What to do if someone around you is talking dirty

Updated on parenting 2024-06-13
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This shows that you are really pure in your heart, and it should not be a psychological barrier, but you have to believe in yourself, be more confident, and you haven't done anything wrong, why do people want to swear at you, right, you have to know that there are still a lot of good people in society, so don't be too disgusted with society.

    If you want to solve this kind of problem, it is best to find someone you trust, preferably with a more cheerful personality, talk to him more, talk to him, so that you can fundamentally change your outlook on life and eliminate your confusion.

    Don't think it's troublesome and embarrassing, it's actually a real solution. If it's an instant peace of mind, I think you can think more about your friends and relatives You can think: they love me and care about me because I must have something in me that they like, they like my character, and I deserve everyone's love because I have done nothing wrong and I have a clear conscience.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, you are overthinking, even if you are saying that you should not be influenced by others, go your own way and let others say it.

    In general, you have to not pay too much attention to this situation, some people use swear words as a mantra, and some people hate someone in their hearts and you don't have to think too much about it. It doesn't matter if it's you, no one is 100% likeable, let alone someone you don't know.

    There are several ways to calm your mind.

    1. Wear headphones to listen to songs, and if you can't hear them, you won't be so irritable.

    Second, adopt an attitude of not ignoring, we can't change the minds of others, if you don't know you, treat him as if he didn't say anything, and if you know you, he will joke with him.

    3. Walk on the road to look at the flowers and wild grasses on the side of the road, pay attention to other things, and just look at the scenery outside the window in the car.

    No matter what the method, first of all, you have to don't worry too much about yourself in ordinary times, swear words are not good, don't affect yourself, be happy, and look at other things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you're really thinking too much. People don't know you, how can they scold you?! It is recommended that you get closer to nature, listen more, and have a good attitude. I wish you a happy heart!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel like you're thinking too much, some people really don't have any quality now, and the swear words come as soon as they open their mouths, and it's very dirty, you don't care too much, just think it's a fart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't care, don't think people are scolding you when they swear.

    Don't care too much about the opinions of the people around you, as long as you think you haven't done anything wrong, as long as you haven't made a mistake, why should others scold you?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you want to make a big thing small, just endure it, and if you can't do it, you can return it sentence by sentence, pay attention, we still have to be civilized

    Civilized ones go back.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm also disgusted by people swearing, so I just ignore these low-quality people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Even if a dog barks at you, you can't bark at the dog.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Leave him alone. Go your own way and let others say enough.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Listen to music with headphones, relax yourself, don't care about others, try it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, this classmate is a good classmate, it is normal to have this problem, I think most students have similar problems, but this classmate is too sensitive. For example, Jiepi.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't worry too much, civilization is in your heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you give me something and I don't accept it, then to whom does this thing belong?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't have to say it, other people like to say it to their business.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is appropriate to use polite language to warn, and if the other party is too excessive, the police will be called. Scolding is not a good thing, scolding is uncivilized and impolite behavior, so when encountering scolding, Wei Liang must be calm and reasonable, and he must convince people with reason rather than scolding, let alone conquer others with his fists.

    In reality, not all people will solve problems rationally, and it is inevitable to meet some unreasonable, arrogant and unreasonable barbarians.

    Handling of swearing encounters

    If it is insulting in public, his behavior violates the provisions of Article 42, Paragraph 2 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law", and is suspected of openly insulting others, and he may report the case to the public security organ in accordance with the law and request that he be investigated for public security administrative responsibility.

    Where insulting others or fabricating facts to slander others by violence or other means is also considered a provocative act in law, and the circumstances are serious, the sentence is up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention, controlled release, or deprivation of political rights. The crimes in the preceding paragraph are to be dealt with only if they are told, except where they seriously endanger social order and national interests.

    If you openly insult others in public and cause serious consequences, you have committed the crime of insult under the Criminal Law. For example, if a group of people scold a girl on the street for being a broken shoe, and the girl can't stand it and is in a trance and gets mentally ill, then the person who scolds will be punished criminally.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When someone swears, you can take the following methods:

    1.Stay calm: Don't argue or respond to the other person, staying calm can prevent the situation from getting worse. Keyer.

    2.Avoid exacerbating conflicts: Don't return the favor in the same way as prudence, otherwise it will exacerbate the conflict and reduce the effectiveness of solving the problem.

    3.Expressing dissatisfaction: You can appropriately express your dissatisfaction with the other person's swear words and make the other person realize that your behavior is incorrect.

    4.Ignore the other person: If the other person is swearing just to get attention or provoke, you can choose to ignore the other person and not respond.

    5.Ask for help: If the other person's swear has seriously affected your normal life and work, you can seek help from others, such as the police, family members, or superiors.

    Whatever approach you take, you need to stay calm, don't be swayed by the other person's emotions, and be mindful of your own safety.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello dear! If everyone around you scolds yourself. First of all, don't panic.

    What should you do if everyone around you is scolding you.

    Hello dear! If everyone around you scolds yourself. First of all, don't panic.

    Everyone around me is scolding me, what should I do?

    I am a junior high school student.

    Figure out why they're scolding themselves.

    That kid, what they scolded you or what you did.

    After figuring out what they are scolding you, then look at the specific situation to see if your behavior touches some moral issues.

    In general, conflicts among junior high school students often come from studying and classmates.

    Finally, find out the truth of the problem, correct it if it is your own, and insist on being yourself if it is not your own.

    Generally, there will be small groups in junior high school, and if someone does not obey the will of the group, they will also be excluded.

    No matter what the contradictions, what should be noted is that the problem is the problem itself, and the solution or non-solution is limited to the problem itself, and should not be extended to one's own ability and level.

    I wish you good luck in your studies!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If there are a lot of people in your environment who are swearing, here are a few things you can try to defuse the situation:

    1.Don't lead the way. Avoid arguing with people who are swearing or letting their emotions affect your own emotions and respect the freedom of speech of others.

    2.Stand your ground. If you don't agree with swearing, you can make a fuss about your own liquid viewing and insist on good verbal habits.

    3.Bootstrap appropriately. When appropriate, you can educate and guide others with your correct, polite, and civilized words and deeds, and guide them to change their habit of swearing.

    4.Look for other things to lean on. If you really can't tolerate a lot of swear words in your surroundings, you can seek out some friends who share your values or groups that are more open-minded and don't like to use swear words.

    In short, in the face of such a situation, we should take the initiative to maintain good verbal habits and deal with this bad situation in a positive, rational and civilized manner, rather than blindly following the trend.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Talking swear is a very bad habit, talking too much, slowly becoming a habit, habit becoming natural, and it can't be changed, which greatly discounts the personal image, and it is also a basic harm to others such as Chazen. If the surrounding environment swears and becomes a kind of scum, you either try to get out of this environment, if you can't get out of it, you can only be high-quality original intention, do not follow the trend, do not follow the trend, and slowly you will find that even if you are in a bad environment, you can still get out of the mud without staining.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Keep the original intention, just don't follow the trend, how comfortable you are, how to come, everyone is an independent individual, of course, there are differentiated answers, learn to absorb the good, bring the source of wisdom to abandon and eliminate the bad, just do it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The easiest way to do this is to ignore him, and it is better than anything.

    If you like ta, you can say i only love you, and if you don't, say sorry, i don't love you。

    And then you take him to a corner where no one is and say to him, whatthef@ck? a? f@ckyou

    After that, you can tear your clothes and wrestle with him.

    Treat it as if you didn't hear it.

    Don't talk to you, that's the best thing to do.

    We will always meet such people.

    Just be calm and face it.

    Leave it alone. Don't follow along! He said his! There is his cause and effect! You can remind him to keep his mouth shut! Always swearing, dirty your own heart!

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    Normal. It's not that you say, if you can persuade you, you can persuade you, if you can't, just take care of your mouth, in case you still can't bear to be annoying.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People who often swear can only say that they are of low quality, narrow-minded, and unhealthy psychology that is not happy to see anyone.

    People who often swear habits develop.

    1. I think there are two kinds of people who often swear, one is innate

    People have a herd mentality, maybe you turned out to be a person who doesn't swear, but the people around you say that there are more people who know Chang, and you may not know a little bit that you naturally learn, and sometimes when you are in a bad mood, you send it out when you are in a good mood. Get used to it.,The mentality is mainly the ordinary kind of communication.。

    2, Xunyin, that is the kind of person who has nothing to complain about, scolds people at will, and scolds people when they see something unpleasant

    I think this is a matter of quality.,There are very few illiterates in this society now.,It's all people with a little ink in their stomachs.,No one will scold people for no reason.,There's a reason for it.,The mentality may be easy to collapse at any time.。

    3. People who often swear are really a kind of self-protection, in order to show that they are very strong.

    In fact, everyone has a certain amount of self-protection, but some people like to pretend to be pitiful and sympathetic, and some people like to pretend to be strong. There are many kinds of pretending to be strong, and the positive image includes pretending to be calm about any blow in life, never crying, not complaining. For example, in order to make themselves look strong, many men pretend to be very chic even if they have a mountain of pressure on their backs.

    Such people tend to have certain leadership qualities. There are many negative images, and some people like to scold and swear.

    Some people speak very loudly. Some people pretend to be very cold, and they have an angry face towards everyone. Some people are full of bitter and mean words, such as Wenchuan **, those who speak disrespectfully, etc.

    People with this situation belong to the fact that no one gave them positive guidance during childhood, which leads them to face social pressure and have a lot of deviations in coping methods, so that they finally form a solid personality, which is difficult to change in adulthood.

    4. Aggression and attack are the two major instincts that human civilization represses.

    Appropriate repression is needed so that there are normal interpersonal boundaries and distances; Excessive repression will lead to lack of vitality and motivation, resulting in physical and mental health problems.

    Dirty words, depending on the occasion and environment, it is better not to say themThere are many people who vent their emotions and dissatisfaction with swear words when they are emotionally depressed, which will not solve the problem, but will complicate the problem, and there are also some habits, regardless of the occasion, swear words repeatedly, always think that they are very good, in fact, the quality of the scum is a place, no matter what emotions and habits they have, try not to swear, improve their emotional intelligence and cultivation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In order to vent their hearts. It is also possible that the environment from childhood is like this, and he often scolds people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I was in a bad mood and didn't have a good time.

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