Why do funeral homes only let families take away half of the ashes?

Birth, old age, sickness and death are very common laws of nature, so each of us has to go through this process, in the past, when a loved one died, we would let them into the ground, but with the development of social civilization, now people will send them to the funeral home for cremation after death, some friends will find this strange phenomenon why the funeral home only allows family members to take away half of the ashes after cremating the body? Of course, it's not that simple, but what's going on? Let's take a closer look.

We know that funeral parlors have a special stove for burning the remains, and the temperature of this furnace is usually thousands of degrees, and the corpse is also burned at high temperatures, slowly turning into ashes, when the family of the deceased sees this small urn, they will mistakenly think that the people of the funeral home are not serious enough, and do not pack all the ashes, and some people even think that the funeral home deliberately left half of the ashes for other purposes, and they think that a person of such a big age cannot have only a little bit of ashes, so it is believed that the funeral home deliberately hid part of the ashes.

In fact, the deceased was incinerated to the end, and there were only about three to five kilograms left, so the funeral home only allowed the family to take away half of the ashes of the tester did not exist, and the funeral home could not be burned in the process, so the family of the deceased mistakenly thought that the staff of the funeral home in the process of incineration, moved their hands and feet to make the ashes become so few, plus in the past few years, it has been rumored that the funeral home will send half of the ashes to the fertilizer factory, so people are also convinced of this.

In fact, the steps of cremation in the funeral home are so complicated, and it is normal for there to be occasional mistakes, and the staff must not do it on purpose, if the staff does this, this is a great disrespect for the deceased, and irresponsibility to the family of the deceased.

Because the large bones in the human skeleton cannot be burned into ashes, only a part of the ashes can be taken away.

Because the volume of the urn is very small, and there are many bones in the human body, it cannot be completely packed into the urn after burning.

Ashes are of little real value to people other than the family of the deceased. This statement is completely false, the crematorium is very respectful of the deceased, there is no such situation.

Crematoriums are under the jurisdiction of the Civil Affairs Bureau, and according to our country's funeral management regulations, cremation can only be done if the next of kin provides a certificate. Everyone knows that people have birth, old age, sickness and death, and the funeral home is the last stop of our life, whether it is the end of life or death due to illness, as children, the funeral home will be notified to cremate the body, and then the ashes will be buried in the cemetery, but there are a few exceptions to the ashes of the deceased whose relatives are unclaimed. What does the funeral home do with the ashes given up by the deceased's relatives in the crematorium?

Since it has been cremated, it is not allowed to be abandoned. Relatives forcibly give up the ashes for various reasons, such as no one to claim the ashes after the children have conflicts and are cremated, in this case, the funeral home will carry out numbered storage, which is very expensive. It is very simple to find relatives with the cremation certificate of immediate family members, and the relatives of the cremated ashes do not have to ask for it, and the longer it is delayed, the higher the storage fee, and the crematorium can go through the judicial process to ask for the storage fee.

Therefore, since it has been cremated, whether it is from the perspective of human favor or law, don't think about giving up, it is the right way to welcome back the ashes of your relatives as soon as possible and let your relatives be buried in peace!

For the ashes that the family members voluntarily give up claiming, that is, the family members clearly give up claiming the ashes of the deceased after the cremation of the body for various reasons, and clearly indicate that they will be handed over to the funeral home for disposal, under normal circumstances, the funeral home will ask the family to sign and press their fingerprints, or provide more supporting materials to ensure that the funeral home will not cause unnecessary trouble after the harmless treatment.

The funeral home has a system, if there is a family member at the time of cremation, the ashes must be taken away, if not, the funeral home will be temporarily numbered and stored in the museum, and the cost can not be low until the family takes it away. If the family clearly gives up, they can issue a certificate, and the funeral home may handle it on its own after a while. In fact, in my personal opinion, people who are burned to ashes are also a kind of fertilizer, and it is good to return to nature.

The death of a person is a sad thing, whether from the perspective of traditional customs or basic ethics, we should properly dispose of the ashes of our loved ones. Of course, the green funeral that has become popular in recent years not only protects the environment but also reflects the memory of the deceased loved ones, and everyone can also actively try it.

Generally, they choose to throw it in a random place or bury it directly in the soil. I don't think the funeral home is doing it very well. It will leave the dead without resting

The funeral home will report it to the superiors and then take it to a designated place for storage.

Of course, they will dispose of the ashes or give them to the locals to use as fertilizer.

If the loved one has given up the ashes, the funeral home will sign an agreement with the other party and the ashes will be disposed of without contamination.

Family ashes are now stored in the funeral homeIf you want to take them home, it is best to arrange a spare room separately for placement. With the permission of the funeral home, Mingxiang told the ancestors to go home, and if there were children at home, they had to tell the ancestors: look with your eyes and don't touch them with your hands.

Don't stop when you get home, immediately put it in place, and then Mingxiang informs that you have arrived home, and the people in the family worship collectively. The ashes are worshipped in the same way as the previous spiritual tablets (spirit tablets) in the hall. When the first stand is placed, it is placed in place with kneeling and worshipping nine knocks and three incense, and the candles are divided into three - two times for a total of six, and the tea, wine, meat and vegetarian Cai are indispensable.

In the future, you can light three sticks of incense and bow down to worship. You can light a stick of incense and bow down every day. I suggest finding a piece of feng shui treasure land and letting the ancestors settle in the earth!

If the ashes of the family are now stored in the funeral home, if you want to take them home, you have to go through the staff, and then you can apply to take them out, and there is nothing else to say.

The ashes of the family are stored in the funeral home, and if you want to take them home, you can ask a Taoist priest to do it. If you do it yourself, the general procedures are: worship, thanksgiving, raising, inducing souls, anjin, worshipping, worshipping.

You need to ask Mr. Feng Shui to consult what time period is the best time to get it back, and after understanding the process of taking it, you have to find Mr. Feng Shui to go to the mountain to see where it is better for Feng Shui to place the ashes

The ashes are stored in the funeral home, and they need to be buried in the future, and they cannot be taken home, which is not good for feng shui, and the living and the dead cannot be together.

What you have to do is to prepare a place to be buried in the earth, take it out on a certain day, and then bury it at an auspicious time.

Find a feng shui gentleman to see, and settle into the earth.

You can take it home. After cremation, the ashes will be placed in a rectangular plastic container, then placed in a cardboard box or velvet bag, or in an urn (if the family has purchased them), and then returned to the deceased's next of kin.

In addition to the ashes, the crematorium authorities will prepare an official certificate of cremation for the family to prove that the deceased's body has been legally disposed of, and the certificate must be kept with the ashes.

Don't spread rumors, okay? What is the "other half of the ashes" where did they go? The funeral home is not private, and the body must be verified before cremation, and there must be a death certificate and relevant permission to arrange cremation, and there are strict requirements when disposing of the ashes left after cremation, unless the family does not want it, the official staff of the funeral home will dispose of it.

Maybe many people don't know much about the cremation process of the funeral home, so I'll talk about the basic process. Generally, if someone in the family dies, they will be at home for the first seven days, and if the conditions at home are not suitable, the body will also be transported to the funeral home to set up a funeral hall, usually for 3 or 7 days, during this time, the family will notify all relatives to come to see the last meeting. During this time, the funeral home staff will determine the date and time of the cremation, and when everything is ready, the cremation operation will be carried out directly on that day.

Before the cremation, an additional memorial service will be held, which can refer to the self-brain supplement in the TV series. There are two kinds of stoves used for cremation, one is an ordinary stove, it is said that the state advocates cremation, and the Civil Affairs Bureau will give subsidies. The other is a high-temperature stove, which is much more expensive than an ordinary stove and does not have a corresponding subsidy.

The temperature of the two stoves is also much different, so if you want to make people's remains into ashes to a greater extent, you can choose a high-temperature stove.

Generally, after cremation, the body of a person is burned in an ordinary furnace for about 3 hours, and then after the furnace cools down slightly, the staff will push out the remains and ashes from the back door of the cremation room, and after it is completely cooled, the family members will sort it out by themselves (there are also staff to help sort it out). Many people may see in the TV series that those ashes are in powder form, but in fact, ordinary cremators can't achieve that effect at all, and more or less some bone fragments will be left, and how much of these fragments are left is related to many factors. In short, how to dispose of these ashes depends entirely on the family.

The funeral home will not help you deal with it, and in most cases, the family will put the ashes in the urn, if they can't fit it, they will wrap them in a red cloth and put them in after the urn is customized. After the cremation of the body in the crematorium, all the ashes will not be left, so don't chew your tongue and mislead everyone.

It has always been natural for people to get sick and die of old age. Regardless of their status, rich or poor, they are left with only a handful of loess after their death. Most people opted for burial before liberation, and now cremation is the most common option.

When a loved one dies, we usually take their body to a funeral home for disposal. After the body is said goodbye, the funeral home staff will send the body to a special furnace to be burned. Then, in the heat of several thousand degrees, the body will slowly turn to ashes, and then the ashes will be returned to the family.

However, there have been recent rumors that families can only take half of their ashes after being cremated at the funeral home. Actually, this is a misunderstanding.

In fact, this is nonsense, because only family members or those who remember the deceased will value their ashes after death, while for others, taking away the ashes of the deceased is of no value at all. They may even feel unlucky and stay away.

One of the reasons why family members feel that there are few ashes is that the person who picks up the ashes does not collect all the ashes carefully. Some of them will be scattered in the crevices around them, and some will be blown away by the flames during the burning process, which makes them appear less.

However, some netizens rumored that the funeral home sold the ashes of the deceased to a fertilizer factory to use as fertilizer, which is even more unlikely because there is no organic matter in the ashes after incineration, and it is completely impossible to use them as fertilizer. Even if there were, no one would dare to use this fertilizer.

The reason why people think this may be because the ashes themselves are relatively light, weighing only 3 to 5 kilograms. The relatives of the deceased then see a small urn and compare it with when they were alive. There is a big gap in the heart of nature.

At that time, they were so sad that they thought that only half of the ashes were hidden by the funeral home. Of course, there is another reason, because family members are not allowed to watch while cremating at the funeral home, so some family members will feel whether the ashes were left in the furnace or taken away by someone else.

Judging from the above information, it is completely false to say that the funeral home only allows the family to take half of the ashes.

Because half of the ashes were naughty, they ran away by themselves, no way, just naughty.

Why do funeral homes only allow families to take away half of the ashes after burning the body? I've never heard of it, but it's the first time I've heard of it.

Because the other half of the ashes can be useful, you can't take them, you can only take half of the ashes.

In fact, there are not many ashes left after the body is burned. Taking a little away from the family is also to give the family a thought.

Because there are still a lot of human ashes, it is impossible to take them all away.

Because the other half of the ashes are to be entered to prove the person.

The ashes can be taken away in their entirety, and there is nothing that you are not allowed to bring.

Nonsense, this is a rumor!

I don't know, but it's better to ask the funeral home, or the deceased.

It's shameful to spread rumors, it's shameful to spread rumors.

The other half of the ashes were left in the bottom of the furnace, and the ashes placed in the urn by the funeral home were only a small part.

After the funeral home cremates the body, it will put the ashes into a special urn, and some relatively large bones cannot be digested.

Usually the family members bring it back. The ash formed by the skeleton after human incineration, the X-ray powder crystal diffraction of human ashes shows that it is very similar to apatite, because after cremation, all the organic matter of the human body has been burned, and the remaining components are inorganic, and the element components are mainly calcium, phosphorus, oxygen and carbon.

The incineration process should be visible to the family.

You don't understand, how can the ashes after burning have no effect? The ashes are rich in phosphorus, which is the main ingredient of phosphate fertilizer, and is the treasure of crops! There are many and big results with it!

I think it's less than half, my dad's ashes (wrapped in a small red cloth, I took it back and put it in a small plastic bottle, just a little fragment, a quarter is about the same, it's really annoying