Love VS Reality, Tangled Despair!

He has something unspeakable, if he really loves you, he is afraid of losing you, give him confidence, tell him that you love him, don't care about what he has, and are willing to be with him for the rest of your life, say something that touches him, and tell him what you think, and the two of them will discuss it well, and it will be done quickly. And what are you going to be prepared for, be prepared that he doesn't want to marry you, love you but just love...So you have to adjust yourself, this may not happen in the future, don't lose faith, life is not just about love. You know too little, it's only been half a year, keep your eyes open and think again, don't be buried in the dark.

Who are you living for, your boyfriend is not a man, let you bear it alone, have a showdown with him, let him watch it.

In fact, everyone will be anxious when they reach the age when they should get married, especially girls, you can ask yourself, if your family does not force you to marry him for half a year, first of all, you have to know whether you love him and marry him or want to marry him after your family persecution. Also understand if he really loves you, if love asks him why he doesn't marry you yet, if two people love each other, all questions are not a problem.

Don't commit suicide, it's rare for people to live once, cherish life, marriage is a lifelong thing, think about it yourself, don't let yourself be wronged for the sake of your parents' thoughts, and you have to understand whether you are forced by your parents or something and are in a hurry to get married, really love him, he really loves you, time can prove everything, I believe his parents will understand.

Love is sweet with a little bitterness, marriage is bumpy, and people have nowhere to hide.

Since you love, then pursue it hard, success or failure, at least you have worked hard, and you will not regret it.

Even if you fail, there will be another station, and the next station will still be yours.

Why take it so seriously.

That's life.

I hope you are happy.

There are many good men, people play psychology with you, this is still before marriage, and it is unimaginable after marriage!

Facing the reality, sometimes we feel how fragile love is, so we will be moved to tears for those steadfast loves. But the stories that move us, from another angle, seem to be poignant, and most of them don't have good endings. If we want our love to be happy and happy, we can't do without this material world.

Poverty is not terrible because we have hands, and if we work hard, we can create our own world by using our own hands. A person who truly loves you will be willing to use all his efforts to create a world for you that you want, if he is unwilling or does not do it, then this love is a little pale!

We were in the same situation, except that I didn't think that far ahead, I knew what I wanted, I told him I gave him time, and within the expected time, if he hadn't changed, we broke up... You can't blame yourself for reality, and don't be afraid to hurt him, because sometimes people have to be selfish, you don't hurt him, it's yourself who hurts, besides, you don't love him so much, do you? The world is either you hurting me or I hurting you ...

Besides, he's not too young.,The so-called self-motivation is not there.,The chance of being able to change is really.,It's not big.。。。 The so-called human reality, the world makes us have no choice not to do so, right?

Poor conditions are not a problem, if you are not motivated, what will you do in your life in the future? It's not enough to be good for you - reality still has to have a stable material base.

Society is realistic, albeit cruel!

If you still care about him in your heart, persuade him and help him, and I believe that one day, he will understand.

Human life is predestined. As long as you like it, why care what others think, live for yourself or for someone else's mouth?

It's people who live with you for a lifetime, not money. Money is not something that can be earned slowly, even if you don't earn a lot of money, it's enough to live. There are a few people in this world who can have a lot of money, and the poor do not have happiness.

No matter how material this society is, only a small part of the material has risen, and the broad masses of the people are not still living on the subsistence line. And a person worthy of love is hard to find, miss this village and don't have that store.

What about reality? Your own psychology is obviously telling us that you are the one you choose! If two people work together, there will be anything! Even if you give up him for reality, unless you are very beautiful, won't real men be picky about women?

It's not easy to meet a confidant, take advantage of the present and don't let yourself regret it.

For money, the poor have the poor man's way of living, and the rich have the rich man's way of living.

The most important thing is that two people will be happy and happy together.

It's hard to find a good man in this world, it's hard to find someone who loves you and is good to you, your character is not bad, it's good to find such a good one, but don't give up to others...

It's not easy to find someone who likes each other, the poor have a poor man's way of living, the rich have a rich man's way of living, as long as the two of them are together to be happy and happy, the most important thing is to be happy.

Eh, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people for a long time, if you really like it so much, let's talk about it first, don't worry.

Money can be made, but good guys are not so easy to come across.

Character is very important, and the rest can be cherished slowly.

If you love him, believe in him.

money, can buy a lot.

But you can't buy sincerity and happiness.

It is enough to be young and self-motivated.

I hope to be realistic, my ex-girlfriend has been found, and the poor and problematic person has abandoned me.

If you're not worried he'll change his mind.

Stay with him.

It depends on whether you choose Xiaobei or Song Siming.

It won't be a little white face who eats soft rice, right?

Friend, through the practice of n tests: I resolutely choose reality! Idealistic stuff is very unrealistic, but not realistic!

Feelings can really be cultivated, but the reality is really cruel, so we have to bow to reality! Trust me! An experience from someone who has come over!

Please give me extra points, hehe...）

Of course it's love, reality is useless, because then I will live a very empty life, life is meaningless, I have lost my value, and there is no need to live anymore.

Love is the foundation, reality is an objective factor that can be changed.

Four people encountered in a person's life.

The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love, because you understand the feeling of being loved, so you can find the person who loves you the most, when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you, who can get along for a lifetime, but very sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, the one you love the most, often does not choose you, and the one who loves you the most is often not your favorite, the longest, It's not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most, it's just the person who appeared at the most suitable time. How many people will you be in someone else's life?

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he can be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes your eternal memory of life.

The two can coexist. You are disappointed because your expectations are too high.

Why not choose love in reality! That's what we want in the end!

I appreciate a sentence, love becomes family affection after a long time, what would you choose.

Reality as well. Because, no matter how beautiful and solid love is, it can't withstand the beating and testing of reality. There is no doubt about this.

Disappointed in love because you're heterosexual! If two women are together, they will not be disappointed in love, and you will also experience true love.

Choose Reality! Today's society is very realistic, when love meets reality, everything is still subject to reality!

Everyone has disappointments, love needs you to fight for, to fight, the cruelty of reality is very lethal, we have to learn to accept reality.

I don't know what your purpose is by asking? I guess I want to ask whether pure love (love without material money) can withstand material things.

Analyzing. 1) Love is definitely material-based, and material life without love is empty. In short, material is the foundation, and love is sublimation.

2) Although it is said that money is the root of all evil, we think about it, money has an important place in love. Some economic contributions (although it is said that you can't prove your sincerity if you pay, but you don't pay at all) can indeed prove your care, and these are not money exchanges, but gifts. Think of the excitement of receiving gifts and medicines.

3) This should be your focus, is there some people who abandon love because of material needs? As the saying goes, people take food as the sky, and the answer is yes, love without material foundation does not exist, but there is more or less desire for material things. If you are a student and should earn from your parents, material is certainly not in the scope of your consideration, and if you work, material is definitely a big condition for marriage.

Therefore, the final answer is that under a certain mass of matter, love loses less than this amount, and no matter how much the material exceeds this amount, love wins. This amount varies from person to person.

Some people look at people.

That is, love.

And win souls. But it was his wallet.

It depends on whom. If one person really loves another.

It doesn't matter if he's rich or poor.

You're simply mistaken.

Materiality and love are not opposites.

But they complement each other, material is the foundation of love, and it is also the premise, love can add countless pleasures and happiness to your material life, and both are indispensable.

Don't be delusional about platonic love, if you can live on air, that's a different story.

In the contemporary era when the wallet is swollen and the personality is bankrupt, material is the foundation of love, and love is greater than material!

There is no winning side, and the two complement each other.

I'm a freshman in high school, and the reason for changing GF is that the new one is richer.

It depends on the person, does this person prefer material things, or does he need love more?

You should take your girlfriend and talk to your girlfriend's father, even though I know it's going to be hard to deal with. Your father-in-law doesn't think you don't make enough money, but he is worried that his daughter will not live well enough in the future. Even if you go to work, you have to have your own plan, in short, let your father-in-law know that you are a responsible person, and then tell him that we can only work hard to move forward now, and there is no way to decide whether we can get there.

It's not that reality is cruel, it's not that love is fragile, it's that you don't have enough courage on your own. You can't feel that love is fragile, that's your weakness, you keep saying that you have confidence and determination, what people want is action, people are not afraid to fight, etc., what are you afraid of. Reflect on yourself.

Hehe, I found that people nowadays don't care much about external things and pursue internal things.

Have you done it? You know that the road ahead is difficult, and if you don't move forward, you have retreated, this is your confession to your girlfriend.

Hehe, haven't you thought about it? If you love each other, stay together, hehe, when you reach the age of marriage, as long as the relationship is handled well, I think your girlfriend's father will be more anxious than you. Hehe, it seems that you want to see how you do it, if you retreat you will have no chance, if you slowly and hard move forward, hehe, you will go to the temple.

Otherwise, hehe,。。

If there is, there is, there is nothing, there is nothing, there is nothing.

Since you're afraid of your girlfriend and so on, you have to work harder. Although her father's words are very realistic, they are true, but I think that if you put yourself in your girlfriend's shoes, your sincerity, care, and love for her are the best explanations.

Dude, marry first. As long as you have ambition and your girlfriend supports you, what are you afraid of.

The specific development path, or think about it yourself, it's not okay to ask people, think about whether you have any favorable foundation.

Don't stress too much, just go with the flow, do your best and be ashamed, just do it.

Dude, I'm telling you, you're wrong, it's not a question of fragility or not. KNOW SO ...

Let's ask you a simple ... I can't afford to eat.,What do you say about feelings.。。