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Well, I didn't get used to it. It's just that I can't get used to seeing others jumping too much all day long.
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There are no people who are not used to it, and they are most afraid of climbing high and engaging you, which is terrible. . .
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Wrong, the person I fancy will climb higher and higher. I can't get used to it, I'm going to go to jail one day because I'm not a good person.
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Have it? I can't control other people, I love to climb as high as I like, I only do my best, I don't get in the way of other people's business, and others don't get in my way.
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Anger at your own incompetence ...
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Climb high because you can't get used to him.
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Because of your food, you are still stupid and stubborn.
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Looking at how he got it, I believe in the causal cycle, what kind of person you want to be, what kind of person you want to be, is up to you.
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There should be no one in this world who can't get used to themselves! The person you don't like should be different from your personality, maybe the ability is stronger than you, and he is better than you in all aspects, so you can't get used to him.
The person you like must be the same as you, either you like to be careful, or you like to speak ill of others behind your back and be lazy at work. Two people smell the same thing, so you are used to seeing such a person, who is always walking in place like you.
You can't get used to it, but she climbs higher and higher, because he and you are not in the same world at all, and if he makes you get used to it, then he won't be so good. So he should thank you for not being able to get used to her. and didn't join your ranks.
It's like in our unit, there are always some people who say that they hate so-and-so the most, and they really can't get used to him always slapping the leader's ass. I can't get used to seeing him rush to do everything. The boss is so useful, he values him so much, and he is the one who finally gets a salary increase.
In fact, there are some things that you want to do too, but because you can't get used to it. You're afraid, and others can't get used to you, so you don't dare to do it.
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Why do we often climb higher and higher people who are not used to seeing in our lives, probably because. They don't have the time to see how high others climb and how miserable they are.
In life, if we compare ourselves with others, we will always find that there are people who are much better than ourselves, and there are also people who are worse than ourselves. What can we choose to do for ourselves?
If we learn from people who are better than us, then we can also reflect on our own shortcomings, and don't always think that we are not used to seeing others and feel that they are worthless.
Everyone has something good about everyone. If we are not good personally, we can see more of the shining points of others, although this kind of words can be put on people you hate, maybe. Not so happy, but if we can see the sparkle in him.
We may not be so disliked by him.
Enemies are sometimes mirrors of yourself, and the two of you may have direct friction, but if you can turn enemies into ordinary friends. You can also grow yourself.
Of course, let's not talk about this topic for now. Why do people who are not used to it climb higher and higher? Probably, because what you don't like about him may be the other side of his personality. But to believe that he can rank higher and higher, he must have his own excellence.
We can try not to compare, live our own lives, and then we can be happy. Whether others are doing well or not is actually not so important.
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First of all, you have to realize that no matter who you are, there are disadvantages as well as advantages.
The disadvantages and advantages are objective and do not change depending on your own perspective.
You can't get used to a person, it must be that person's shortcomings that make you disgusted, and when the person you don't like to climb higher and higher, you will feel very strange.
How can this kind of person climb higher and higher, obviously with so many shortcomings.
However, don't forget, you only see the flaws of that person, and there are thousands of people, and it is impossible for them all to have the same perspective as you.
Even, if you think that person is rude, maybe others will think it is straightforward. From different angles, you have different feelings about people.
And when you are not used to seeing a person, it will infinitely magnify that person's shortcomings, and will make you unable to see other aspects of this person, and even turn a blind eye to some of the person's advantages.
So, when you don't like people climb higher and higher, you will wonder, how can such people climb higher and higher?
Secondly, there must be more than one person you are not used to.
It is not surprising that among some people who are not used to it, a few are climbing higher and higher, after all, we also have to respect probability.
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There is a comic called "I like the way you can't get used to me and can't kill me", maybe the people we can't get used to are the people we can't kill, this is because of our jealousy. Everyone will be jealous that others are more successful than themselves, more beautiful than themselves, and even more love than themselves, so we can't kill them, on the one hand, because of ourselves.
On the other hand, it's the other party's reason. Maybe the other side is really stronger than us. They are more talented than us.
So they climb higher and higher. A person's talent is an important factor in their promotion, and the others are secondary, all say that this society recruits people to see morality, but just talk, it is the main thing that can create more value for the enterprise.
They are also people who tend to be inflammatory, such people are even more likely to pat on the back, and the boss likes to listen to nice words, who doesn't like it. So these people know how to grasp the hearts of the old class, and they are naturally promoted.
This world sometimes forces us to do things we don't like, and only when we are strong can we control our own destiny, so let's come on, for ourselves, for our families, and work hard.
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There are always some people in the workplace that you can't get used to, but he is promoted quickly, in fact, it has something to do with your heart, seeing others making progress, jealousy and even panic. People who appreciate quickly must have his abilities, such as outstanding achievements in work, know how to cater to the preferences of leaders in interpersonal communication, and can be appreciated by leaders, but these performances are so unaccustomed to the eyes of ordinary people, and they feel that they are settling with leaders.
But the more such people can be promoted. Leadership is not only based on a person's ability to work, but also on a person's ability to adapt to the environment and observe words and feelings. Therefore, we are looking at these people who climb high, and we should not have a colored eye, everyone pursues differently.
Some people's performance will always make people feel disgusting, but he also fights hard for promotion, and it is also a manifestation of his ability. So, our mentality is actually to be a little more correct, as long as his performance does not touch your interests, what is wrong with him trying to improve? If you want to improve, you can do it through your own efforts.
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This is because people themselves are very good, and the reason why they are not used to it is that they feel jealous, but they are still relatively strong in their attitude towards the scattered ants, and in the end, they can master more opportunities and be able to get promoted and raised.
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Because these people's emotional intelligence is very high, and they are also very sleek, they know what the leader likes to say, and their professional ability may not be particularly strong.
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This is because they are very capable, have a lot of means, and they are especially good at leading, so they can climb higher and higher.
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