How are the older leftover girls doing now?

I have seen a woman who is nearly forty years old, unmarried, very fashionable, very well maintained, without a single wrinkle on her face, earning 70,000 yuan a month, very fond of studying, always carrying books everywhere, constantly recharging. I think it's okay if a marriage is happy, and it's good if a person can live well compared to those unhappy marriages.

The older leftover girls around me are now living very well and are very nourishing and happy.

The older leftover girls around me are doing very well now, because they are all very independent and independent.

The older leftover women around me are also doing well, and the older leftover women do not mean that they are unhappy.

The older leftover girls around me are still living a chic life now, because they are not bound by family.

I think the older leftover girls around me now are living a very nourishing and unrestrained life.

Some people live very well, they live very comfortably, and go to travel and exercise every day.

The older leftover girls I saw were very chic when their parents were there, and they were so lonely and desolate after their parents became immortals, especially when they were sick. Therefore, I still hope that they will let go of their prejudices and find someone who is destined to accompany them for a lifetime as soon as possible.

Many of the older leftover women around me are unmarried, and they don't care about themselves, whether they have a partner or whether they are married or not.

On the surface, I thought about it very well, but in fact, I was wasting my time, irresponsible, and I didn't know how to live behind it.

On the surface, I live very well, but in fact, I live very badly, I envy others for a pair of travel or something, and I am very eager to have a companion in my heart.

As an older leftover girl, I come to me, in fact, we live well, as long as we are not ridiculed and ridiculed by the long-tongued people around us, urged to marry, and not poisoned by garbage boys. It could have been a good life.

In other words, I can't stay at home anymore! It's very depressing, friends travel together when they have time, stay in different places and play with mobile phones by themselves, plan to die at the age of fifty, and there are still ten years.

There are not many job transfers, because they are studying this profession to do this job.

Don't think that if there is a lover, someone will love! Don't be alone if you have a lover?! I can do it all over again, and I wish I had never been married!

It's all the same, the sun rises and the sun sets, it's just boring to find someone to talk to.

Choose again, I will never get married, and a married woman can't figure out who is working hard for whom in her life.

Whether a woman is doing well or not has a lot to do with her original family. It has something to do with the leftover women and the leftover women, but it is not the decisive reason.

Whether the original family is rich or not is not the main reason for determining whether a woman is doing well or not. The degree of support given to women by the family of origin is the fundamental reason that determines how well women live. A daughter whose parents don't love, even if her daughter has power and wealth later, will have a scar in her heart.

The parents are poor but fully support their daughter, and the daughter will laugh at all the hardships when she works hard in the garage.

If the leftover girl has an enlightened family and is financially independent, she will live very well. Because she is really unmarried, she will not face direct gossip and can live very freely.

If the leftover woman is not enlightened by her original family, patriarchal, and has a strong desire to control, then the leftover woman may be forced to not marry and be scared to get married, and she will have to face blows from the family, which will definitely not be good.

The leftover women themselves should also pay attention to the fact that single life is also beautiful, but it is definitely different from married life. To face pensions, accidents, etc., we must establish more intimate but non-interference circles, and rely more on various service companies.

The answer to this question is varied, not only by the social atmosphere of the sedan chair, but also by the emotional needs of the girls themselves, and this series of problems leads to their not getting married. Therefore, to some extent, the emergence of older leftover women is not only because they did not find the right person, but also because they were affected by other factors. Only by addressing these factors can you treat your marriage correctly and embrace your own happiness in life later.

Because they have a high vision, men don't feel the need to set it off.

1.I don't want to get married, I don't want to have children, and I deal with the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

2.I have good ability, and I don't need others to know about it.

3.The pace of life is too fast, the work is too busy, and it is difficult to find the right partner.

4.The change of social attitudes has caused too many cases of unsatisfactory lives for various women in society, as well as the high divorce rate.

The woman suddenly woke up to the fact that getting married was just a trivial matter for another family. Silver Fight.

The following is why there are so many older young women now, and the detailed answers are divided into eight aspects:

1.Educational attainment.

Modern society attaches great importance to women's education, most women have received a higher education, received more humanities and ideological enlightenment, and then put more energy into their careers, ignoring the choice of marriage, and the situation of late marriage and late childbearing is becoming more and more common.

2.A change in the concept of marriage and love.

Modern women's concept of marriage has changed dramatically, they are eager to have self and independence, in line with the attitude of "finding someone who can respect and tolerate themselves", the criteria for choosing a mate are more picky, more qualitative and personalized.

3.Decline in the number of marriages.

With the development of society and the improvement of the quality of life, the implementation of the two-child policy, people are living longer and longer, and the natural adjustment has increased the marriage age of the population. At the same time, the declining female birth rate and the scarcity of women are also providing conditions for the increase of "older young women".

4.Reduction of social pressure.

In modern society, people's living standards have steadily improved, the quality of life index has generally improved, the expectations of society and families for women's marriage are more relaxed, and the attitude towards women's family route choice has been eased, and women can choose more of their favorite lifestyles.

5.Ability and experience accumulation.

After a long period of career impact and career test, women have learned richer and more comprehensive knowledge and skills, they have more planning and thinking about their future and life, succeed in life and career, and can better take care of their families and children.

6.Changes in life plans.

Compared with the previous family-oriented, women now pay more attention to self-planning and growth and development. Many people will choose to postpone marriage and childbearing, and invest more time and energy to develop their career and life philosophy.

7.Increased marital stability.

The concept of marriage and intimacy is now more spiritual, so for women who have increased their marriage, the marriage rate is lower, but the marital stability and satisfaction are higher.

8.The threshold for premarital selection has been raised.

Now that the social concept is more open, gender is no longer linked to age, and the threshold for women's choice is higher, and a lot of time, money, manpower and other resources need to be spent in the choice, which further enhances the trend of women's pickiness and aging.

1.I can't be high or low;

2.The conditions are superior and the appearance is low;

3.physical and mental impairment;

4.Celibacy;

If you look at the above four points closely, it is more like a peripheral speculation, although there is universality, but it does not hit the essence of the phenomenon.

Older leftover women who refuse to enter love, marriage, and family essentially have greater personal choice and higher freedom in individual life.

5.In the context of the era of tolerance, broadness and equality, more and more outstanding women have received elite education with high academic qualifications; Both ideologically and personally, they are more independent and mature than in the past.

6.When these women enter society, their high income quickly helps them achieve personal financial freedom; The multi-dimensional work experience and broad horizons have made these women more courageous, open-minded, and more willing to take responsibility for the quality of their lives.

This kind of high-quality life experience and feeling also indirectly affects and delays the time for them to enter marriage.

7.New Kochi women are not confined to traditional life, and the way of life of ordinary women who get married and have brothers and children a year or two after graduating from college has faded out of the life scene of professional women early on, and they are rushing to the process of upgrading and fighting monsters in the workplace, and more time and energy are delivered to high-intensity and fast-running work.

8.Parents and families of Kochi women place more importance on the quality of their marriages. Therefore, although their parents are also forced to marry, they also pay attention to and value the quality of their children's marriage, and are unwilling to compromise easily.

However, in the marriage market, men who are equally excellent in the same period are either married early; Either there is no chance encounter, and gradually some Kochi women are staring at the hail and being "left".

There are various reasons for the formation of older unmarried women, but the common ones are the following:

Voluntarily do not marry at an older age

The economic basis for self-reliance is sufficient for self-sufficiency, and marriage is no longer a life-and-death tool for more and more modern women.

The completeness, perfection and stability of the social welfare system have made concepts such as "raising children and preventing old age" gradually obsolete, especially in Europe.

The pursuit of personal freedom, the hope to always have the freedom to adhere to personal interests and life, and willing to be in a long-term relationship, no need to marry.

The pursuit of purer and more sincere love, some women who are more individualized and free feel that there are often too many things in marriage that have nothing to do with love itself, and if a pair of lovers are really suitable for each other for a long time, then in fact, whether to marry or not is nothing more than a personal choice that varies from person to person.

The protective function, significance, and importance of contemporary marriage have diminished, and more and more people feel that marriage has long been a necessity.

Forced to remain unmarried at an older age

In childhood, he experienced a family tragedy (and may even be a fatal tragedy) caused by the marital conflict between his parents, and even if he longed to get married when he grew up, the psychological shadow of the spring shadow was always shrouded in torture.

Some working women blindly pursue career development and don't care about their love life at all, and as a result, not only do they not get married, but they also have no owners in the normal basic love between men and women.

ABCD collocation theory" seems to be common in ancient and modern China and abroad: the collocation rule of "strong men and weak women" makes the love life of some female doctors with super high academic qualifications and strong women with super achievements very lonely, and many men frankly say that "if their wives or partners are better and more beautiful than themselves, then many of the feelings in the male subconscious are quite traumatic."

LGBT people who are unable to marry due to local laws and regulations.