Recently, I often can t control my thinking, and I m getting more and more messy with my girlfriend,

The beautiful have more self, and the ugly have more inferiority;

How arrogant are the talents, and how ignorant are the fools;

The wise man is kind, and the mediocre man is ruthless;

The rich are more thrifty, and the poor are more profligate!

People have different cultivation and cannot be generalized.

Beauty should be easy, beautiful and approachable, and it is more beautiful;

The ugly must self-cultivate, and the ugly can be broadly wise, which is not ugly;

Talented people should be humble, only but not sharp, can become a great tool;

The foolish will be diligent in learning, foolish and inquisitive, and not foolish;

The wise man is kind, always kind to others, and happy to help others;

The mediocre is ruthless, often angry with others, and undisciplined;

The rich are more frugal, choose what they need, and use it in a proper way; The poor squander, choose love and buy it, and use it excessively!

Lang Lang Qiankun, there are very few perfect people.

Because of this, we must be more diligent: carry forward the advantages, and make up for the shortcomings!

Take out these things you quarreled about, and the two of you talk about it calmly, and pay attention to communication. In fact, two people quarrel about trivial things, so it's better to communicate more.

You all know that you can't control your thinking, and since the problem is here, how can it be improved if you don't seek change but only seek answers!

Bow your head and tell her you've been in a bad mood lately and can't control yourself. She should understand.

You can't control your thinking, you can't get more and more chaotic, you can't be noisy often, or you will be divided sooner or later.

Usually communicate more, communicate more, two people together is to be humble to each other and tolerate each other.

Calm down for a few days apart, calm your mind, and take a look after a while.

Calm your mind, think about how you got this way, and cherish it

Then you and your girlfriend will be separated for a while.

Cool down for a few days apart and find out the cause of the problem.

It's time to restrain yourself.

Why don't you look for the reason?

If your girlfriend is always cranky, it may be because she is thinking about various things, including her role in life and party relationships, past experiences, future plans and possibilities, and the environment and other people's opinions. This behavioural regression may indicate that she is a sharp-minded, sensitive, and thoughtful person, who tends to have thoughts and feelings of her own, and may also have an impact and emotional response to people and things around her.

To solve this problem, you can consider the following:

1.Listen to her feelings and thoughts. When your girlfriend expresses her concerns or worries, be patient to listen and be aware of her feelings, understand her position and role, and show your support and understanding through positive words and body language.

2.Help her find a solution to her problem. If she is bothered by some problem or concern, work with her to find a solution to the problem. For those problems that she can't solve, you can give her advice or help her open up the limitations of her mind.

3.Provide emotional security. When it comes to building emotional security, you can show your care and love for her through positive emotional expressions, physical contact and attention, and intermittent affirmations and praises.

4.Gently remind her. When she is stuck in an unhealthy cycle of thoughts or worries, you can gently prompt her to focus on the situation, take positive action, or help her distract. <>