelings, and don't know how to get along with each other, the relationship between husband and wife will get worse and worse.

Couples who are emotionally discordant

The basis of marriage is affection, and only when both parties love each other deeply, they will pay for the small family of two people without regrets. If there is a conflict or misunderstanding between husband and wife, we must pay attention to it and resolve the conflict in time. If the relationship is not harmonious, a barrier will gradually be erected between the two people, and over time, the husband and wife are no longer willing to do anything for each other, and they will lose the communication and exchange between the hearts, and in the long run, the marriage will only break down.

The husband and wife always quarrel because of some small problems, always dislike each other's shortcomings, lead Tong can not respect each other, two people can not communicate effectively, the door is not the right person Ming Feng is very easy to divorce, because the essence of such a husband and wife is different, so Huai Huaitan can not live together.

Two people are more unique in all aspects of their lives, and couples are more likely to divorce because they have different opinions.

Centrifugal detachment. If there is no trust and emotional foundation in the marriage, such a marriage will eventually come to an end.

What kind of couple should divorce, of course, because the relationship has broken down? Heedless. Family.

Neither. Not husband and wife feelings. Domestic violence.

The men were eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling outside. Female. If you don't look at home and go out to play mahjong, and there are lovers outside, such a couple should have divorced a long time ago.

That is, when the husband and wife consume each other, find fault with each other, complain about each other, and can no longer feel each other's love, they should divorce.

Personality incompatibility, the two sides always quarrel because of some trivial things, do not tolerate understanding, and dislike each other.

It's not suitable, and after careful consideration, both parties feel that they are really unhappy together, so they can divorce.

Couples who have no feelings.

It is difficult for a Qing official to cut off family affairs, his own dreams come true, it is difficult for outsiders to say, I have seen a lot of strange couples, beyond the imagination of the host, and it is not well received by outsiders.