Why is forced marriage so serious in China?

Hehe, many friends around you have the same troubles, not just yourself, so don't feel lonely and helpless. On the one hand, it is because I know what I want and know the most important thing in my relationship, so although I am in the minority, it is rare. To be honest, there are fewer and fewer good men, and even if there are, most of them are already famous.

But 25 years old is not very old, my parents are the older generation, and what they think is not necessarily what we think. Sometimes the more you want to do something well in a short period of time, the more difficult it becomes, and the point is that there are too many examples of regret afterwards. Personally, I have two suggestions.

One is that you can do it for a period of time, such as two or three years, and once you decide, don't care what others say or think, because this is your own life, and even your parents have no right to decide your own life. The advantage of this is that with a good attitude, a relaxed psychological environment, in judging personality and understanding your true thoughts, are the most important, it is related to your life, don't compromise easily because of time, hehe. In addition, in fact, you can think about it from a different angle, you can optimize yourself during this time, and gradually you will know more about what you want, dare to pursue what you want, and maybe there will be more surprises Hehe.

What's the hurry, such a big person, a little assertive, looking for a husband is not picking cabbage. Take your time to be covered.

They want you to be happy ... But not necessarily what you want, forgive them.

Legal Analysis: Arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage are prohibited. Interference with the freedom of marriage is an illegal act in which a person or a third party (including parents) violates the principle of marital autonomy and interferes with the marriage of another person.

Acts of interfering with the freedom of marriage infringe upon the personal rights of the parties to the marriage and are illegal acts that seriously undermine the freedom of marriage, and should be seriously criticized and educated, and if the circumstances are heinous and the consequences are serious, they should be punished in accordance with law.

Legal basis: Article 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person. Domestic violence is prohibited.

Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.

Using the theory of negotiation deadline to explain, make full use of the relationship between the unequal value of time for both parties, divide it into strategic delay and deadline, use strategic delay if it is beneficial to oneself, and set a deadline if it is beneficial to the other party.

Men and women fall in love in their twenties and talk for more than a year, and girls will start to say tentatively many times when will we get married?

The girl's heart is full of anxiety, because she is in the best age that everyone says, the most beautiful years, and she feels that she needs to marry herself while she is in the most beautiful years. This anxiety of hers is a trace of uncertainty about the boy, and the depreciation of the future self who is now trying to become a better self. Give you an ultimatum, get married, or break up.

Even if I need to re-take the time to get to know someone, fall in love, and talk about marriage after the breakup, I just don't like this irrational feeling of uncertainty and insecurity. At this point, time is a consumable.

The psychology of the boy is also anxious, not long after graduation, he finally stopped spending the family's money, and wanted to show his ambitions, but after all, the time is short, the salary is not too high, and the ability needs to be strengthened. This period of time is the development period of the boy's character career, and the longer the time, the higher the result will be, and time is a value-added product.

In contrast, for male and female lovers of the same age, the longer the time is more disadvantageous for the girl and more beneficial for the boy, so the girl uses the deadline to stop the loss, while the boy uses the strategic delay to maximize the time value. The final outcome of both sides also varies from person to person.

This is why the age of the husband and wife, the man is older than the woman, the boy has gone through the process of capital accumulation, and the girl is also the best age of integrity. The value of time to both parties is almost the same, and everyone will not delay and force, and find a good day to get married.

Chinese-style forced marriage is inseparable from the current social background that has been influenced by China's traditional culture.

As the old saying goes, there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great.

In traditional Chinese culture, marriage and childbirth have always been a very important part, only when you get married and have children, can you show that you are truly an adult, or that you are truly mature, and the elderly will inexplicably feel at ease.

Then there is the current social environment, there are more and more older young people, and many people have begun to advocate non-marriage, which makes the old people very headache, and they are very worried that their children will not be able to find a partner in the future, delaying marriage and having children, so there is a typical "Chinese-style forced marriage".

Maybe there is still a generation gap between the two generations! We live in a highly developed modern society, and our parents came from a very backward era at that time, when they reached the legal age, they would get married, and they didn't have so much pressure to live in that era, and now young people have a lot of pressure in life and work. The era of life is different, and the ideas generated are also different.

Therefore, there will be contradictions in thinking, so there is Chinese-style forced marriage! In fact, many people in today's society want to get married, but too many young people dare not get married, because the cost of marriage is too great now, and the cost of marriage is even greater. Moreover, young people nowadays are very impulsive and want to divorce if they don't agree with each other, resulting in a high divorce rate now, and these data make young people feel afraid!

There is also the fact that the range of young men and women in their respective social circles is relatively narrow, and they can't meet each other, even if they meet each other, they have to be bound by family conditions! Because marriage must be blessed by parents after all, how can a marriage be happy without the blessing of both parents? So nowadays, many women marry with a single pursuit of materialism, no matter what the boy is, as long as he has money, and some parents too, as long as their daughter finds a rich one, no matter what the conditions are!

This is a problem of the concept of two generations, the older generation wants to marry their children as soon as possible, to complete the traditional long-cherished wish, that is, the old people often say that the task is completed, and the task is completed after the child is married, and the heart is steady. But young people don't think so, they all want to live their own free life, and they don't want to live so tired, so there is a Chinese-style forced marriage.

The reason why there is a Chinese-style forced marriage is related to the concept of marriage of Chinese parents. Uh-huh. Chinese parents like their children to marry and have children early.

They think that they can rest assured that they can marry too early, start a family, and have a life of their own. In fact, take a look at the divorce rate is so high. Early marriage is not necessarily a good thing.

Marriage is still about fate. When you have this karma, it will come naturally. So please be a little bit calmer for parents.

Enjoy your old age. Try to spend as much time as possible on your own life.

Chinese pay attention to inheritance, this is a tradition since ancient times, so Chinese also pay attention to marriage, once people reach the age, there will be all kinds of people to urge marriage. Chinese-style forced marriage is due to the fact that people's education level has risen, and according to research data, the higher the education level, the higher the average age of marriage. Because young people nowadays don't want to get married, and they can't afford to get married.

Start a family first, then start a business. Now that housing prices are so high, young people can afford to buy a house, but they don't even have a house, how can they start a family, so there are more and more "leftover men and women" now, and there are more and more forced marriages.

The Chinese emphasize the inheritance of the lineage, and the ancient motto has a cloud self-cultivation and Qi family to rule the country and the world. When I grow up, I want to. Stabilize and have a family to do great things.

So there will be Chinese-style forced marriage. Plus. When parents of retirement age have nothing to do, they will pay more attention to the marital status of their children, and modern people are busy with work and do not have time to pay attention to their marital status, so Chinese-style forced marriage is more obvious.

Why is there a Chinese-style forced marriage? That's because in addition to the environment of that period, China determined that period. People are more closed. Therefore, it is up to the parents to decide when talking about marriage.

This is also because there is a traditional concept of family marriage in our country, which believes that marriage and childbirth are also part of the responsibility of children, which also leads to the fact that the elders are often anxious about their children, and they get married and have children early, which leads to Chinese-style forced marriage.

Chinese-style forced marriage is mainly determined by people's traditional concepts and China's social environment, and there are objective and subjective reasons.

The traditional concept is that there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great. It is also the responsibility and obligation of parents to hope that their children will have a family. If your children are not married, you always feel that you can't hold your head up and are discriminated against, and your life is imperfect.

The objective reason is mainly that China's social security system is not very sound, and if you are not married and have no children, you may have problems with your own pension. Especially when you are lonely when you are old, you will regret it in the end.

Because the children are older, they are always not in a hurry to find a partner, and the marriage is even more 108,000 miles, and the old people always feel that they are too picky, which makes people very anxious, so there will be Chinese-style forced marriage.

Legal Analysis: If the legal consequence of forced marriage is to violently interfere with the freedom of marriage of others, he shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention. Where forced marriage causes the death of the victim, a sentence of between two and seven years imprisonment is to be given.

In accordance with relevant provisions, the coerced party who has been coerced into marrying a marriage may request the people's court to annul the marriage, and where the request for annulment of the marriage is made, it shall be submitted within one year from the date on which the coercive act is terminated, and where the party who has been unlawfully restricted in his or her person directs himself or herself to request the annulment of the marriage, it shall be submitted within one year from the date on which his or her personal liberty is restored.

Legal basis: Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party or any organization or individual to interfere.