What should I do if my mom is too strong? What should I do if my mother becomes particularly strong?

Updated on parenting 2024-06-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    First, learn to be coquettish.

    A coquettish woman has a good life, don't believe it, coquettishness is a woman's magic weapon, this trick is not only useful in front of her boyfriend or husband, but also effective in front of children, especially mothers with sons must learn to be coquettish.

    Second, learn to ask for help.

    Today's parents really think that they are omnipotent in front of their children, they have to worry about everything, and they have to reach out to manage everything, and strong mothers are even more so, they have to show how much they have ability, in fact, they don't have to, but they should let their children show, as long as they learn this sentence, it is enough, mom said, baby, can you help mom... Got it.

    Third, let the child make his own decisions.

    Do your own things, realize your own ideas, give your children the opportunity to be the masters, is the opportunity to really be the master, don't decide everything for the child, don't play tricks with the child, play a trick that wants to catch the old and indulge, and return the right to be the master of some small things to the child, even if it is wrong, the child will learn from it, this is not growth.

    Whether a woman is strong or not, strong in her career, it means that she is capable, and she is strong in the family, but it does not mean that the family is happy, whether you are married or not, whether you have children, if you are a particularly strong woman, I hope you will learn to show weakness after you have children, which is not only for the healthy growth of children, but also for you to have a happy family.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, you know that she is like that, you have to have your own opinions, you should find a job and find a job, you must be independent, if she goes back on her word after a while, you don't have to care, you have to have your own life plan. As for his insults to you, you don't care, your mother is a woman, and you have to let her be a woman, not to mention that she is your mother. Don't tell your father about the past, because no matter how it is, it's a complete family, if you tell it, you may not even have a home, you go outside and work hard, to a certain extent, your mother may change, and your father should care more about him.

    The reason why your mother is so strong is also related to your father, one is strong and the other is definitely weak, and you can't reach the balance point, so you need to be independent, fight for yourself, and at the same time fight for the family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can only accommodate your mother, because she can't change your mother's personality, after all, as elders, we as juniors must treat the elderly well, no matter what, they are your parents, we have to think about them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What should I do if my mom is too strong? You can talk to your mom and tell her how you feel and she should change.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is no way, you can only use ingenuity, don't hard top.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Generally, parents are like this, but they are all for the good of their children, and they can try to change the way of communication with their mothers.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Parents are like this, hoping that their children can become talents, so their personalities will be stronger.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the mother is particularly strong, then it is best not to do anything against her in the future, try to follow her, don't make her angry, she must be so old.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

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    The question is that I can't stand my mother a little bit.

    You should not choose to run away, but communicate with her. You have to tell her what you think and feel. But one thing to note is that don't accuse her, saying Mom, why are you like this, you shouldn't be like this.

    In this way, the next time your mother is emotional, she will realize that I don't agree with you or not, but I know that I say these things to you, and it will cause stress to my son. After a long time, she will think about whether to stress you or not.

    I asked the question, I also communicated, she didn't listen, and arranged marriage.

    What you can do now is not to run away from your family, but to go as far as possible, which will not solve anything. Instead, tell her the statement of facts and your feelings. But one thing to note is that don't accuse her, saying Mom, why are you like this, you shouldn't be like this.

    Question: I told my mother that you have a grandson, and you can pick you up when you want to come, don't think too much, she doesn't listen to me, I'm afraid she will hit me like last time.

    No, because your mom also cares about you, he just wants your life to get better and better, so you can communicate with him slowly.

    It's been a few months, and I hit me twice in November this year, and my husband can't stand it.

    I just want to know how to communicate, I said that if she doesn't listen, she just wants me to divorce and let me remarry and listen to her.

    We can still vote slowly with the relatives around us, and we can't change others in a way of understanding, we can only change our own way, which may be alleviated.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should communicate with your mother about some problems, so that your mother becomes gentle, maybe you are not doing very well, so your mother is particularly strong.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Mothers who are too aggressive, or who have a lot of contact with their children, must let their children have a good perception and correct impression of their father in their minds. In fact, a wise mother will always give her father the opportunity to make her child feel the presence of her father at any time, and respecting her husband is the best way to reflect patriarchy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It shows that your mother's personality is very strong, and such a mother also has a gentle side and is very kind to her children. So if you want to change, you can't change it. You just have to treat your mother well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Mother is particularly strong, is it internal or external? If your mother is strong on the outside, it's actually a good one for your family, and if you're strong on the inside, you can try to communicate with your mother. Hopefully he'll be less aggressive on that.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Mother suddenly became very strong, did she experience something? Or, have you experienced the guidance of a certain master? You tell him directly, you become like this, you can't accept it. I hope that my mother can change slowly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can talk to your mother about what you think, and you have to get her to approve of your ideas, so that she doesn't care too much about you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should adjust your mentality and communicate more with your mother, so that your mother can change her control over herself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then you can talk to him about your thoughts and his recent changes, and he should be aware of it and correct himself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should find a chance to talk to your mother and tell her that it will be very tiring.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I wonder why my mother became so strong? You should think about it, are we too cowardly?

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