Should I take the initiative to bring up the past with my boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-06
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you don't need to mention the past to your boyfriend so deliberately, if the other party doesn't take the initiative to ask, it may be because he doesn't want to be affected by your past, so he directly ignores the past and lives the present. Then you have to know each other yourself, after all, not everyone can face the past calmly, remember not to mention the past in front of your boyfriend, and you must also completely cut off contact with your ex.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This question, since the past has become a fact, there is no need to hide anything, if the other party loves you enough, they will not care too much about those past events.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's best not to mention your past, otherwise it won't bring you benefits, but let yourself suffer from falling out of love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he is willing to accept your past, it means that he loves your present and not the past!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He doesn't ask you or say, but if he asks, you will explain it to him clearly.

    If he loves you deep enough, after hearing about your past, he will only feel sorry for you, and he will only hate himself for not knowing you earlier.

    Don't be too upset if he minds you, because it proves that he's not the one to trust with for life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    See if the other party cares or not, it's best not to mention what you care, if you don't care very much, then it's up to you, whether you mention it or not will not affect your feelings.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let the past pass, cherish and grasp the current relationship between the two of you is the most important thing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's best not to mention it, he just asks, you have to cut corners, otherwise your past will be a hurdle that he can't get over, and few boyfriends can accept you and your ex, don't be stupid

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