Is it better to have children or not to have children?

First of all, I'm a girl, but I've always disliked children, I think it's hard to bring, and it's also annoying.

Giving birth to a child is a special process of giving birth to a life, feeling the process of life When your hand feels his (her) fluctuations, you know that you are not alone, and you must have a good birth.

The child is the crystallization of the parents, and it is also the continuation of love, and it must be born, otherwise the two people will often quarrel in the future.

People, when they reach a certain age, when they see children, they will have a natural motherhood that comes out, and every woman must go through.

Since ancient times, people have said that a woman who has never given birth to a child is not a complete woman, and I agree that it is better to have children.

If a woman doesn't give birth to a child, it's like a flower blooming bee and not stepping on it, this is a happy moment for a girl, and it's better to give birth.

If you don't give birth, when you get older, you will feel that you are not a woman, and a woman is the happiest moment when she is pregnant and has a child.

If you have a bad relationship between husband and wife, divorce and children, it is pitiful!

It is very happy to have a child with a loved one, and you must find someone you love and then give him a child (at least one). Then your life will be complete.

For the sake of children, don't have children. The negative growth of the Chinese population is a good thing for China. China has a maximum of 400 million high-quality people, but it is still overpopulated.

Too many people and a bunch of cheap labor are disadvantages, not advantages, for the vast majority of Chinese citizens. There are few people, and it is an advantage for Chinese citizens to increase wages and benefits. Avalokiteshvara Bodhisattva's compassionate teachings:

Good can be seen to break through evil obstacles and disasters. "The son of his parents' love is far-reaching. (From "Warring States Policy" "Touching the Dragon and Saying Empress Dowager Zhao") gives birth to children, often for themselves.

Don't have children, it's for children. The level of security in all aspects is very low, people often live less than a few decades, just stand up, just pass, you can suffer and suffer for a lifetime, don't harm children, so don't have children. The Buddha said:

The past and the end are unattainable, and only the present can be grasped. "After getting married and having children, there is not necessarily old age. Let's think about the real present first.

The elderly do not necessarily have to go to a nursing home, home care, group care. Look at the self-combing girl, how happy it is to support the elderly in Japan.

It's really hard for people to say now. If you have too many children, the conditions are not good. Some people scolded not having children.

There are also people who scold. I'm afraid of being lonely when I give birth to one. Children are also scolded by others if they don't become talents.

The child's serious illness. It is also seen as a joke by others. It's hard to come up with people now.

It is difficult for one person to call the hearts of a hundred. Go your own way. Others like to say what they want.

Live your day by day. Whatever others say is nonsense. There aren't many good people now.

It's all about watching jokes.

Good to have a baby!! Due at the end of this month, I hope I will be born safely!

I feel that having children makes my life meaningful, and not having children is just free and easy at that time.

It's good, but I think one is enough, the crystallization of love.

It's definitely better not to have children.

Financial pressure: There is a considerable financial cost to raising a child, including the child's education, medical care, living expenses, etc., which can put a strain on the family's financial situation.

Lifestyle: Some people choose not to have children because they want to maintain their freedom and independence and continue to pursue their hobbies and careers.

Good health: Some couples may face fertility disorders or health problems that may prevent them from having children.

Educational Perceptions: Some people may be worried that having children will have a negative impact on the environment, or they may choose not to have children because they are worried that their children's education and growth environment may not be ideal.

Environmental issues: Some people may be worried about future environmental problems and resource shortages, so they think that not having children is a way to reduce the burden on the environment and resources. Hold filial piety wide.

Whatever the reason, choosing not to have children is a personal freedom and choice that should be respected and supported. At the same time, couples who wish to have children should also receive support and help from the society to create a good environment and conditions for healthy and prudent spiritual education.

Because I was subjected to school violence when I was a child, and I still have PTSD, I don't want my children to suffer as much as I did when I was a child.

In the traditional concept of many Chinese, marriage and having children are a major life event. What you do is to raise children to prevent old age, and the old have something to rely on.

But does having children and not having children really have that much impact on a couple's relationship? It may be that the conflict between many young people and their parents is nothing more than getting married and having children. There may be some parents who can understand their children, and there may be some families who are depressed because of this.

But I think the best thing in life is to be happy every day, and that's the most important thing. The most important thing in life is to be happy.

Xiaorui, 30 years old, lawyer.

My husband is a journalist, we have been married for 5 years, for the sake of the career, in order to live a little easier in the future, we have not had children yet, and we do not plan to have children so soon, despite the constant urging of parents and in-laws, my husband and I both agree that we should not have children so early, not only because there are many trivial things after having children, but mainly because we want to focus more time and energy on work while we are young. And I think we're doing pretty well right now.

The days are dull but very happy, and the parents-in-law have waited too long, and their patience has worn out. One day, in the middle of the night, my father-in-law and mother-in-law suddenly moved over to live with us, and at that time, in order to let my father-in-law and mother-in-law move back to live, I thought of a lot of tricks. But they were all broken by their parents-in-law.

I also quarreled with my mother-in-law many times because of giving birth.

After more than 7 months of fighting. I suddenly felt that this was not good. Isn't it just to be able to live a happier life by working so hard and working so hard, it's really uncomfortable to be noisy all day long because of this, and it's not a bad thing for you to have a baby.

At that time, my husband and I decided that we wanted to have a baby.

But the accident is always too sudden, when I went to the hospital for a check-up, the doctor said that I may not be able to give birth in the future, I panicked at that time, although I knew that the disease was stupid and it was possible to cure it, but the chance was also very small. My husband and I plan to hide this matter first. Then find a way to find a doctor**.

But once my mother-in-law looked through my notebook and accidentally saw some of my diaries and saw a sentence in the notebook: "I have no chance with children in my life", my mother-in-law can't control her emotions and must ask to the end.

I don't think there's any need to hide it, paper can't contain fire. As soon as I got emotional, I confessed to my mother-in-law about it, "Yes, I can't give birth to anything, I don't want to, I also feel guilty and blame myself, but do I want to do this?" Can you go out and leave me alone for a while.

At that time, the three of us really quarreled, and my husband didn't let me say it, and yelled at me. As a result, my mother-in-law blasted me out.

1. If a woman does not have children for a lifetime, it must be harmful to the body.

2. Women who do not have children, according to statistics, are more likely to age, and more likely to be infected with diseases, their immunity will decrease, and the chance of such people suffering from breast cancer and uterine cancer will increase.

3. According to medical statistics, when a woman gives birth, she can change the hormones in her body, and the hormone level will increase. It is medically said that these can increase the gloss of women's ** and make ** more elastic.

4. If you don't have children, if you don't have children, in your later years, if your wife leaves first, then you can only dig alone in the world. In your old age, when you have no children, who will feed you? Who will take care of you?

Whether a woman has children after marriage or not mainly depends on your subjective factors, as well as objective factors from family members and relatives and friends, which is more difficult to say. Personally, I think that whether you have children or not depends on whether you want to have children or not, China has a tradition of inheritance since ancient times, and the combination of men and women is in many cases for the purpose of passing on the ancestry. In fact, in many cases, I don't want to, and my husband may agree not to have children, but the pressure from family and relatives and friends will increase, after all, they feel that having children is the purpose of marriage.

You don't have to be too nervous, the main purpose of many women not having children is to be afraid of their body out of shape, fear of pain, nervousness, fear of trouble and so on, but I personally think these can be overcome, body shape is often caused by not paying attention to it during confinement, too much maintenance. Women who have never given birth to children will have a faint sense of tension, very uncomfortable, very unaccustomed, but I think if you want to, these can be overcome, if it really doesn't work, go to the method of breaking obstetrics and gynecology, although it is not advocated, but this is indeed a good way, and now science and technology are also developed, so there is nothing to worry about.

The birth of a small child will bring a lot of fun to the family and can make your family more harmonious and cohesive. Children represent hope, and you will care more about your children, and nurturing children is actually a pretty good "game".

But in the end, it's up to you and your family, so I recommend that you discuss it with your family. After all, a family is not an independent family, and the big family in China is composed of thousands of small families.

This is a very tricky question that needs to be taken into account with many aspects, such as psychology and life, etc. However, the answer to this question should be a decision made based on your own values and beliefs. First of all, if you feel that you are able to afford the child.

and willing to make this decision, then you can choose to keep the child. This means that you need to take care of your child's upbringing and growth, and you need to provide a stable and safe living environment for your child. This also requires.

You spend more time, money, and energy raising children. Second, if you feel that you do not have the ability and resources to take care of the child, then you can choose to send the child to a better family. This requires you to find a suitable family.

and make careful consideration and prudent decisions to ensure that the interests of the child are maximized. In the end, no matter which decision you make, you need to respect your feelings and inner voice. You need to think about your lifestyle and life plan.

and whether you are ready to take on the responsibilities of a one's mother. At the same time, you also need to consider the interests and future of the child to ensure that he or she is raised and raised in the best possible way. In this case, you may need to seek professional spring draft advice and advice.

Such as family doctors, social workers or children's service agencies. These professionals can provide the necessary support and assistance to help you make the best decisions. All in all, it was a very difficult decision.

A variety of factors need to be well thought out and taken into account. Whatever decision you make, you need to have the courage and determination to take on and face the challenges and responsibilities that come with it.

Ultimately, one should respect one's own choices and be responsible for the decisions made.

It should be a troublesome birth to a child, because a person's life will not be smooth sailing, if there is a person who is not in good health and uncomfortable, there will be no liquid next to the ear to take care of the sales, so when you reach a certain age, you should get married and have a child.