Is there anything wrong with sticking to something that doesn t pay off?

Updated on society 2024-06-13
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you don't think it's wrong, then there's nothing wrong, so why care about anything else! If you want to stick to it, no one can say you're doing it wrong.

    Sometimes I also want to insist on one thing for some reason, maybe for me it is a regret that I haven't done it, and I want to use my own time to finish it in the future, but some people feel that there is no need to do a meaningless thing, and there is no need to waste their time on these things. I feel like I'm doing what I want to do, even if the end result is something I don't want to see, but I do it, and I have no regrets.

    As you said, you know that there is no return, but you ask, because you want to persevere, but you have some concerns, and you think that it may not be useful to do this thing after it is done. But in my heart I just want to do it. I think that's enough, because I want to do it, so I stick to it, no problem!

    For example, those police uncles, they only pay a little bit every month, but they serve us in the wind and sun, do you say that their original intention at the beginning was just for our return? They insist on working for the sake of our lives. If everyone thinks so, then is there still a police uncle for us?

    These police uncles stick to their posts every day not for reward, but for their own peace of mind.

    A responsibility, a persistence. I don't feel like everything I do is in return. For example, I often pick things up in some places myself.

    Last time, I picked up a meal card in the dormitory. Although I knew there were hundreds of them in there, I still put the meal card on the Internet, and I was looking for the owner. When the elementary school girl came to get the meal card, she just said thank you.

    I felt very embarrassed about that. If I had taken the meal card to eat myself, I don't think she would have said anything, but I didn't, I feel like it's a responsibility, and I hope you can do the same.

    This society can only be so good, and we are inseparable from the working people who pay silently behind the scenes, they have never asked for a return for such a dedication, such actions are obscure, so what are my small favors. I don't know what kind of person I am, maybe I will really want to repay when I really have benefits. After all, people are selfish.

    But I hope you don't learn from me, maybe it's okay for people to be selfish once in a while, but if you keep doing this, then there is no need to give, and others will have no value because of your request. Your work can be rewarded in real terms, because you work hard for yourself, but when you do for others, I want to be selfless.

    We are teenagers, we have the responsibility and obligation to make this society better and better, I can use my own actions to insist that the people around me can change this greedy character, and I can also let everyone pay more attention to those working people who have been silently paying for our lives.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It can't be said that it is wrong to insist on doing this kind of thing that has no return, but it depends on what you do, and if you do that kind of charitable cause, it is worth it without reward.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you like it and want to do it, then do it, there is no right or wrong way to do it. Regardless of whether he returns or not, there may be unexpected surprises. There are many things that we ourselves don't know, but time will tell.

    And being able to persist in doing one thing, this kind of perseverance is also a kind of gain, isn't it?

    Sometimes if you insist on doing something rewarding, you may not be able to stick to it. It's like memorizing words, when I want to set a goal for myself, how much to memorize a day, how many days to memorize, when I start a few days I give up. If you can persist in doing this seemingly unrewarding thing, in a sense, you are also exercising yourself.

    Let's take star chasing as an example, why some fans can spend a lot of time, energy and even money for their idols. Actually chasing stars is not a rewarding thing for them. But they are willing to persevere, and there's nothing wrong with that.

    But really for fans, a positive idol can bring them a lot, some people will want to become an excellent person like them, and they will also be infected and driven by some good behaviors of idols.

    Previously, IU released a cover of ** "Flower Bookmark", because it involved the original singer, IU also personally asked the original author to ask for his consent. The original author also said that there have been many singers who have covered his songs, but none of them have been asked for permission by the singer himself, which is the first time. And IU also said that he would cover it without destroying the scope of the original song.

    I'm also very proud of a positive idol after dinner. With the greatest respect and sincerity for the predecessors and because they are all about, we will do our best to create ** for everyone to hear.

    In the matter of fan idols, maybe I don't have any substantial returns, but I meet an idol full of positive energy, who is good to fans and serious and responsible for her own career. Even if it doesn't reciprocate, I'll still persevere. Because I believe that she can lead me, and when I feel lost myself, she will set a good example for me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't think there's anything wrong with it!

    Depending on your problem, you may have done something that you feel is meaningful, but others may call you stupid and think that you have no value at all.

    There are many people in this world who like to judge others with their own values. And when we were young, because we were used to being judged by our parents, we were open in our hearts and often let others judge us. <>

    In the psychology community, it will be thought that you don't love yourself enough and don't treat yourself well enough.

    It's one thing how others evaluate it, it's one thing how you perceive what others say. It's entirely up to you whether his comments affect your mood.

    I once read such a story, a little girl, when she was in elementary school, the teacher taught them a lesson. The teacher asked the children to imagine themselves as a big frog lying on a lotus leaf. At this time, there is a transparent glass cover on the outside of your body, and you can see everything on the outside.

    However, you have a choice, which is to keep this glass cover and let it protect yourself; Or remove it and let the outside world influence you. <>

    Many of us do not set up a glass cover on the outside of our bodies, allowing external evaluations, accusations, and criticisms to invade our hearts. As soon as there is wind blowing on the grass outside, we don't know why, and even our hearts are magnificent.

    Someone else said something casually, he didn't take it to heart, we pondered it for a long time by ourselves, and our hearts were deeply broken.

    I feel sorry for you because I'm just like you.

    However, we need to learn to protect ourselves and use our own standards to judge whether the thing is worth doing.

    It's a bit hard, but trust us to do it. <>

    Also, there is nothing that has been done without a complete return. It may not have tangible rewards, such as money, but I believe that there will be rewards for giving, such as the growth of wisdom and inner happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I probably can't do it, but I respect such people, and we often hear that many people will say something like this: worrying about good things, Mo Punji asks about the future. The general meaning of this sentence is that we should try to do our things as well as possible.

    But I was able to do things better. We shouldn't go for it, to force it too much, even if we can't get what we want, as long as we can do things better, it will definitely make us better.

    We hear this all the time, but can we actually do it? I believe that different people will have different opinions.

    There may be some people who have heard such things though. But it's hard for them to do it themselves. Because even if they can do as good as they can, they have to do good deeds.

    Not getting a little bit in return, or not wanting anything in return, is obviously something that most people can't do. Because many people do good deeds, in fact, they also have their own purpose, that is, they hope that they can get more or get better.

    So we see that most people are able to do good deeds, but after they have done good deeds. It's very difficult not to care about gains and losses.

    Of course, we have also seen that there are a small number of people who are really worried about the future. I believe that such people can not only do things better. More importantly, they can also do things well, and Tongzhong can not care about personal gains and losses at this time, although on the surface.

    They don't get anything in return for a short time, but we know it.

    In fact, for these people who are constantly paying, I believe that many people are also looking at their contributions, and I believe that many people will also give them care and care in the near future. In the end, they will be rewarded by more people in the process of continuous giving.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whether it is kindness or giving, many times, it is the choice of my heart, because I am such a person, so I choose to help others. The moment I make my choice comes from my heart, and this kindness is the most enjoyable for me. As for the future development, whether it is worth it or not is not in my consideration, nor does it affect my kind heart.

    Good people have good rewards, this is in the drama and books, it is a kind of simplicity that teaches people to be kind and dismantle quarrels and good wishes. But a lot of times to know"Heaven and earth are unkind, and all things are used as dogs""Heaven and earth are big, and man is small"In the universe, human beings are a very small race. If there is a heavenly way, he may look at humans like we look at ants, and we know that we can see ants, but you will notice which ant is particularly kind, because this ant helps other ants, and gives extra preferential treatment and takes the initiative to help ants?

    Therefore, when you do good deeds, or when you are kind, you must be within the scope of your ability. Because your kindness comes from your heart, you know that there will be no return, and you do all this because you have a kind, shining heart. You insist on your kindness, and it has nothing to do with responding.

    Kindness within your own power is the beauty of your own humanity. But kindness beyond the scope of ability may affect one's own life, so that there is resentment, and there is no response when this type is encountered, or when it comes to repaying virtue with resentment, it will inevitably be more calculating, sad, and uncomfortable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    We should still insist on "but don't ask about the future when you do good things", and I think I can do it too.

    First of all, the reason why we do these good deeds is completely out of our own hearts, and we do not expect so-called returns. Although he said that he had done such a good deed, he suddenly realized that the person he was helping was not the person who needed the help as he thought. But no matter what, if you have already given and helped others, you should feel relieved in your heart.

    It is impossible for us to understand so much when we help others, as long as we don't have good intentions to do bad things, then we have nothing to worry about.

    On the other hand, we need to know that a person's time and energy are limited, as long as we can do our best to do some good and good deeds, then our hearts can be truly relieved, for some things we should pay more attention to the process, rather than the result. Therefore, doing good deeds without asking about the future also represents an attitude of ours, which not only reflects our freedom and generosity, but also shows that we are a truly loving and responsible person.

    Although in daily life, most of us are kind people, are eager to help others, talk about the world, especially when we meet those who encounter difficulties in life, we always want to go up to help each other, but many times after helping each other, we find that the other party is not as difficult as I imagined, and even the other party's economic conditions are much better than our own, but I personally think that for such things, we don't need to mind too much, we should still insist on doing it" But do good deeds without asking about the future."

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