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There is a saying: if you say too much, you will lose, talk less and do more. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.
Even normal words are suspicious, let alone mean, people who are accustomed to exposing people's shortcomings and exposing personal privacy and being straightforward. Disgusting words will drive away all blessings. People who have been spying on others and talking badly about revealing the shortcomings of others are very easy to "make enemies".
This type of person takes the initiative to talk quickly and feels good about himself, but he doesn't know that the other party is already secretly blaming himself in his heart. When encountering a good opportunity to step on a foot and cross the river and demolish the bridge, it is difficult for the other party not to add a fire, even if it does not push it, it will sit and watch the excitement.
And if a person who is often friendly in words and cultivates both blessings and wisdom, there may be someone who is willing to help or show a hint of information at a critical moment. Although it won't work, you can always be mentally prepared. A person who speaks badly and speaks a lot of tongues not only hurts others, but also feels that he has left all his blessings.
Faith is the unity of words and deeds, and there is a saying in "Mozi": "Those who do not believe in words will not be fruitful." "There is already a story in "Yu Li" about the loss of the untrustworthy.
A wealthy businessman, when crossing the river, accidentally capsized, broke free in the water and shouted: Whoever can save himself will be rewarded with a hundred taels of yellow. A fisherman rescued a rich merchant ashore, but the rich merchant gave the fisherman an extra 10 taels of yellow.
The fishermen were not satisfied with learning about the rich merchants, but the rich merchants turned their faces and denied their accounts, saying: "You are a fisherman, and you will not be able to make any money in your life. ”
After that, the rich businessman sorted out his belongings and prepared to take the boat in advance. It seems that there is an arrangement in the dark, and the rich merchant capsized again. The rich businessman repeated his old tricks, and someone wanted to save them, and the boatman said that this was a trustworthy person.
Therefore, no one wanted to save it, and the rich businessman drowned in the water. Those who have attained the Tao have much help, and those who have lost the Tao have little help. Trust is the root of interpersonal interactions, and it is impossible for people to have a good end if they speak without integrity.
Even in the childhood stage, emotions are not something that can be vented unscrupulously. You have to learn to consider the feelings of others so that you can accept more possibilities in your daily life. Automatic control of emotions is a level that an adult should have.
If a person is unable to control his emotions and is too angry, he is very likely to lose his way.
Yue Fei once said such a sentence, warning future generations: "Cultivating virtue can then be correct, and grassroots democracy can then govern people." "Self-discipline is difficult, but it is essential in life, and it is also essential for success and growth.
Self-restraint in emotions is actually a high-end life practice. People who can't control themselves will always hurt others, and their emotions are always generated by their personal behavior. Even if I apologize later, the scar is still there.
As a result, knots are formed one by one in terms of interpersonal communication. In social psychology, there is a proper term called "garbage man's law". People who exude negative emotions all over their bodies are like walking garbage cans, driving away all blessings.
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It is very easy to get angry and has very changeable emotions. Very selfish and disrespectful to others. I always feel like I'm superior.
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What are the characteristics of a blessed person in his bones, and he can't keep the blessing when he comes to the door? Blessed people have these qualities: very stingy, very fierce, treacherous and so on, and they are generally not blessed.
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is particularly bitter and mean, has a very small heart, is particularly calculating, especially likes to complain, and always feels that he is not as good as others.
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Although everyone hopes that they can be blessed, some people are difficult to be blessed, and the same is true for life, it seems that there is always a lack of blessings for those who are blessed. So blessed, what simple and peaceful person is not blessed? Let's let this issue of physiognomy ** analyze for you.
The eyes are dull and godless, the eyes are the window of the soul, no matter how big or small, there must be a god, and black and white, such a person is strong-willed, even in adversity, he can quickly get out; And if the eyes are divergent, dull and dull, the eyeballs are black and white, plus three white and four white, or the eyebrows are too low, and the eye sockets are deep, so that the canopy people have a sense of listlessness and grogginess from the overall point of view, this kind of people are often in a relatively sluggish fortune, often accompanied by villains, and it is difficult to have blessings.
People with bulging eyes have a more irritable personality and are prone to disputes and even fights with other people, and there is a great chance of death. With bulging eyes, coupled with a sharp and thin face, such a person is a face of many disasters and difficulties, and there will be misfortunes in life, and the fortune of life is not very smooth, and there is no blessing.
The sharp cheekbones are fleshless in the face, the cheekbones are the right also, it is the place of the sun, from the cheekbones mainly look at a person's courage and endurance, the cheekbones are high and the fleshy people have strong endurance and can endure hardships, suitable for dangerous work or work in a harsh environment, and have authority. A person with fleshless cheekbones, if he is a woman, he will be a husband, if he is a man, he will have a bumpy career and a poor life. If you add a cheekbone to the bar, then he is domineering, arrogant, unreasonable, ungrateful, and has poor financial luck in his life, and he may be imprisoned for red injuries.
Generally speaking, a person with a straight nose bridge will be more blessed, and a low or inclined nose bridge is a taboo in physiognomy and will affect a person's blessing. People with a slanted nose tend to have a bad mentality and have a lot of sideways. They are suspicious by nature and cannot trust someone wholeheartedly.
Moreover, people with a sunken nose lack self-confidence, are not firm enough to do things, and it is difficult to achieve good results no matter how hard they try.
If a person's head is narrow, this kind of person generally lacks great wisdom, will only play smart, only care about immediate interests, lack of long-term vision and planning, always want to take shortcuts, and there is no big ambition, do things are also eager for quick success, lack of practical and steady mentality, and everything likes to deal with people, very cautious, people are also particularly greedy, there are some good ambitions, so it is difficult to achieve great things in life, there is no blessing.
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In our ordinary life, we will see that some husbands and wives get along very harmoniously with each other, and they are often praised by people for being very blessed. Of course, we can also see some people who are not blessed, and they usually have bad luck. Come alongPhysiognomy**Let's see what kind of people are blessed.
People with a sunken and sloping nose are blessed.
A low or tilted nose bridge is a taboo in physiognomy, which will affect their fortune or blessings. People with a slanted nose have a bad mentality, and they will have a lot of sideways thoughts, and they are suspicious by nature, even people who are very close to them cannot be trusted. People with a low nose bridge lack self-confidence, can't do things firmly, always think that no matter how hard they try, they won't have good results, and their performance in terms of financial luck is not very good, and they still need to worry about life.
People with high cheekbones and long cheeks are blessed.
Whether it is a man or a woman, as long as their cheekbones are high, then they must be very domineering people, never reason with others, only follow their own ideas, and do not take into account other people's feelings. And they are still ungrateful people, who don't know how to be grateful to those who have helped them, but will turn their faces and deny people, so their fortunes in life are not very good, let alone blessed.
The tip of the head is pointed and the forehead is low and narrow.
People with sharp heads belong to smart people, and those with low and narrow foreheads belong to those who have no foresight in doing things, only care about immediate interests, and have no long-term vision, so the combination of these two characteristics is that everything has a little cleverness, but there is no long-term ambition, and they are eager to achieve quick success and quick profit, so they are ambitious, so it is difficult to succeed in their lives, and they belong to people who are not blessed.
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1.Mean 2Irritability 3Thin cool 4More Words 5Alcoholism 6Stay up late.
1. Be mean. There are many creatures in the filthy earth, and those who are clear in the water often answer that there is no fish, and the rest is clean, and it is advisable to have no children."
In life, accept the imperfection of reality, don't think about perfection from time to time, of course, there is nothing to blame, the pursuit of perfection in work and study is a very good quality, but life is not only you, accept the direction of things from moment to moment, to people and things, do not be too harsh, do not be harsh to others, should be easy-going and tolerant, no matter what environment you live in, you can be calm and calm, and live in harmony with others, such people, there will be more blessings.
2. Irritability. Harmony can nurture all things, and the rest of the good is angry".
Home and everything is prosperous, and people and everything come true. A person often gets angry, gets angry, his face changes, and his temper becomes more and more irritable.
3. Thin and cool. Yu cherishes his reputation and often can't sacrifice himself to save others."
As the old saying goes: help others, be happy yourself, and be willing to help others, good popularity, good luck.
Fourth, more words. It is necessary to talk too much and consume gas, and it is advisable to have no children."
Don't say what you don't have, say too much, you can't tell which sentence will bury the root of the bane, many times, more than one mouth is better than one less.
5. Alcoholism. Like to drink Shuo or wisdom essence, it is advisable to have no children five".
Drunk disorderly, drunk immorality, drunk "spit out the truth", wine is easy to hurt the liver, the disadvantages of wine are obvious.
6. Stay up late. It's good to sit all night, and I don't know the god of Bao Yuanyu."
Staying up late hurts the vitality, the vitality is less, and the blessing is thin.
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A person with a bad face is a blessed person, These people are generally sharp-beaked monkey gills, some have a collapsed nose bridge, and some have high cheekbones. Then there are some people who can't see everything, always feel that other people's lives are good, their own lives are a mess, compare with others everywhere, and appear inferior to others everywhere, and people with this kind of thinking are also blessed people.
There is also a kind of person who is also blessed, that is, a person who dies to save face and suffer sin, such a person loves vanity and does not dare to reveal his true self, everything on his face is like a play on the spot, and such a person is also blessed. It is precisely because of his love for vanity that those blessings that should have belonged to him have also run away, so to be a man, it is better to be really good, and make some false ones, thinking that others can't see it, but in fact, others know it but don't say it.
Another characteristic of people with poor fortune is that they are greedy for money and are reluctant to spend money。These people should be very good people in the eyes of others, but they always show a greedy appearance, and they want to take advantage of everything, as if their family is too poor to open the pot. Reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, rich is like no money, such people are too unable to enjoy life, they are simply slaves to money, so people who are greedy for money and take money too seriously are also blessed people.
A person with a thin fortune is also a person who has no morality, likes to talk nonsense, make a coax, and it is obviously a good word, but it completely changes the taste when it comes out of his mouthLet the listeners have the idea of strangling him. As the old saying goes, good words are warm in three winters, which shows the importance of being able to speak, and some people flaunt themselves as a feature of going straight, but they don't know how many friends Lao Yan has been harmed by speaking straight, and how many families have been broken. Speaking is an art, to say nice things, to say what you should say, those things that should not be said, words that hurt others, must not be mentioned.
But some people like to talk nonsense regardless of the occasion, so that they become the target of public criticism and become the most hated person. Therefore, a person who has no virtue and speaks blindly is also a person who is not blessed.
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People with bad faces are blessed, such as people who are not full of heaven and the earth is not round, they are people with thin blessings, and they are characterized by dying to save face and suffer crimes, which is also a symbol of thin blessings!
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People who are blessed with thin fortunes have very small ears. Such a face has no flesh, so there is no blessing at all, and it has always been a sad feeling.
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It may be that people who grow thinner are generally blessed by those who are fatter, or those who have thinner ears are not blessed.
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People with poor physical fitness, if they are not in good health, they will lead to unhappiness. The obvious characteristics are that the person is very thin, his eyes are blank, and he is riddled with diseases.
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