Do all your efforts pay off, and what are the ones that make you chill?

Not all effort pays offBecause you are good to her, she may not be able to see your efforts, and I have experienced it once.

At that time, I was a freshman in high school, I often ate with a girl in and out of class, I have always regarded her as my good friend, my personality is more optimistic, with friends is a lot of talk, she is less talkative, more introverted, I tell her everything, and then I found that she will often be unhappy, and I don't know the reason, I will also wonder if I have done something wrong, let's say a little thing, there is a girl who wants to ask for leave to go out, and then ask me if I want to eat anything, I said I want to eat powder, She said to pack it for me, I asked my good friend if she wanted it, she said no, and then I asked her what she was eating, she said to eat instant noodles, I said to accompany her to eat and she said no, and then when my classmate brought me food, I said to eat with herShe didn't eat, she didn't eat at noon, so I took my snacks and didn't eat them, I was afraid that she would be hungry, and I could detect that her mood was not very good, and I was quite embarrassed.

After that, because I was with her for a long time, my personality began to be affected a little, it seems that I am not so optimistic, and sometimes she will drop things when she is not satisfied, I am very helpless, I don't know what I should do as her friend,Later, when I chatted with her, she said that her personality was very strange, and she was very envious that I could play well with so many people and so on, so sometimes she didn't like me to play too well with many people, and was afraid of ignoring her, but in fact, I didn't blame her, I can understand her.

Although we were so good at the beginning, I feel a little regretful because she is actually a very good personIf we get along all the time, we must still be very good friends.

Not every effort is rewarded, first of all, you should correct your mentality, the so-called pay is willing to have no regrets, don't pay for unworthy people, in the last relationship I paid sincerely and finally was bruised.

For the sake of his boyfriend, he is especially humble to do all the things he likes. Every time he got angry, he took the initiative to find him to reconcile, but not only did he not cherish it, but he also took it for granted.

In the face of the epidemic, the most chilling thing for me was reported in the news that some doctors did not let them go home at night after treating patients.

It's that there may be times when you're really thinking about your good friends, but people may not care so much, so you will feel chilling at this time.

There must be, not everything you pay will be rewarded, if there is no return, this person will definitely be chilled!

As the saying goes, there is always a reward for your efforts.

I was convinced of this until I was 30 years old. As long as you give, there will always be a reward, which is a matter of course. But as I grew older, I began to wonder if there was a reward for the effort.

The Farmer and the Snake is a prime example. The farmer kindly saved a frozen snake, but when the snake woke up, he repaid the favor with a grudge and bit the farmer back.

It can be seen that there is not always a return on the effort.

Do we still have to pay?

In fact, everyone's standard for treating things is different, and not everyone in this world has the realm of reciprocating the grace of a drop of water. What's more, what you think is paid is nothing in the eyes of others, or even worth mentioning.

The key to whether you will be rewarded or not is how you look at the so-called giving. You just do what you think you need to do, and you can't control what others do. As long as you can have such a mentality, you will not expect anything in return from others, and it will become less important whether there is a return for your efforts.

My point of view is that you can't stop doing it because it may not be rewarded, do what you think you should do, do what you can do well, and have a peaceful mind, that's enough.