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It's actually quite simple to want to distinguish between routines and sincerity, people in routines are generally talkative, and sincere people will actually take action!

When you fall in love with a beautiful dress, but you are shy, but you know very well that your boyfriend has money in his pocket, and the ** of this skirt is definitely within the range of his acceptability. You can put it bluntly: I like this dress so much, but I haven't been paid yet, what if the dress is sold?

Routine man: Don't worry, I'll buy it for you tomorrow, and it will be a gift for you! However, a day has passed, two days have passed, and I have never seen my boyfriend send a skirt over!

In fact, he didn't forget it at all, but he guessed that you were embarrassed to mention it to him, and after a few days, you will be paid and you can buy your own dress!

Zhenzhen: He will let you try it out to see which number is more suitable, and then secretly pay the cashier in advance. When you try it out, someone will come over and say:

Miss, you look beautiful in this dress! That gentleman has already paid for you, you can just put it on, and I'll help you wrap up your old clothes.

If you're sick, message your boyfriend and hope for his help.

Routine man: Ask you what illness you have on WeChat, whether it is serious or not, and then tell you that he is very busy now and can't leave, and he will definitely send you to the hospital tomorrow. But the next morning he would have forgotten about it, and even if he did, he would pretend to forget.

But when you're well, he'll come and pay your respects.

True man: Immediately ask the boss for leave and rush to your side, deliver medicine for you, and pour water for you. If he sees that your appearance is very serious, he will take you to the hospital immediately for examination.

In a word: people who pay for you sincerely will always care about you and take action; Someone who likes tricks will only say witty things in front of you, and when you really need his help, he will definitely stay away.

In the material world, it is always difficult to be pure in feelings. When you are touched by the other party and are ready to deliver your sincerity, you find that everything is just your own self-inflicted sentimentality and being tricked by another person. At this time, I will definitely be very sad and sad, and I vow never to believe in love again.

Therefore, it is necessary to find some ways to distinguish whether others are sincere or routine.

Try to make a little strange and a bit excessive. When the other party tricks you, he is not prepared to pay too much, he just treats this as a game. Winning is a windfall; If you lose, you won't be sad.

But a true person is different, as long as he can do it, he will try his best to satisfy you. Therefore, discovering with your heart is the most correct way.

I haven't responded. In the face of feelings, the routines are all fake, and only sincerity is true. They don't have a specific goal, and if you don't respond all the time, they will naturally choose to give up.

But sincerity is different, if you like you, you will continue to pursue you until you agree. Some people may say that if you really love someone, you don't necessarily need to respond, just pay silently. But I would say that there are not many such people.

Since you have paid it, there are a few people who don't want to ask for something in return! <>

Find another friend and pretend to be "** road". The person who puts the next set more on the process and thus tends to ignore the result. Someone who takes the bait, but it will make them feel bored.

If you are smart enough and use the method properly, you may be able to do another anti-routine. No one can say anything about feelings, so please don't explain yourself too simply.

The routine is a trap, as long as you have a vigilant heart from the beginning, you can prevent the "** road".

Since ancient times, the sincerity cannot be retained, and only routines can win the hearts of the people. So how do you distinguish between "routine" and "sincerity"?

I don't know, the compass pointing to money is a routine, and pointing to the heart is sincerity.

Many people will have such a problem in love.

Whether the other party really likes to search or state joy.

Or is it just a routine.

Especially. The other party is still in the relationship when they are still like a fish in water.

Many people will start to feel insecure.

Maybe it's not a group and it's not in people's hearts.

There is also an answer.

It's just ambiguous, and I don't know why.

I'm going to tell you about it today.

Those things about sincerity and routines.

What is a routine

Routine is to discover a person's desires and satisfy them.

For example: Girl S is a lonely person, and it just so happens that you find out about her loneliness. So you try to accompany her, eat with her, chat, watch movies.

You satisfy S's desires, making her slowly develop a sense of dependence on you. When she gets used to this sudden feeling of dependence, at this time, you suddenly ignore her or even withdraw, and she may break down.

Therefore, the essence of the routine is nothing more than this: I know that you have this desire, and I also know that if you satisfy this desire, you will become happy. It just so happens that I want to get you again, so I'll slowly let you fall by boiling frogs in warm water.

What is sincerity?

Sincerely, it's like this: I know that you are empty, lonely and cold, and I also know that if I eat and chat with you every day, you will like me.

I have the ability to keep us together by satisfying your desires, but I don't.

All I really hope is hello. This "good" is not materially good. It's not that I cook you breakfast, take care of you when you're sick, buy you clothes, buy bags, even though I have the ability to do these things.

What I hope more is that you can become an independent and complete person with a strong heart.

So I'll have dinner with you and be friends with you. When you are experiencing pain, I will appear and tell you the root cause of these negative emotions and the solution. I hope that when you encounter similar things in the world, you will no longer be sad, and you can resolve your negative emotions and become a strong person in your heart.

I'll be happy if you take my advice; If you don't accept it, I don't care. It's your life, your body. It's you who makes the decisions, you're the ones who are happy, and you're the ones who are suffering, and it has nothing to do with me.

I respect you for being an independent and complete person, but I also want you to be a better person.

That's the truth.

This is love.

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I wish you to meet the person in your life as soon as possible, whether it is free love or blind date, the way you meet is not important, love for each other is king.

What is the most precious thing about human life in the world? I think it's just truth, goodness and beauty, and the most beautiful begins with truth.

But what is the most basic thing for people to live in the world? Many people say that it is thick black learning, and it is to behave in the world.

There is a type of people who are good at dealing with all kinds of relationships, just like Sichuan opera changing faces, switching roles every minute, their lives are like fish in water, and they don't even need to work hard.

There is also a group of people who have a sense of justice in their hearts and want to maintain an independent personality, but they have become slaves of reality, they crave a kind of guidance, look forward to self-redemption, and slowly put on a disguise to hide that vulnerable heart.

Both of the above options can adapt to social life, but are they really happy?

Of course, there are "rectums" in everyone's eyes, commonly known as people with low emotional intelligence, who don't understand the unspoken rules of society, always offend people, tell the truth, the more tired they live, the harder they work, the more sad they become, and they wonder countless times: Be yourself, isn't it okay?

More sincerity, less routine. It's a simple Internet phrase, but doesn't it reflect the lack of valuable sincerity in this society?

Sincerity is like subcutaneous tissue exposed to the air, without ** protection, once it comes into contact with the outside world, it will rot, therefore, it needs to be protected, and protection does not mean replacement.

Therefore, people have found the way of routines, which is like a layer of hard **, absorbing all impurities and dirt, and slowly people get used to routines, and the dirt continues to go deeper.

In the end, those cells that are full of vitality are no longer alive, and the routine replaces the body and becomes a kind of decay.

Sincerity and routines are not inherently contradictory, the question is whether you want sincerity to be replaced or protected.

If he is sincere to you, then he will have a sense of responsibility, his future will have you, will pay for you, and will work hard for your future. Of course, a man who can't even guarantee his own life, you can't expect him to be sincere to you. The premise of love is that there must be material, otherwise such love will not last long.

1.A man who is sincere to you, he must be willing to pay.

A man who doesn't love you will definitely not pay for you. And the man who loves you has 100 yuan, and he is willing to spend 90 yuan for you. A man who doesn't love you, he won't spend a penny, and even wants to take money from you.

When you meet such a man, stay away early. Such a man is not a scumbag, only poor, and has no sense of responsibility, poor character, and is a typical scumbag.

In society, there are many such men, most of whom have no ability, always cry poor, and kidnap you with feelings. It makes you feel that it is appropriate to pay and dedicate to him, and it is impossible for him to pay for his feelings. He enjoys your giving, you are moved by your giving, in fact, he has never had any feelings for you at all.

So, I'd rather find a rich man than waste time with this kind of poor and scumbag man. In the end, you don't get anything, and you're covered in bruises. It makes sense that some people are poor, and they don't deserve the sincerity and kindness of others.

2.A man is willing to spend money for you, but he is not willing to take you to meet his friends and family.

There is also a type of man who is willing to spend money for you, but only takes what he needs and will not introduce you to his family and friends. They're just drawing colors and don't intend to walk with you. Such men should pay attention, it is possible that they have a family, or they are just playing with you and have not thought about marrying you.

To sum up, to judge whether a man is a routine or a sincere person to you, you need to look at it from many aspects. From a material point of view, a poor man, don't expect him to be sincere, because he can't eat enough by himself, and he is good at eating soft rice, this kind of affirmation is a routine and ill-intentioned. And a man has money, but his future does not have you, and it is a waste of your youth to bring it.

First of all, it depends on whether he will be willing to spend money on you, whether he will give you gifts, whether he will introduce you to his relatives and friends, and whether he can help you as soon as possible when you encounter difficulties.

You can judge from the way you chat, the way two people get along, and the situation you usually come into contact with, and you can also understand each other's thoughts.

It can be seen from the usual mannerisms that a person will feel it if he truly believes in himself.