My boyfriend is greedy and stingy, and the delicious food is never given to me, what should I do?

If your boyfriend is so stingy that he can't give you anything to eat, then I don't think it's necessary for you to tolerate and tolerate him. Although eating is a small thing, it can be seen through a small thing later. The other party can ignore you when he is still your boyfriend, and he is so stingy that he doesn't give you anything to eat, then you can imagine that he will become your husband even more in the future, and he won't care about you.

We can see from this little thing that your boyfriend is not a person who really loves you at all, if he really likes you, then let alone food, whatever you want, as long as he can give you, he will give it to you, this is no longer a problem of his stinginess, this is not a stinginess can maintain him, I don't think we need to make excuses for him. He can't give you anything to eat now, and if you two get married, do you think he might still be able to put the money he earns into your hands to maintain the family, unless he is a different person.

Even children from an early age parents and teachers are taught to learn to share, this is what children know and can do, your boyfriend is so big, this is not a little conscious, you can't share the food with you, then others don't want to think, such a stingy person who wants to be friends with him, what good results can you have with him.

Stingy, it's better to say that he is too selfish, he is the biggest in his eyes, he doesn't take care of others, and the most important thing is to eat and drink enough, even if it's his girlfriend. Then I think it's better for you to break up, if he will find his mistakes because of the breakup, and he can change it in the future, then then think about whether to be together at that time. If he's been really selfish, there's no need to be friends.

There are two sides to the opposite, and there are two sides to this problem, one is change, and the other is tolerance. But beloved, promise me not to be patient!

Change shows that you are a smart woman who knows how to find a way to solve things when you encounter them, instead of complaining and living your life into a dead end. Change him and change himself. Boyfriend is a greedy and stingy person, who has good food and doesn't know how to share, if your boyfriend is also a smart person, then as long as you wake him up in this matter, I think he will realize.

Maybe this bad habit of his was developed at home. But if your boyfriend is the kind of selfish person, you can also use some countermeasures to treat others in their own way. If he is selfish, then you are also selfish, he will not give you delicious food, and next time he will eat in front of him openly, and he will not be given food to eat, let him know how angry he is when he is treated like this!

After saying that he changed him, he was talking about changing himself, there is a saying that people gather like and things are grouped, and while talking about others, I should also reflect on whether I am also selfish in some aspects, if this is really the case, then you have to think about it, whether you want to change yourself first.

Tolerance, no one is perfect, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, if you can't change, then try to be inclusive! Think about the sparkle in him that fascinates you, not everyone will live in your prescribed trajectory. To tolerate others is not to tolerate yourself.

Patience, girl, if the method of appeal has no effect after trying, then break up! He won't change for you, and you won't change for him, so what are you together for? For the sake of a stable marriage in the eyes of others?

A life is too long, your patience is a lifetime of patience, he will not feel guilty and grateful because of your patience, he will only be in your patience again and again, become more intense! Once in your life, girl, your life is in your hands, how to live, it depends on you!

If it were me, I would tell him that I wanted to eat this too, and if he kept doing this, I would consider breaking up with him!

So what do you want such a selfish boyfriend for? It's better to break up with him early, men should be atmospheric, besides, it's their girlfriend, and it's not someone else who is so stingy, this kind of person must not want it.

It shows that he is a foodie, and if he wants to buy something, many people may not know what to buy.

Well, how to say it, not buying you something doesn't mean that I don't love you, right? Emotional things can't be measured by money.

If he doesn't spend a lot of money himself, then you don't need to worry so much, which means that he is a person who can get by.

I don't think so, it's supposed to be that he's very picky.

Tell him what he wants to buy and see how he reacts. If you are too stubborn, it means that you don't love you.

That's just that you have to be more, don't ask too much if people don't have much money.

No, it's just that she's a stingy guy.

Maybe I'm afraid that you will be too demanding, buy expensive, and can't afford it all of a sudden.

Why didn't you buy it for him?

Why does it cost you a penny to get a boyfriend? Your thinking is wrong and needs to be improved, but then again, he doesn't spend money on you, explain the deduction, leave as soon as possible, girls should not ask men to do anything, but men should take the initiative to consciously do something, this is correct, you have problems that need to be corrected, he also has problems, his problems are not how to do, it is best to leave him.

Reasons: 1. The other party's economic ability is not good;

Second, the other party is more frugal;

3. I may not really have feelings for you.

This definition of not spending money is too general, it depends on what your boyfriend does not spend money on you, and you have to be more detailed.

You're buying you something for him? Not a penny slipped though, and I feel like you're being played with at the pace.

If you love him, why bother about spending it or not? If he loves you, he will be willing to spend money for you. Spending money does not necessarily mean loving you, but if you don't spend a penny, you must not love you, why should you be reluctant to let go, let go, let go!

How long have you known your boyfriend?

Maybe you've just met, you're not familiar with each other yet, and you're both in the inspection period, so he's more cautious about money.

If you've known him for a long time and you feel very good about him, but he won't spend money on you, if you have a more cheerful personality, you can talk to him openly about it, talk about your demands, and maybe he will improve. Or you learn about his financial situation from the side, maybe he is short on money during this time, or he has encountered something, so he has no money for you to spend.

Men spend money for women, and they can express their love to a certain extent, but special situations also need special treatment. The main thing is to look at how you feel about him and ask yourself if you really want to be in a relationship with this person forever.

Is this kind of boyfriend going to make him single early?

If you want to take care of it, you can find a large amount of money.

Why, it's too picky.

It's understandable if it's a student who doesn't have money, but it's not like spending a penny, so if you don't feel appropriate, just share it.

Abandon him, such a boy doesn't love you.

Did you not spend a penny on him, he may be thinking that you did not spend a penny on him.

If it's not good for you or you don't give money, it's a word for it. If you feel lucky, it's up to you.

Such a stingy man broke up.

If you don't spend a penny, you can divide it.

Of course, the boy who didn't pull out a dime is going to break up. Since you come to ask a question, you probably think that the other person is very good in other aspects and cannot be separated, but imagine that if you are together for 10 years, will you regret this question? If it will, then it should be broken up.

If not, then you're still feeling good. Any decision or problem of the present, you can assume how you will feel about the decision 10 days from now, 10 months from now, 10 years from now.

In "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", Zhuge Liang is the author who exerts the most effort and deepest feelings, and is also the character who occupies the most space in the work, so some people say that Zhuge Liang is the real protagonist of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms". This also clearly reflects the author's local concept of Luo Guanzhong.

Do you love him? Aren't you selfish when you are selfish? If you love him, you have to love all of him, he is the general character, you have to find a way to make him change a little, but it is impossible to change everything. Cherish it, regret that there is no medicine.

Does your boyfriend like to blow water? If your boyfriend is new to the world, it's normal, but... You should know about the people your boyfriend and usually interact.,Too many pig friends and dogs, I'm afraid my boyfriend won't be better.。。

I don't really think it's a personality issue, if he really loves you, he will definitely pay for you. Find the right opportunity to speak your mind! If a relationship is mixed with so many complaints and small entanglements, it is better to cut through the mess quickly!

You already understand his shortcomings so well, and you must have the answer in your heart, but I just hope that others will push it again, of course you have to break up.

What I have said below is only a personal opinion:

First of all, selfishness and stinginess, I think everyone will have a little bit of it more or less, but everyone shows different ways in these parts, some people are very generous on the outside, but they are very petty in the inner world.

Nothing in the world can be seen from one side, if the "positive and negative" (i.e., advantages and disadvantages) are applied to people, ("a": The positive number of this person is 99, but the negative number is 100, and finally a may be a negative number. "b":

This person has a positive number of 60, a negative number of 59, and finally a b may be a positive number).

Actually, what I want to say is to see both the positive and the negative.

Of course, if you really don't feel the need to continue dating, of course, in the end, you have to make your own decision.

If you're really selfish and petty, I mind if you give up, provided you can't change if you love each other very much.

You give it once, you have a second time, what is such a man going to do? He doesn't take care of you, and he wants you to take care of him in turn?

It's still in the love stage, and when you get married, you still have it? Such a person can't want to drop, quickly draw a clear line, and stay away from him.

There may be other reasons for re-dating.

You should have a good talk with him Now that we're together, it's fate, if he really can't change it, let's let it go, I can't wronged myself.

If you like him, you should remind him, or if he really likes you. Accommodating reminders of choice) complex.

Never thought about you? Then hurry up and divide it, there are really many good men in the world! Believe me!

Some of his actions make love a little awkward, you can ask him to buy you something first and try his ideas. At the same time, you can try to change him and hope you have a happy life.

Forget it! It's okay not to have such a man.

What if? It's hard to tell who's right and who's wrong without giving an example.

Don't want such a man. I don't like that.

How's it going, what's going on?

This is widespread.

There are a few obvious reasons for this.

The first reason.

Your boyfriend is a straight man, and in his eyes, he is dating, eating, shopping, and he doesn't know what else you want.

He thinks he's done well enough, very gentlemanly.

Second, your boyfriend thinks that eating is, after all, you have to eat, and the meal is eaten by two people, no matter how expensive the meal is, after all, he also eats! It's a good deal.

He thinks that buying you a gift is expensive and unnecessary.

He believes that in addition to eating and drinking, other needs are dispensable.

There's no need to waste.

The third case.

It's your boyfriend, and his financial ability is really limited.

If he can invite you to a good meal once in a while, he may have to grit his teeth.

He really can't afford other gifts, so he told you why he bought them, and he specially explained to you!

I'm embarrassed to say I don't have any money.

In fact, not buying gifts for girls, the most likely situation, the most common situation is no money.

It's not that he doesn't want to buy it for you, he really doesn't have any money, and even eating is a problem, so how can he have that spare money, it is estimated that the money will only be used where you are together.

For example, if you eat or open a house, he will feel that there is no money, and it is worth borrowing it, after all, the two of them enjoy it together.

What else can you do except pick that you don't deserve it You should stay away from him Where a man's money is spent, his heart is there** He doesn't love you that much or doesn't love you at all Look at him Is he worthy of your love **Is there an advantage that attracts you very much If you work hard to see if you don't give up as soon as possible.

You just lack this, you have to ask someone to buy a gift for you, do you think that a man doesn't spend money on you and feels uncomfortable, don't ask why, just break up, the three views don't agree.

Hehe, maybe he is not ready to spend his life with you, or in the stage of falling in love, not sure about your relationship, maybe my analysis is not right, if you really love someone, it is if the economy allows, you will definitely not be stingy with money, I'm embarrassed to answer you like this, but that's what I think.

Either that, or your boyfriend wants your love to be pure.

Either your boyfriend is poor or stingy.

He doesn't love you enough or he doesn't have any money. He's stingy, he's thinking about you, not falling in love with you.

Maybe it's because I don't have any money, so I can only take care of food.