Ask for help and feel hopeless about life, often

If you want to continue your study journey, you don't think like this, let go of the burden of thought, work hard, don't think about the past, that will only increase your psychological pressure, let go and review all the knowledge with a good attitude, give yourself a chance, give yourself a chance in life, I believe you will succeed.

Well, it's been a year since you still had such an idea, which is not bad, it proves that you are still very good at learning.

All roads lead to Rome.

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion.

You've been playing for a year, which is not short, but fortunately, you are not depressed, even if your self-control is poor, try to do it.

If I try and fail, but I have experience, don't try, the chance is 0, try at least 50%. If you work hard, what you care about is the process, and it is also the experience of life.

Now, 90% of my classmates are in college, and I didn't go to a single one with good grades, which is very much to their surprise, two and a half years after graduation, I have also tried several jobs, and I still have no regrets about my original decision.

I always firmly believe that as long as you have a certain basic knowledge, not too much, and a motivated heart and a smart mind, you can live a good life.

In fact, there has always been a thought in my heart, after graduating from my classmates, I have been working for a few years, and in a few years, I don't believe that I will be much worse than them, maybe I am better than them! yes, hehe, it's a ......

Reading books like "The Reader" will help you!

Find a remote school without computers and strict discipline to repeat.

Don't despair about life, as long as you don't despair about life, life won't despair for you, you should be positive, it's no big deal.

So who lives like this? Can complaining solve the problem? In essence, you can't afford to buy a house, 6,000 a month, no loan, is this day easy?

It's already like this, then use your time to play games or leisure, take a part-time job, deliver a takeaway or something, open a Didi, and you tell yourself not to change for a hundred years, what's the use? I advise you not to **, if you have it, you will have it, and when the child comes, your motivation will come, and it is not the child that will be ruined to avoid you, but your life, because you will be used to complaining like a woman and not being active.

The pressure is given by yourself, don't compare yourself with people who are better than you, but compare with those who are worse than you, for example, there are tens of millions of singles, and countless people who can't afford to pay a down payment.

The vast majority of my salary paid off the mortgage, and my girlfriend became pregnant again. The economic pressure is indeed quite high, but it is not without solutions. Now that I am in a difficult situation, can I consider selling the house so that I don't have to pay the mortgage every month?

Your girlfriend can also go out to work if her physical condition allows, so that you have more money at your disposal, and with money, your sense of control over your life will be enhanced, and your quality of life will be improved accordingly. Don't despair of life because of money, when you get through these difficulties, you will find that life is really full of surprises and surprises.

There are two sides to everything, and although you don't have much left after your salary pays the mortgage, at least the house is your accumulated wealth, and every time you pay the mortgage, you are one step closer to fully owning the house. In addition, your girlfriend is pregnant and refuses to **, you really have to discuss this, after all, the current economic conditions are not very good, and you can't be sure if you can give your child a good living environment. Also, in fact, your girlfriend loves you, and she is willing to give birth to a child for you, which means that she wants to follow you for the rest of her life.

At least the salary is enough to pay the mortgage, take your time, look back after a while and find that nothing is a problem, everything can be solved in the end, you can't lose confidence in life, believe that everything will slowly get better. Since the child is here, and your wife wants it too, then don't beat it off, after all, it is also a small life, accept it naturally, everything is the best arrangement, you will find that the child will be born and can afford to raise it, and find that life will be better.

Life is not easy, people live is rushing, but certainly can not give up, the tortuous road is very long, when you encounter something, you will despair, you can only say that your ability to resist pressure is too poor, no matter how difficult it is now, is it difficult to resist the war, is it difficult to have the early days of liberation.

Life is not easy, work hard to make money to support your family, although the temporary pressure is greater, everything will get through, with a sunny attitude every day, don't be full of negative energy, live well.

Everybody is carrying a load. Everyone actually has a lot of pressure, it's just that some people are complaining, and some people are working silently. There are many reasons why your girlfriend doesn't kill the child, and you can slowly persuade her.

Work hard, the next life will be long, not to mention that you still have a good income, as long as you persevere, after surviving the difficulties, the future may be very good.

Despair about life, but you have to cheer up, think that you are still very young, there are still many, many things to do on your own, and there are still many dreams that are not fulfilled, so cheer up and everything will be fine.

I just graduated this year, and I feel the pressure from the society, maybe I am not strong enough, encouragement, hard work, struggle!

There are two sides to everything, there is hope on the back of despair, and despair on the back of hope.

You can find a hope for yourself that you can pinn on.

There must have been times when I felt hopeless about life! I remember that at that time, I had just gotten married, and the economic conditions were not very sufficient, plus I had just bought a house, and I had to make monthly payments every month, and at that time, I had just given birth to a child, and the child was less than a year old. At that time, due to the pressure with my husband, we wanted to improve our economic conditions as soon as possible, so we both quit our jobs and started a business together.

At that time, I was doing a red wine business, and I also invested four or five hundred thousand, of course, in addition to my own savings, there was also a part of it that I borrowed from relatives and friends, but because I didn't have a comprehensive understanding of the partners, in the process of selling red wine, there were problems, and many partners took the red wine, in fact, the final payment was paid to the partners, and it didn't go to our company's account, which led to our settlement later, when we wanted financial liquidation, he said that he had no money, and the other party didn't finish. Or that the other party didn't give it at all.

Because of various problems, we finally found customers to verify, but also offended many customers, resulting in the loss of many customers. Due to the funds invested at the beginning, can not be returned in time, in the process of operation, we can not continue to carry out the work, the partners directly left us, in fact, the company is now just an empty shell, leaving us with little meaning, the point is that the external debts have not been recovered. In the end, we had no choice but to take this mess into our hands.

Only to find out that a bigger trap was waiting for us, and the customer took the company's receipt, saying that he had collected their money, but the amount of red wine shipments in the early stage was not enough. There are still a lot of customers missing, and they have not been cashed, and I really felt desperate when I heard this, that kind of despair, I really lost confidence in life, but fortunately, I worked together with my husband to face these difficulties, and now I have survived.

When it comes to life, there are actually many things that are very desperate, each of us encounters various things every day, and some of these things are easier for us to solve, but some things are also very sad, and even start to become desperate. After all, life has all kinds of flavors, sweet and sour, bitter and salty, everyone will have it, so when you are desperate, you have to open some.

In my memory, there are actually a lot of things that make me desperate, so whenever I think about it later, I still feel a little sad. I'm going to tell you about each of our studies, I used to be desperate in learning, because the family is strict, you have to study every day, and your family wants your academic performance, in fact, these things will be experienced by every family, which is the most annoying thing for every child who goes to school. But I used to think that as long as I studied hard, there would be a good reward, but I was wrong, and the results hit again and again, almost made me despair of studying, I thought that I might not be a seedling of learning, or choose another place to get ahead, but then I realized that the original method is so important.

I think many people's first love comes from despair, it is true that everyone's first love is so attentive, at that time we fantasized about the future together, but there are a few who did not climb out of despair. After all, we were too young at that time to withstand a loss, a betrayal. This is our first love.

Losing our first girlfriend, we were once depraved and hopeless, but as soon as you come out, you will find that there is a girl or boy who truly belongs to you waiting for you. So most of the time, please think about it, despair is only temporary.

There is a saying called desperate life, indeed when we are desperate to the extreme, it does not mean death, it means a better beginning, if you feel desperate for a while, please do not give up, the road ahead is still very long, many good things are waiting for you, come on will definitely come out of despair.

Another time I had a quarrel with my parents, and I ran out alone, so I walked aimlessly on the street, and then I found that the surrounding environment was very unfamiliar, I didn't know it at all, it was very small at that time, it was almost dark, and the surroundings were very desolate. There was nothing, I was scared, I wanted to go home, but I didn't know the way, it was getting darker, I squatted on the ground and cried, at that time I felt that I would be abducted by human traffickers, and I would never see my parents again, at that time I was desperate, so I kept crying and crying, and then a kind old man sent me home, and my parents hugged me and cried, at that time I felt that it was good to have a home.

And the moment when the good college entrance examination results came out last summer, I told my mother with a smile, and after saying that, I hid in the bedroom and cried, very uncomfortable, very uncomfortable, very desperate, that feeling lasted for a long time, even if I am now hearing things related to the college entrance examination, I don't want to touch, I don't want to recall, every time I think about it, my heart is blocked, and I can't tell the feeling.

There are many kinds of despair in life, and there are many kinds of despair that we have to experience, both in life and emotionally, and I think the despair in life is really on the verge of collapse.

In life, I feel like the time when I despair the most is because of money. Money is sometimes really a good thing, but sometimes it makes me extremely hateful, money is really good, money can make the devil grind, when you are in trouble, it can really help you, but the reason for the incomparably hateful is because there is no money but you need money urgently, it is really difficult to sometimes because it feels like it is about to die.

Because there are too many such examples around us, many people are seriously ill, they could have **, but because they have no money, they can only be tortured by illness until they die, this kind of mental torture that is obviously hopeful, but because they know that they have no ability and cannot solve it, it is really desperate.

I recently saw a piece of news like this, there is a newlywed couple, shortly after the marriage, the wife was diagnosed with cancer, there are three months left, the doctor announced that the wife has little time left, but also announced that she is pregnant, this wife, can only endure the sadness, in the last time, feel the feeling of being a mother, and at the same time cruelly take away their children, even if you are rich, some things are powerless for you, this kind of despair, is the most painful.

There is also a kind of despair, when you are particularly in need of help from others, you meet some people who choose to be silent, they will pretend not to see, will not pay attention to your situation, afraid that they themselves will be involved, just imagine, if we have this situation, in the most helpless time, what kind of despair will we have?

Even if life doesn't treat you fairly, don't despair to the point of losing yourself. No one's life is smooth sailing, the important thing is that we learn to adjust our mentality, not easily defeated by life, perhaps after experiencing despair, life will open a new door.

On the road of growth, there will always be setbacks and ups and downs of one kind or another, sometimes, we even feel pressure from all directions, a slight feeling may be sad and sad, but sometimes, to you, is a deep despair.

I vaguely remember that when I first started my freshman year, when I first arrived at the school, my mind was full of freshness, the first time I went out, the first time I lived, the first time I could spend a lot of money on my own, and I was full of longing and hope for the university, as if it was going to take root here.

However, there are unforeseen circumstances, when I went out to school to apply for a bank card on the first weekend, I squeezed the bus, my schoolbag was carried in the back, because there were too many people, so I put my wallet and mobile phone in the schoolbag behind my shoulder, but I ignored that the big city is no better than the small county town at home, and the pickpockets on the bus looted my book bar, and all the things were gone before getting off the bus.

At that time, I just felt that without a mobile phone, I couldn't even go back to school, I just met my roommates, I can't remember their mobile phone numbers at all, I only remember my family, but it's so far away, I don't want them to worry, penniless, I don't know what to do for a moment, at that moment, my heart was suddenly hit by this dark world, crying and walking, walking and asking for directions, just like that, I walked from dawn to dark, and cried until I walked to school. More than eighteen years of despair.

In the days that followed, there will be more or less unpleasant things, but I understand that when you feel hopeless, you must not give up, because there is no endless road, and you will always find a solution, and you must not give up halfway, because good luck will come soon, and we will only enjoy the beauty of the future if we have experienced a lot.