Tell me where to go My girlfriend s ex boyfriend and how I m going to deal with it

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Anyway, I care a lot, even if my girlfriend is the same as him in a certain thing, I'm very annoyed, I love her very much, in my heart, I just want her to do the same thing as me, but it's impossible, I'm also annoyed, and I don't have a good reason to be calm and tolerant, because I care about her too much, I'm so afraid of losing her, I'm very afraid, hehe, bless us both, may you be happy and happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you really love your girlfriend, then say hello to him! Because he has become your past tense! Unless your girlfriend still cares about him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't go into details... But only one word is told... Calm... Everything is cloudy ... The more nervous you are, the worse it will be ...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If he comes to seduce my girlfriend, the first warning, the second time for real. If it's nothing, I'll face it calmly, like a friend. But don't be good friends. Don't share things between you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You didn't make it clear about the situation, how is your girlfriend in a relationship with you now, and is he still in touch with his ex-boyfriend? Men have to know tolerance.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    None of this matters,,, time will dilute everything.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't take anything to heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What is it in your heart?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Nowadays, young people almost have several love experiences, and boys sometimes find it difficult to accept the existence of their girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, I think it's actually easy to be able to accept themselves, as long as their girlfriend has a good relationship with themselves, the ex-boyfriend can't affect the relationship between two people at all, and almost everyone will have some ex-boyfriend, so this is a very normal thing, everyone will almost accept it, and then I will explain it to you. <>

    1. It is normal for many young people to have multiple love experiences.

    Today's young people are very different from the young people before, and almost all of today's young people will have many love experiences, whether it is a boy or a girl, so if you talk about a girl object, this girl has an ex-boyfriend, this is a very normal phenomenon, so you should calm down, and in real life, everyone will basically accept the existence of your girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. <>

    2. As long as the ex-boyfriend does not affect the relationship between the two people, his existence is completely acceptable.

    In the process of getting along with my girlfriend, I didn't feel at all uncomfortable accepting my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, this is because what happened before has happened, we can't change it, and the relationship between myself and my girlfriend is very good, and it will not affect the relationship between the two people because of having an ex-boyfriend, and it is completely impossible for a girl to get back together with her ex-boyfriend, so I can easily accept it, the important thing is that the girl and her ex-boyfriend have long been out of contact. So as long as the girl friend can reassure herself, then she can also accept the existence of her ex-boyfriend. <>

    All in all, on the one hand, many young people will have their own ex-boyfriends, which is a very normal phenomenon, and everyone will basically accept it, so they should be calm, on the other hand, as long as the girl friend gives herself a sufficient sense of security, the ex-boyfriend will not affect the relationship between the two, and the girl will not get back together with the ex-boyfriend, so she is completely acceptable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I will tell myself that this matter has nothing to do with me, after all, it happened before I knew myself, and if I think about it, it will only cause the relationship between two people to break down and estrange, and there is really no need to do this. It will also be relieved.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't have to worry about it, because everyone has a past, and I don't usually think about the past, because what I have is her future, and I feel very content.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I usually tell myself that the past is in the past and that there is no need to dwell on it. Just treat him like a stranger.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't go with your ex The correct way to deal with it should be as follows:

    1.Be respectful of each other: We should be able to maintain our demeanor after a breakup and never slander each other.

    After all, it is your own vision, looking for the other party, and denying the other party is also denying yourself. So to continue to respect each other. 2.

    Don't be enemies: After a breakup, you still have to leave a little room for the other person. Now that the two of you have become friends.

    Then don't be an enemy, don't go-for-tat with him the next time you meet, don't deliberately target him everywhere, and try not to let others notice that you were lovers before. He also has the right to choose his own happiness. If the reason you broke up in the first place was because of his fault.

    Then I hope you can also let go, don't always worry about this matter in your heart, and let go of it is good for both of you. Now that you have become a friend, let's bless him from the perspective of a friend. 3.

    Go with the flow: For the relationship is something that is inexplicable, many couples after breaking up, they don't know how the two got to this point, and for the relationship between two people, although it is indeed not suitable in some aspects, so there are disputes and even quarrels, but for the two people to get along with each other bit by bit is still very nostalgic, and also know that the other party is very good to themselves, like each other, such a couple will develop into a natural nature.

    4.Break up with dignity and don't get entangled: Some people are destined to be passers-by in your life, only accompany you for a ride, or leave you with good memories, or leave you with grief and regret.

    This is the normal state of life, don't be paranoid, don't entangle, and don't gamble your life for humble emotions. Once there is a change in feelings, even if you once loved it, you must abandon it like a cover. If you don't look forward to it, you won't be disappointed; If you don't entangle, you won't get hurt.

    5.Don't slander each other: It is very undesirable for some couples to tell each other's friends what their shortcomings or habits are after they break up, and chew on each other's good friends.

    After breaking up with the other party, you must learn to be relieved, even if the other party has a lot of shortcomings, don't tell others, this is a kind of disrespect to the other party, and it will also reduce your own value, so don't say bad things about the other party everywhere after breaking up, so it is not good for yourself or the other party.

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