How did your mom and dad find out you smoked?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-13
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When I was in junior high school, my dad caught me smoking, and my family knew I smoked. At that time, I was still educated by my parents, and then I only dared to smoke one secretly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My family once asked me if I smoked, so I took it over, maybe it was a problem of habit, but I didn't react, so my parents found out. Later, I didn't blame too much, so I acquiesced.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My mom and dad found out I was smoking because there were a lot of cigarette butts under the bed, and sometimes there was a strong smell of smoke.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I said it, after all, it started after adulthood, and I already have an independent mind, and there is no need to interfere in this kind of thing without affecting others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe you smoke and come home and your parents smell it, but it's best not to smoke.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My childhood was quite colorful, because my parents were busy with work and my discipline was not very strict, other people's children would be checked by their parents every day, and I was always a conscious free-range mode. But fortunately, I didn't create that kind of rebellious and willful character, but when I was still fourteen or fifteen years old, I secretly stole my father's cigarettes and learned to smokeI clearly remember that at that time, my father's cigarettes were divided into two types, he usually smoked Jiqing brand cigarettes at home, and he usually smoked Shilin brand cigarettes when he went out.

    At that stage, the price of Jiqing brand cigarettes was 2 yuan 5, in the 90s, it was also a relatively good cigarette brand, every time I didn't dare to take too much, one or two is normal, in fact, the reason for wanting to learn to smoke is also very simple, because since junior high school, many male classmates have begun to smoke, which seems to be a status symbol. At that stage, the small shops around the school did not do anything, and would secretly sell cigarettes to the students.

    But because the students have no money in their pockets, so they are all about the root to sell, and finally these canteens were found by the school leaders, and were completely seized, which can be regarded as a good thing, one weekend when my parents were not at home, I secretly took out a cigarette from my father's cigarette case, just when I smoked the first puff, I found that the door outside was ringing, I quickly extinguished the cigarette, and then pretended to be watching TV as if nothing happened.

    But because the room is relatively closed in winter, I can smell the smoke as soon as I enter the house, and after my father entered the house, he glanced at me and saw the cigarette butt in the ashtray that was not completely extinguished, and he already knew that I smoked the fact that I did not blame too much, after all, I was already fifteen or sixteen years oldBut it's really scary to think about that scene, because when I was a child, I was most afraid of my father.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are a minor smoking and are found out by your parents, you must first admit your mistake and say that you are just curious to try, and you will not do it again next time, just make a guarantee that your attitude is better.

    Your family must be afraid of the impact on your body, because you are growing up physically, you are still very young, it is the time to establish your own values and outlook on life, and your family must want you to develop some good habits. In addition, smoking is not good for the physical development of teenagers, so it is better not to smoke in the future.

    Tips for quitting smoking. 1. Don't reduce the amount of smoking to the minimum at the beginning, but take it step by step and give the body a time to adapt. Set yourself a goal of smoking 3 sticks today, 2 sticks tomorrow, and the number of cigarettes on the second day will be less than on the first day, and gradually reduce the amount of cigarettes you smoke.

    2. In the process of quitting smoking, you can arrange some no-tobacco days for yourself. You can not smoke one day a week, and if you feel that one day a week is too frequent, you can also choose to do it once every half a month or once a month. Gradually, the frequency of not smoking will increase, and gradually you can quit smoking.

    3. When you feel that you have a strong addiction to smoking, you must control yourself. If someone hands you a cigarette, you must also refuse, otherwise it is easy to fall short and you will find a lot of excuses for yourself.

    4. When you can't help but want to smoke, you can try to do something else to divert your attention. Find ways to forget about smoking, such as going out for a walk, watching a movie, and immersing yourself in something else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello dear landlord:

    In fact, you are stupid, your reasons can only add fuel to the fire, don't treat others as fools, let alone your mother, as the saying goes, I suggest that the best way for you to do it now is to retreat and take the initiative to go to your mother to admit your mistakes, your mother doesn't have to be a father to be soft-hearted, if you want to be a little better at acting, get some tears out, perfect!

    If you are not satisfied, please ask me, I will correct it, if you are satisfied, please give points! Thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Haha, you might as well give your mother a beautiful promise!

    calmly said to my mother

    We have a puzzle: everyone knows that smoking is harmful to health, why do so many people still smoke?

    I wanted to figure out what smoking was all about, so I tried to buy a pack of cigarettes and took a puff, and it turned out to be bitter, spicy and choking!

    What is there to smoke cigarettes? It's really self-inflicted, spending money to buy sin! You know, it's the taste, we don't even want to try it.

    Mom, we don't smoke, and now the results of the trial have been obtained. Let's say that cigarettes are friends' and make you happy, don't get us wrong.

    Happy landlord!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you go to school or work? If you're at work, tell your mom that smoking can make communication easier. That's what I told my mom, she didn't let me smoke before, and now even if I smoke, she doesn't say anything, just says to smoke less.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Admit your mistakes and don't smoke again in the future, it's bad for your health.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, smoking is indeed a bad behavior, you are still a student.

    What to do if your parents find out about smoking.

    Hello, smoking is indeed a bad behavior, you are still a student.

    Yes, I took online classes and smoking was caught.

    If your parents strongly disagree, you can only first say that you will not do it in the future, and be sincere.

    Again, be sure to state that this time it was just an accident.

    No, I've been spotted a few times, and now I'm panicking, and my mom says my dad will come back tomorrow, and my dad will definitely talk about me when he comes back.

    For example, if a classmate gave it to you, you didn't buy it on purpose.

    You must try not to say that you bought it yourself, and it can be regarded as a shirk of responsibility.

    So what the hell should I say.

    I just said that the cigarette was given by my classmates, and I left it when I was confused, and now I have thrown it away, and I will definitely not do it next time.

    But he already had my proof, and I smoked it, and he saw it.

    You're drawn, so you can only show that you won't be going to do it later, and have the determination to throw the rest away now.

    So how do I explain it to him, how do I talk about it specifically?

    You must be clear that if you buy cigarettes yourself. Then you must be a criminal, indicating that you smoke often, so the first point is to find an excuse to explain that the ** of the cigarette was not bought by yourself, but who gave it by chance, and make up a reason.

    But I don't dare tell them.

    Another is to emphasize that I know that I am wrong, and I will not do it in the future, which means that I am just curious for a while, and there are not many times.

    It's an occasional offender. Then who hasn't made a few small mistakes and corrected them sincerely, it won't be what happens to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are caught trying to smoke out of curiosity, you can take the initiative to confess to your parents and express your inner thoughts and feelings. Here are some suggestions that may help:

    1.Be honest and honest. Tell your parents that you tried to smoke because you were curious about Hu, but now you realize that it was the wrong behavior.

    2.Express your inner thoughts and feelings in your trouser wheels. Tell your parents why you're curious about trying to smoke and how you feel and feel about it right now.

    3.Express your determination. Tell your parents that you won't try smoking again and that you will take action to maintain a healthy lifestyle.

    4.Ask for help and support. If you find yourself unable to quit smoking, you can seek help and support from a doctor or professional organization.

    The most important thing is to maintain open and honest communication so that you and your parents can find the best way to solve the problem together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My parents found out that I smoked, I felt sorry, I smoked because I was driven by curiosity, I didn't know what the consequences of smoking were, but the waiter knew that my behavior was not to blame, so I would make a change Lao Shitu, Tan Chang and promise not to make the same mistake again. I will try harder to respect my parents, stop doing meaningless things, and be determined to change myself and reassure my parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should have a good attitude to admit your mistakes and communicate with your father, the elder Yan Chang, and try to communicate with them in a way that is acceptable to them. Also, let them know that you have recognized your mistakes and will work to correct them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Long-term smoking can harm the physical and mental health of adolescents and lead to undesirable behavior problems. As a parent, you have the right to pay attention to your child's physical health, and parental education is conducive to the healthy physical and mental development of Qingfu children.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If your parents find out that you are smoking, you should seriously consider why you started smoking, whether you should continue to smoke and how to communicate with your parents.

    Here are some suggestions that may be useful:

    Be honest. If your parents find out that you are smoking, it's best not to try to cover it up or lie about it. Instead of letting them know from others, you should tell them personally, indicating your attitude and intentions.

    Communicate sincerely. Tell your parents why you started smoking and they may understand and help you solve the problem. At the same time, one should also listen to their advice, how to live a healthy lifestyle, etc.

    Limit smoking as much as possible. Smoking is harmful to your health, and if you don't want to quit, you should at least reduce your smoking to avoid health risks to yourself and others.

    Seek support. If you want to quit smoking but find it difficult to do so, you can seek professional help and support, such as a doctor, psychologist or non-smoking group.

    In conclusion, smoking is harmful to health, and you should seriously consider your health and future, communicate honestly with your parents, and try to minimize smoking or quit.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are caught smoking by your parents, you should first consider treating it rationally, recognize the harm and consequences of smoking to your body, and at the same time respect your parents' teachings and regulations. You can choose to take the initiative to confess to your parents, admit your mistakes, express your determination to readjust your attitude, communicate with them, understand their concerns and suggestions, and work together to develop a reasonable plan and program to gradually overcome the vice and addiction of smoking. In addition, you can seek professional help, such as psychological counseling, smoking cessation counseling, etc.

    The most important thing is to have patience and determination, firmly quit the craving, and protect your health and life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If Lao Jianguo is still in junior high school and is found smoking by his parents, Hail Mill suggests that he should stop smoking, and if he goes to college, he will tell them that he is old, and he will only smoke occasionally, and he will not be addicted.

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