What to do if your child swears, and how parents can deal with their child s swearing

Summary: A child's swearing does not mean that he understands the meaning of swearing. In fact, most children swear is just a kind of imitation, parents should not be overly aggressive in the face of their children's swearing, and the correct education method can effectively change the habit of swearing children.

1. Ignore the method When the baby says foul language, you may wish to treat it as some ordinary words, do not pay too much attention, and do not blame the baby or even hit the baby, which will only deepen his impression of foul language. 2. Guidance method The baby generally does not know the true meaning of foul language, so there is no need to explain to him in detail how vulgar what he just said, just tell him that such words will make everyone dislike him. Try to ask your baby calmly:

Baby, is it okay to scold? In general, babies know that scolding is not good, so when he is "bad", you can further educate him that this is scolding, which is a bad practice, try to understand the reason why he said foul language, and what he wants to express, tell him what words can be used to vent such emotions instead of foul language, and when he accepts your opinion, he should be praised in time. 3. Purify the environment to create a civilized environment, not only parents should achieve beautiful language and behavior, if parents find that the surrounding environment will expose their children to foul language, they should strive to stop it and remind others to pay attention.

For example, if the baby's other friends have a bad habit of speaking foul language, you should stop it in time, and you can take a "cold treatment" to prevent him from affecting the baby. If someone deliberately teaches a child to speak foul language, you should be solemnly warned and try to keep your child away from these environments, otherwise even the purest child will be polluted. 4. Punishment Law.

What should I do if my child wants to swear?

1. Let children learn to express emotions in appropriate language. Parents and teachers should always educate children to understand that scolding is not helpful in resolving contradictions and conflicts, and smart children should use humorous and witty language to resolve the hostile emotions of the other party, and at the same time calm the anger in their hearts and reduce psychological pressure.

2. Patient persuasion education. Coquettish voices, foul words, and sick words are all shortcomings that children should avoid in using language, and once discovered, they should be helped to correct at any time. For example:

This sentence sounds hard to hear, and it's not something a good boy would say. Good children can't swear, you see, mom and dad and teachers don't swear, do they? Everyone doesn't like this swear word, if someone scolds you, it's his fault, you shouldn't scold him, because you have to be a civilized and polite child.

You see, if you scold people, others are so unhappy, don't scold people in the future, okay?

3. If the child scolds and says dirty and filial piety and does not change repeatedly, parents and teachers should take appropriate punishment measures. First of all, let the child admit his mistake and apologize to the scolded party. Second, ask your child to copy the phrase I promise not to curse again dozens of times.

In addition, certain rights of the child may be revoked, such as the cancellation of rewards and related activity plans.

4. Parents should lead by example. Children learn language through imitation. As a result, the adults they first come into contact with, such as their parents or prudent grandparents, are often the main role models for him to learn and enrich the language.

If parents often use foul language and have a bad attitude towards neighbors and colleagues, of course, don't expect their children to be beautiful in language.

Parents usually don't scold and lead by example. If you are swearing in front of your child, apologize as soon as possible to show that your behavior is wrong. Squat down or sit down to discuss with the child, tell the child etiquette stories, tell the child that it was wrong to do so, and ask the child to apologize, if it is serious, let the child think, do not hit the child, do not hurt the child.

In short, children need to be educated slowly, parents are parents for the first time, and children are also children for the first time, so be a little patient and talk to your children.

<> maintain good communication with the child, keep abreast of the child's dynamics, see if the child really understands what he is saying, and calmly tell the child his true feelings when he hears this sentence to cause the child to reflect. Discuss a punishment mechanism for swearing with him. It is necessary to negotiate peacefully with him, not to force it, otherwise the child will rebel, and if he has changed and improved, give him some rewards.

Explain the meaning of swear words to your child, because some swear words are said by children but do not understand the meaning, and they are just having fun. When the meaning is understood, children also know what is good and bad, and they also know how to correct the wrong behavior, and they will slowly get rid of the habit of swearing. Swear words, in fact, are also powerful, they can attract the attention of adults, and they can also hurt the self-esteem of others, but they have always been criticized and disapproved by everyone.

When children are very young, they do not have the ability to judge right and wrong, and they are easily attracted to imitate and use. At this time, it is necessary for us adults to guide children correctly.

When the child swears a lot, do not scold him, or scold him, the right thing is to understand his recent mood swings, see which children he is with, whether there is some dissatisfaction, so as to guide him in a targeted manner and help him correct. The child has poor comprehension and strong imitation ability. They just imitate what adults say, but often they don't understand what it means.

At this time, if parents ignore their child's dirty words, it is enough to make it disappear before it becomes a bad habit.

Children's swearing should be related to their parents' usual speech and behavior, parents should still pay attention to a little and guide them.

Generally speaking, children are particularly sensitive to language expression when their language expression ability develops, and if there are adults around them who swear, it is natural for children to suffer from poor influences in this natural world. Profanity refers to a child's personal behaviour that contains offensive or humiliating language in their daily life. When children were young, most of them regarded swearing as a fun thing in Zaozhen, and some children also had the concept of using swearing to vent their anger.

Some children swear just to get the attention of adults.

Sometimes children feel bored and lonely, so they will use swear words to attract attention, and some children deliberately swear in order to show their "skills" in front of their teammates. Usually can accompany the children to see more children's picture books, according to the story picture books, let the children figure out, swear words are stool attack is uncivilized, not liked by everyone, and gradually the child will change. Parents do not need to be angry and scold their children when they swear words, but they should be careful to reason with their children.

As you scold your child more and more for swearing, the child will intensify this swearing, and over time, his temperament will become more and more rebellious. Parents should take responsibility and not only try to do their own business, but should spend more time with their children and give them more active and reasonable terms. Teach more positive energy items, of course, you can dilute and forget these bad things.

In the case of cultural education of children, the stigma of children should be promoted. Parents should tell their children what is tolerable and what is not. What is a glorious thing to do, and what to do is to be ridiculed by others.

With this kind of stigma culture, children will definitely be more self-disciplined. Although it is a personal behavior to control the child's swearing, it is necessary to be calm in the way of dealing with it. If your child starts swearing, you can ignore your child, and if you don't talk to him, he will ask you why because he doesn't respond, and then you can tell your child that "that's a very rude personal behavior, and everyone doesn't like it, so they will ignore you."

Standardize your child's use of speech, inspire your child to think about what he can say in addition to swearing, and when he or she uses standard language, you should immediately motivate him to reinforce his correction.

When the child swears, parents should tell the child that this practice is not right, give the child some punishment and touch the socks, and tell the child that if the next time he swears, the punishment will be more serious, and let the child know that it is impolite to swear.

The child does not know that what he is saying is swearing, you should tell him to find the source, so that he understands why he will imitate and learn like this, and then tell him that you don't like it very much, so that you should pay more attention to the vertical and bold when you usually speak, so that the modulus can let the child remove these words.

1.Parents should restrain their emotions from the past, and the environment is very important to avoid swearing, and children's learning ability is relatively strong, and it is easy to be affected.

2.Find the root cause of your child's swearing.

3.Let your child empathize.

1. Parents should be good role models: First of all, parents should be good role models, and civilized language should not be swearing. If parents keep swearing all day long, children will naturally learn to swear all day long. Trying to keep your child away from the environment where he swears is the first step to stopping him from swearing.

2. When the child swears, he should not react too much when he does not accompany Richard: When the child swears, parents should not react too much, otherwise whether you reprimand or laugh, the child will get a sense of accomplishment from it, thus aggravating the behavior of swearing.

3. Guide the child to vent his emotions correctly: When the child swears to vent his emotions, parents should dig out his real psychological needs, and tell him how to express his needs correctly after he calms down.