My boyfriend and I are ready to talk about getting married

It should be that there is pressure to get married, I don't want to get married now, and it's hard to say, even if I say that I still want to get married, since I always have to go that far, but I don't want to get married, then just break up Luo. Let him confess as much as possible with a tolerant heart, there is no way to break up, let it be.

No matter what happened to him, you have to be clear that a woman has to find someone who truly loves her, even if it is enough to love you very much now.

Now that he doesn't want to marry you, what's the point of you still insisting on it, I hope you can be chic, don't ask others to lead you, and you have to face it bravely.

You have to believe that your next one will be better.

I think he must have a reason, and you can ask him about the specific reason.

If only it were really just to be friends.

That must not be a friend.

After all, it can be very unnatural when you're together.

And when you see him, you will think about you.

It's going to be unhappy.

I'll introduce you to a love forum, There are a lot of posts about love, don't worry, I'm not going viral, and I don't have time to play with viruses.

Hehe, don't worry, men have a certain fear of marriage, maybe let him think about it for himself, settle down, and everything will be fine.

It's probably premarital fear, a little patience, and ask him to have a friend comfort him. It's so serious that it's best to get psychological information.

He may have found that you are not suitable to be his wife, you have to be cautious.

People always have their own choices, don't force them.

In fact, he didn't love you at all!!

It seems that this is all said by men.

Ask the reason for the decisive battle with him.

1. Under normal circumstances, you should get along with your boyfriend for at least a year before deciding to talk about marriage, because at this time it is also more rational for two people, but there will be an appropriate amount of impulse to get married.

A year is almost a period of investigation, from the initial love to the passionate love period.

and then to the time period when the relationship is slowly declining, you can get a very comprehensive understanding of a person, and you can also check your own state in this relationship. If you haven't fully recognized this person in the first year, then don't be impulsive and choose to investigate for another year, after all, marriage is a big thing, and you can't be impulsive and reckless. If you feel that the other party is more suitable to enter the marriage in all aspects, and you have thought it through yourself, then you can get married.

Second, I spent half a year with my boyfriend at the time, and I decided to talk about marriage, but now I think about it in a hurry, and even some regrets, which made the whole wedding scene more chaotic.

We had been together for a short time, almost just over three months, but with the time we were engaged, it was almost a year. Before deciding to get married, in fact, I haven't thought it through myself, but because I am older, and I have also reached the age of marriage, the family is also relatively tight, so after thinking about it, I decided that this is it, the other party is not financially rich, but you should be able to become a more responsible person. So I got married under such an unclear situation.

3. In fact, sometimes meeting a person is not a matter of time, but a question of whether the person is suitable or not, if the person you meet is suitable, then you can choose to get married after three months.

In fact, we always meet the right person at the wrong time in our lives, for example, the first love you meet is actually the best choice in your life, but because you were young and arrogant at that time, you decisively gave up love. But after the next few love experiences, you will find that the first love is the person you are looking for in the end, but when you look back and find that the first person in love is already married, you will find that if you meet at different times, then the chances of marriage are almost always in an instant.

I think that there is no clear time requirement and limit between falling in love and getting married, and if I have already thought about NIO, I will start talking about marriage, and I will not hesitate to get married because of the length of time.

After a year of getting along, we would start talking about marriage, because I didn't think a year was too long, it wasn't too short, and I just happened to be able to get to know him.

My boyfriend and I will start talking about marriage after three years because we know each other well enough.

If you want to get married, then congratulations, your love should be ripe. I think the person you like must be very good, must be the same as your three views, and your parents must be very satisfied. You can entrust him with your life and prove that you have trust in him.

Well, the best thing to do: make it clear – get married. If he loves you too, if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, then he will gladly agree.

If he shirks, then there must be a problem. Or not enough, or pedaling in two boats, or having other plans, or having new ideas. Or, he just wants to play with you.

Maybe he'll find a lot of excuses! However, a future without a plan is impossible. But a future without a plan, without a plan for each other's future lives, do you dare to marry him?

Is this a responsible man? It's a bit far! In my opinion, you should make a big proposal and not unnecessarily increase the cost of communication.

So be it! Wishing you happiness!

<> have been in love for more than a year and want to marry her boyfriend, but her boyfriend is not very anxious, not not loving enough, and it is likely that some conditions are not up to standard. Now when it comes to getting married and starting a family, the pressure on her boyfriend comes. Marriage house and bride price this is the most basic, for the ordinary house minimum requirements to prepare a down payment, most families in the first-tier cities dare not think, can only look at the building and sigh, the pressure in the third and fourth tier cities has been not small, the down payment of about 100,000 has also stumped many families.

The bride price is even more unreliable, and the bride price is not strange, there is no national standard, only local customs, and what are the rumors: a lifetime, 131400, and what is a slip of smoke or a degree of green. The most important thing in marriage is love, material is already a part of married life that cannot be ignored, pomp, arrogance, comparison with each other, it is inevitable that many people who should marry have fear of marriage, aversion to marriage, how helpless is really helpless, dare to think and dare not do it.

It's not that your boyfriend doesn't love you, and if he doesn't, he won't have a relationship for more than a year, and there may be other unspeakable hidden. If you really want to get married, the initiative is in your hands, if you don't believe it, you can try.

Tell the other party directly, let the other party understand what you mean, and then look at the other party's attitude, and the other party will take you home to meet your parents if they want to get married.

I think you can tell each other directly, do you want to marry me, if you don't want to, we can break up.

You can tell him that your parents are urging you to get married, and if you say that, he will know what you mean.

Since you are talking about marriage, you must be rushing to get married, and marriage is the ultimate destination of your relationship.

Yes. Talking about marriage has reached the point where it means getting married. To talk about marriage is to prepare for marriage.

For example, it is necessary to take wedding photos, arrange the wedding room, and arrange the wedding car. The parents of both sides met and negotiated, and relatives and friends introduced each other. Everything is ready, only the east wind is owed.

I have been dating my boyfriend for half a year, talking about marriage, but because of the 100,000 bride price, I think you may be because the bride price is too much, and your boyfriend can't take out so much money, so your wedding will be deadlocked. When you get along, do you know his family situation, whether his family is rich or poor, if his family is very rich, then this matter is his fault, maybe for some reason he doesn't want to take out the money, or maybe when you first talked, the man didn't agree.

If his family is very poor, then 100,000 bride price is a lot of money for him, if you really want to come up with 100,000 bride price, it is equivalent to letting their family smash the pot and sell iron to marry you, if it is for this reason, you can discuss with your boyfriend, you can also appropriately reduce the bride price a little, at least so that the man can accept it, if it has been so deadlocked, it is also a blow to your relationship.

In fact, in today's society, how many couples have parted ways in the end because of the bride price, some people don't want to take it, but they really can't take it, you can't ask a man to borrow money to marry you, then this foreign debt still needs you to repay. There are also some people who don't want to take this money, thinking that it is not worth it, and this is indeed the case, some people get married, the bride price is less than tens of thousands, and more than hundreds of thousands, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter, besides, maybe marrying another woman doesn't cost money at all, why does he spend hundreds of thousands to marry you? Anyway, the current marriage is also unstable, and maybe they will part ways at some point.

So, in my opinion, if you really love your boyfriend, don't worry about the bride price, his money is not your money in the end, why make a fuss about the bride price? In fact, most women ask for a bride price because of their parents' opinions, they just want to leave some pension money for themselves. So, if you love him, don't force him, think more about the other person.

Maybe he has some problems, such as being married or something, or just wants to play with you, anyway, you have to observe him.

Marriage is the most important thing in life, even if you have been with a person for ten or eight years, when it comes to marriage, you still have to carefully consider the relationship status of the two, not to mention that you have only been dating for three days and said that you want to get married.

Accept the marriage.

We all know that under the current social background, many people choose flash marriage, and we don't know whether married life will bring us real happiness, but flash marriage is indeed a common phenomenon. If you accept this marriage, then you will enter the palace of marriage after three days of falling in love, but the outcome of this marriage is unknown. However, I think the premise of accepting this kind of marriage is that you know enough about this man and understand his background, otherwise you are sending yourself into an unknown space.

Although many people are bored with bad marriages, they have not been in love for a long time, but they know each other well enough, before this they may be very good friends, or colleague relationships, in short, the understanding is relatively in place, I think in this case, flash marriage is not a bad thing.

Reject the marriage.

When love comes, it can't be stopped, and the girl is likely to be blinded by love. After only three days of falling in love, he received the news that he was going to get married, maybe he hadn't discussed it with the girl yet, or that his purpose for getting married was very strong. At this time, you must ask yourself whether you are ready to get married, some girls are very afraid of marriage, lest their married life be unhappy after marriage.

Personally, I think that when you don't have a full understanding of this man, and you haven't been in love for a long time, you shouldn't give your future to such a man who does things without thinking, and says that marriage is a top priority in the face of such an unexpected situation, you should think twice. Although you are very attracted to the man in front of you at this moment, you should reject his marriage proposal and ask to spend some time with him before considering it.

No matter how long two people have been together, many people decide to enter the palace of marriage after seeing the right eye, but it is still necessary for us to make certain requirements for each other and understand each other well enough, otherwise marrying the wrong person is simply sending ourselves to the grave of love.

Congratulations on receiving your boyfriend's marriage proposal! This is an important decision that needs to be carefully considered. Before your question, I would like to share some of Qiao Xun's experiences and insights about marriage.

First, marriage is a long-term commitment that involves a combination of emotional, financial, family responsibilities, and life goals for both parties. Before responding, you need to self-reflect and have a deep conversation with your boyfriend to make sure your thoughts and values are aligned. Here are some steps and suggestions to help you decide:

Understand each other's long-term goals and values: Marriage requires both partners to have similar or compatible goals and values. You can talk to each other about your career, family, lifestyle, and future plans.

Communicate marital expectations and responsibilities: Discuss your expectations and responsibilities for your marriage, including issues such as family life, financial support, and children's education. Make sure you have a common understanding of these issues and are willing to work and contribute to them.

Know each other's families and backgrounds: Marriage is not just about two people uniting, it's about the integration of two families. Understand the other person's family background and cultural practices, as well as your expectations for the family relationship.

As much as you feel happy and excited, give yourself plenty of time to observe and think and make sure the decisions you make are well thought out.

Marriage preparation: If you decide to accept your boyfriend's marriage proposal, then you can start preparing for marriage. This includes sharing good news with your family, discussing wedding details, making plans for your marriage, and more.

Whatever you decide to respond to your boyfriend's marriage proposal, remember that this is your personal decision. Listen to your inner voice and be honest with your partner and trust you to find the right answer for you. Wishing you happiness!