I love my girlfriend, but I still love my ex girlfriend, what should I do?

If you can fall in love with two people at the same time, choose the latter, if the former you really love her, there will be no love behind.

Foot on two boats, and one day you'll capsize.

Landlord, you step on two boats, be a kind man = =!

You are really "fraternity".

But the reality of this ambiguous response is generally known to both girls.

And then they're going to do the same thing pretty tacitly, even if they haven't talked about it.

You know!

Which do you think you love more?

...Hello chaos. It depends on who you have more common language with and can take care of each other.

I think both men and women will care about it! In particular, the party who still has feelings and feelings for the other party in his heart is more concerned: Does the ex still love you? Do I want to get back together with you?

Most of the time, the ex says that a breakup is not necessarily unloved, but after a breakup, after a series of entanglements and quarrels, I don't know how to face each other, I can only calm each other down, in fact, the heart still wants to find a step to be with you again.

Say these 4 words after the breakup of the previous one, there is no doubt that he must still love you:

First, "You have to take care of yourself."

If your ex has said such things to you, it means that he is still very worried about you, and only when he subconsciously wishes you well, he will say such words that care about you. So if you want to know if your ex has you in his heart after breaking up, it depends on whether he will send these words of concern to you after breaking up with you.

Second, "you will meet better".

When your predecessor says this, it means that this person is full of guilt towards you. If he doesn't love you anymore, he won't care who you meet next, anyway, you have separated, it doesn't matter to him what you do, he can't wait for the next one to be worse than him, make you regret it, take the opportunity to take a breath, so that he won't ask you to meet someone better than him.

In fact, what the other person really wants to say is: although I love you very much, maybe I am not the best for you, I am also wrong, I hope you can meet someone better than me. In the eyes of the people who love you, even if the breakup is intense, calm down and hope that you can live a better life in the future.

Third, "I keep what you gave me."

If you really hear this, don't hesitate, it's 100% hinting that you want to get back together with you. As the old saying goes, "Seeing things and thinking about people". When a person completely wants to let go, he will erase all traces of the relevant and start a new life.

After breaking up, not only did I not throw away the things you sent, but took the initiative to tell you, "I still keep the things you gave me." Isn't that just waiting for you to go down the stairs and ask him, "What are you doing with my things?" "Logically reply to the ditch.

Fourth, "Can we still be friends?" ”

I believe I don't need to explain too much about this sentence. A completely dead heart person is usually decisive in the face of love, and if he doesn't love it, he doesn't love it, especially when he wants to leave completely, in order to avoid entanglement, he doesn't want to have the slightest relationship, let alone be friends.

As long as the other party still wants to be friends with you, don't hesitate anymore and seize this opportunity. Think carefully about what the other party said after the breakup, if you have found out that your ex was secretly hiding the careful thoughts, don't miss it easily, and seize the opportunity to redeem it in time, so what do you need to pay attention to in the specific recovery process?

First: the other party's demand point is **.

Affection is a war without gunpowder. As the saying goes, knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent will not be defeated in a hundred battles. If you don't even know what the other person's needs are, how can you successfully redeem them?

Second: whether your expectation management is up to the mark.

In the breakup and recovery link, most people are reunited in order to achieve redemption and success, and the purpose is extremely strong

Try to get her back! The premise is that she still likes you.

Everyone is selfish in love, you like your ex-girlfriend, your current girlfriend likes you, let him lose what he loses, she doesn't love you that much, if she loves you, she won't be separated from you. Cherish the present. The first time is very important for the girl, he should like you very much, please make a careful choice

Find a way to chase it back, or completely cut off the thoughts, otherwise it will be unfair to your current girlfriend and irresponsible for your love and leave yourself with lifelong regrets.

ps: The current girlfriend should be easy to get her hands on, which is in line with the easy saying, the easier it is to get something, the less you cherish it.

Being a man should have a minimum moral bottom line, and it is right to choose one of the two, and you can only decide if you remove the end of the scale.

Points, first of all, you like the matter of your ex-girlfriend, if your current one knows about it, if he is still willing to accept it, then you should not let this girl down, so it doesn't matter if you break up with your current one? You have to tell him who you like now. In this way, you are in love in the real sense, and then you can't deceive the other party, because I have you, and I also have the experience of you, that is, I was drunk twice when I was talking to the current one, and then I was thinking about my ex, and then I cried or something, and then I went back and told my current one, I still like the ex, and my current one accepted it, and he said that he was willing to wait for me, so I think this matter is no matter what?

You should make it clear to your current incumbent first, whether you have broken up or not? It all has to be made clear.

Only when you lose will you know who you want, and be cautious about your feelings!

Maybe you're just unwilling to be with your ex

If you like it, chase it, what do you have to worry about.

Why did you break up with your ex-girlfriend If you go to her again, will you break up for the same reason?

You think about this question first.

Find a way to get it back.

Or completely cut off thoughts.

Otherwise, it will be unfair to the current girlfriend and irresponsible for his love and leave a lifelong regret for himself ps: The current girlfriend should be easy to get it, which is in line with the easy sentence, often the easier it is to get something, the less you cherish it.

What's the matter with you??

Do you know? You're hurting two people at the same time!

And have you ever thought about the consequences of such indecision?

Torture others and torture yourself, dragging it out is not good for anyone.

Either get divorced and go find your true love. But it may make parents sad, and many people are disappointed either to break up with their ex-girlfriends and live their lives well.

Sometimes, I think I have to ask myself who is suitable to be a wife and who is suitable to talk about love.

Everything has to be asked of your heart!

Friend, first of all, I am very touched to hear your story!

Secondly, I have the following questions: 1. Why did your ex-girlfriend who you haven't seen for two years suddenly appear, and what happened between the two of you two years ago? 2. Does your ex-girlfriend know that you are married?

3. Do you think it's fair that you trade the happiness of an innocent person for the happiness of you and your ex-girlfriend? Don't you feel like you're being too cruel?

Finally, I would like to express my personal opinion: since you are now married, there is no need to dwell on the beautiful love that two years ago could not bring you marriage! Marriage is not the same as love, the two are not a whole, you have to be clear about this!

Since you have chosen your current wife, you should care for her and love her. You said that this marriage was arranged for you by your family, but I want to say that you are an adult, you must have also thought through your brain, since you have chosen, you must be responsible, whether your choice is because of family affection or other reasons, this is your choice, you must understand! If you divorce your wife and marry your ex-girlfriend, can you be sure that you will be happier than you are now?

Life is to withstand the bland, what do you mean by giving up everything for your ex-girlfriend? Now that the divorce rate in Beijing has reached and is about to catch up with the United States, it is not easy to manage a marriage, don't be too hasty, you need to be sensible!

Love and life, those who can love you, those who love die and live, may not be able to live with you. And what can live with you must be worthy of love. If you feel that love is more important, then leave the family behind early and end rationally what should not be continued; If you choose to live, settle down as soon as possible.

Anyway, I hope you can all be happy.

Friend! Why don't you love her and marry her? Can a family arrangement be pushed away?

Love means responsibility, and I struggle with it for you. But I want you to determine if you really love your ex-girlfriend or if it's just a man's playout. Think clearly and choose bravely!

"Love" is not only a feeling, but also a responsibility

There are all kinds of people, all kinds of love, all kinds of things.

Sometimes happiness is not something you choose, it is something you manage and protect.

You don't think she is a college student, and you should be a junior college or not a college when you get married, so that even if the two of you are together, you will be educated.

Back to the difference, answer two, what should you do with your wife, men have to take responsibility, I am also a college student, if you want to be with her is her meaning, then she is not a good girl, if it is your intention, then she will not agree, I think your wife is good to you after you get married, you can accept the trivial things of life with your so-called lover in the future.

That's your own problem, don't you like people to marry others isn't it harmful? The true love you seek is to hurt your family, your wife, and your former lover.

Treat your ex-girlfriend as a friend! Because of this relationship, if you don't handle it well, you will lose two!

For what you love, make a bold decision, I support you...

If you really love her, let her go. You get married. With her, she's the bad guy who destroys the family.

Hello landlord, I want to ask, how are you doing now?

Stupid, cheap, the woman who marries you is the one who really loves you, and she can play with you.