Did you think about it in return when you gave it?

I have thought about it, I give to my friends in the hope that we can care for each other, support each other, and encourage each other to move forward together.

I give to my family in the hope that they can be happy, happy, and carefree.

I pay for my studies in the hope that my grades can be improved and my parents' faces will bloom beautifully.

I pay for life in the hope that life also smiles at me and gives me a sunny sky.

I give everything in the hope that I can live proudly, confidently, happily and freely.

I give in the hope of being rewarded, because I am full of hope for everything, because I have love, and I know how to be grateful. Who said that parents don't think about reciprocating their efforts, their children's happiness is their return, their children's love for them is reward, and their children's achievements are rewards. Parents may say that they don't want anything in return, but can we not reciprocate, no, we have to reciprocate, because this is the most basic principle of being a child.

Therefore, when I give, I always think of the return, just like I am now, your problem is also a kind of giving, and the return I hope for, one is that you are satisfied, and the other is that you are happy.

Okay, done.

It depends on why. At least parents should give their children nothing in return – that's what my parents taught me.

To be honest, I don't give in return, but if I always give blindly and the other party doesn't give anything in return, I won't pay for him or her anymore.

Yes, of course!

For example: My mom was always overly partial to my cousin! Always made me give a lot for nothing.

Woooooooo

Some friends have asked me the same question as you, but I haven't thought about it, I think that no matter what people do, as long as they have a clear conscience, it's okay.

If you don't get a return for your efforts, do you continue to do it? Always believe that you will be rewarded for your efforts, always feel that God is fair, and pay and return are always equal. But I don't approve of blindly giving in love, the kind of unrewarded giving is not worth it at all, rather than constantly giving to a person who doesn't love themselves, it is better to give all your efforts to a person who loves yourself.

Sometimes it's not just that you get paid off. If you like someone, you will try your best to get her, keep giving, give her everything she likes, as long as she asks for you, you will respond, even the number of confessions is uncountable, every time you say "I like" with hope, but every time you get "I'm sorry".

If you don't get anything in return, don't keep giving, a person who doesn't love you is like a bottomless pit, you will never be satisfied, you will never know how to reciprocate. Instead of looking like this, you might as well go back and look behind you, those who care about you and care about you are no worse than the person you like, instead of guarding a person who doesn't like you like this, it is better to go back and hug the person who has always liked you.

You don't blindly pay with the hope that there will always be a return for paying, in front of feelings, it is not like buying something, you will definitely have equivalent goods when you take money, and no matter how much you pay, you may not have the same emotional return. Feelings are really something that is not clear and incomprehensible.

If you don't get a little bit in return for all your previous efforts, don't continue, even if you give your whole life, there is no way to touch someone who doesn't like you at all. Life is not an idol drama, the person you like can be chased without stopping, your Wumao script can only be written by yourself, don't wronged yourself, let alone the person who has always loved you, if you can't get a return, look back.

It's a matter of dividing things.

Some things don't pay off for a while, but if you hold on a little longer, it may soon pay off.

For example, if you can't exercise for a few days, you can get a healthy body and mind if you stick to it for a long time.

Some things are different, treat love, you don't get a return for long-term efforts, maybe others are not interested in you, don't insist, no matter how insistent there will be no results.

This situation depends on the circumstances.

Giving is proportional to the return, sometimes you are willing to pay, but do not expect return.

Therefore, whether to continue without a return depends on the situation.

It also depends on what kind of pay, what kind of person to pay, some people who are too persistent in their feelings, even if they can't get a response from the other party, they are still obsessed with the obsession in their hearts. And for the dedication of friendship, it can only be said that cherish the people who should be cherished.

If there is no return for what you pay, of course you won't pay, because it's all useless.

Then I have to re-evaluate whether there is hope for this "pay" and whether I have the ability to continue to give.

It depends on what happens, some people are very persistent, and they will not give up until they reach their goal, and they must get what they want.

But if you do good deeds, don't ask about the future, if it's feelings, it's another matter.

A wise man once said to me, "If you can let go of yourself and think about others from their point of view, this is compassion." However, in modern society, due to the decline of morality and the declining world, everyone attaches great importance to self-protection, and there seem to be fewer and fewer people who can really stand in the perspective of others and think about others.

When a person fights for personal gain or selfish desires, it causes infinite strife. In fact, the life wisdom of the ancients, such as harmony and blessing, harmony and wealth, is very reasonable. Only when a person lets go of himself can he truly feel the spiritual realm of "the mountains and rivers are exhausted and there is no way out, and the willows and flowers are bright and springy."

Legend has it that once upon a time there was a man who lost his way in the desert, and he was so hungry and thirsty that he was on the verge of death. He still dragged his heavy steps, insisting on walking forward step by step, and finally found a long-abandoned hut in the desert. He found a water suction device at the front of the house, but there was no water.

Just when Lu Sui was helpless to sell him, he suddenly found a kettle next to him, the spout of the kettle was plugged with a wooden stopper, and there was a note on the kettle, which read: You have to pour this pot of water into the water absorber before you can draw water. But please make sure to fill the kettle before you leave.

After he finished reading, the little companion opened the kettle stopper, and sure enough, there was a pot of water in it.

This man was faced with a difficult choice at this time: if the pot of water was poured into the water absorber as stated in the note of the clan, the water absorber still could not absorb the water, and he might be dying of thirst in the desert; If you drink this pot of water immediately, you can save your life, but if you do that, there is no hope for later people to get here. After hesitating for a moment, a wonderful inspiration gave him strength, and he resolved to do what the note said, and sure enough, he sucked out the pure spring water from the water absorber.

So he drank it all his heart! After resting for a while, he filled the kettle with water, plugged it on, and added a few more words to the note: Believe me, the words on the note are true, and you can only taste the sweet spring water if you put life and death aside.

Letting go of oneself and giving to others is a virtue and a noble state of thought. When a person truly lets go of himself, the wisdom of distinguishing between truth and falsehood will come naturally, and he will definitely get unexpected surprises and gains. In the world, although not every effort will be rewarded immediately, only after the payment can there be a return, and you can taste the sweet spring water.