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Hello! Subject.
After the death of parents, it will inevitably involve a series of issues such as mortuaries and funerals. If you have many children, you can generally choose whose family you die in (in principle, the son's family is preferred), and in whose family you die, if you are right, you will not be good to anyone's family, this statement is unreasonable, don't be superstitious. If there is only one child in the family, it is not good for anyone's family because of the death at home, is it not good for the parents to die?
Let the parents go on the last journey, which reflects the filial piety of the children and the way to repay the kindness of their parents. If you don't handle the funeral for the elderly at home because of this superstitious saying, but don't treat yourself well, even relatives, neighbors, friends, colleagues, etc. will laugh at it.
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Under normal circumstances, like you said, this kind of siblings in order to stop the mortuary's family This situation is more prominent in the countryside, and no one is willing to let the dead stop, but in the countryside, the parents generally live in whose house, and the mortuary will be stopped in whose house they die, and they can't say that they died in this house, and then go to someone else's house to stop the mortuary, and then the death of the parents must also stop in one family, then die in whose house the morgue is
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No. After the death of a parent, the death of the eldest son is usually in the eldest son's house, but there are exceptions in the family of other brothers, which is not taboo and will not be bad for the family.
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Without this statement, no one can escape old age, sickness and death. In my hometown, I would rather be a morgue than let someone else have a child at home, and it would be unlucky to say that someone else would have a child at home.
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These are all false, although there is such a statement, but in reality it is not. Generally, the mortuary will be at the house of the eldest or the eldest child.
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I don't even know what to say, that's my parents, my parents died at which brother's house they died, and they died at their brother's house, so they stopped at their brother's house, where did their biological parents come from so many things
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After my mother died, there were many brothers, and if the mortuary was left at someone's house, the family would be unhappy within three years.
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Many parents have passed away, and there are fewer siblings in the future, and the relationship gradually fades and becomes more and more estranged, I think there are mainly the following reasons.
1. Parents are the root of their children, and parents have to come back to see their parents when they are brothers and sisters, so they will always get together, and if they can meet, they will communicate. And if one day the parents are gone, the connection may be estranged because of this. Parents are there, home is there, parents are not there, home is scattered, this is a very true portrayal.
2. On the day when the parents were gone, the children also got married, and some of them also hugged their grandchildren, because they had to take care of their children's small families, many of them lived with their children, so their own generation wanted to get together, but it was too easy to laugh.
3. Due to geographical reasons, brothers and sisters are distributed in different regions, although the traffic is very convenient now, but as they get older, many legs and feet are not very convenient, and it is not easy to go out of a long way. Usually there are red and white happy events in the family to meet!
4. It is not excluded that some families once had some hidden contradictions, and their parents could help mediate when they were alive, but one day this bond is broken, and conflicts will break out, such as when it comes to the distribution of property, it is easy to have disagreements.
There are also some parents who were partial when they were young, although they will not be on the bright side, but the unfavored children may have a pimple in their hearts, and the relationship with their relatives has become more and more cold after the death of their parents, and some even do not get along with each other in old age.
In the end, I remembered a sentence that I liked very much, which was a little sad, that is, my parents are here, and there is still a way to come in life; When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. Parents are a lifetime of kindness, and brothers and sisters love each other for a lifetime.
Hello, in the face of the problem you said, in fact, now this person is more realistic and very realistic, now some parents will not care even if they have children, everything about the child, only care about their own life, in fact, you should now think about your future life, earn your own money and spend it, be able to support yourself, face you, the second floor, think about some of the things they do, perhaps, some are too much for you, now relatives are like this, you are the sky if you have money, no money, you don't have a handful of dirt to step on it, so people nowadays are very realistic, sometimes money is indeed able to meet everything in people, but sometimes money can't buy anything.
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