Depressed, confused, and looking for an iron buddy who can be with you every day!

I'm 23 years old, I look pretty good, I don't have a gf, every day**, except for the holidays, my home is in Fujian, and I am expected to become a friend, chat, I am at work, I am bored, and I am also a junior college student, and I have no diploma to communicate with my brothers.

First of all, you must be sincere in making friends, you should be considerate of each other, you can't say that he is stingy and you are stingy, then you can't find a true friend.

Even the best buddies can't be together every day.

There's a space for everyone.

I'm in a similar situation to you, but unfortunately I'm not in the same place as you! My height of 20 is far worse than yours!

Manly friendship is the most testable, if there is anything to sit together and say it, if it is your fault, sincerely apologize, if it is really a brother for many years, no matter what you do wrong, as long as you sincerely admit your mistakes, you will be forgiven.

I think since you say it's your best friend, then I don't think he particularly wants to give up this friendship, call him out, have a real man-to-man conversation, be sincere, there is no misunderstanding that can't be solved, if he still can't forgive you, or this matter is not your fault at all, then you worked hard, and it is not your fault that you lost this relationship, good luck

Is there any contradiction between you? It's time for you to call him out and have a good chat ... Brother is not just handing it over, you must see it clearly, so as not to make a bad friend.

Just like love, friendship has a transition period. You should calm down with him.

In my analysis of the play, there are three possibilities, one is a slow quarrel, there may be force, the second is the Cold War, and the third is that they prefer each other.

If a home is quiet all day long, how boring it is, a little noise can also add a little spice to life.

The opposite sex is a happy enemy, and the same sex is an iron buddy or a good sister, and you will know when that person is gone one day.

You'll feel uncomfortable without her noise one day.

Uh, is the other party a man or a woman?

You may not be able to compete fairly. If you don't want to throw in the towel, try it...

You also said that iron buddies, they are all buddies, they must have nothing to talk about, they are too familiar with each other, and there is no mystery for boys. Besides, if we can be together, we will be together for a long time, and we will not become iron buddies.

will mind, many girls will think too much, because they don't know what their boyfriend and buddies are going back to, and it reduces the time she spends with her boyfriend.

Love needs a certain amount of tolerance, of course, it is not connivance, he can see it, that is his idea, but with you, you can only glance at it casually, and you can't look at it all the time, otherwise you don't respect you and yourself.

Can it be considered a normal relationship in school?

High school is also puppy love!

It seems that there are no college students in China who can get married on campus, so even college students fall in love with most people who do not agree, at least there is no clear agreement!

How many puppy loves have a result?

I'm too young to study.

If you really like someone, you need to be considerate of him, and your current behavior is completely like yourself, blindly taking, and satisfying your sense of security. He also needs time to study, he also needs space, how can two people walk together without trust, you also spend some time on your own study, if you don't live your life well, you will lose your charm.

Loving someone is eight points at most, and the remaining two points are loving yourself.

It feels like you're suspicious.

It's tiring for both sides.

Give each other some space.

I think he loves you very much, but you give him too much trouble, you bother him so much, he doesn't get tired of it, it just shows that he loves you, it's just that you don't really care about him, you only think about yourself.

At this time, you should understand him, help him, think about what it would be like if he was brushed off, and can you bear the embarrassment and blow of the person you love?

And yourself, think about it, you do this all day long, can you study well, he studies well, he should be able to get into a better university in the future, what about you, if you don't do well in the test, or you can't pass the test, I think, then you should know how you will feel if he really likes someone else.

What men value most is not love, but the value of career and life, which is also the value of men, such a man is the real man, the love of children is just the tenderness of a woman, he needs someone who can help him, at least don't mess with him.

True love is not to have but to make the other person happy.

As long as you can maintain this mentality, you can enjoy the fun of two people falling in love to the greatest extent Your love is not in the right state of mind Love is a beautiful dance It is a feast of meeting in the past life and this life It is the most beautiful flower in the world It is God's gift to mankind Love like you is so painful It's a waste.

As long as you adjust your mentality and really do good for him, he will not leave you, even if you leave, it is he who suffers, not you, and don't ruin your happiness because of selfishness and narrow-mindedness.

It's better to strengthen your self-cultivation and studies and improve your self-confidence, which is the key.

I agree with all the points upstairs, but I'm going to tell you, first of all, he still loves you, it's just that he's just tired, I think you must be the same as him, you're very tired of love, and you don't want to let go, right? It's really not good to talk to him well, if you can be together, you can be together, it's really not okay to separate, it's so tired, each other is tired, and it hurts more girls, so in the future, you are separated, or you are more painful, and your suspicion is indeed a little worse. I suggest you change it, I don't think the problem between you is too big!

Classmate, you'll be fine. Because you also know how to make an "extra point", hehe. Believe me, in a few years, you'll be a character.

Listening to what you said, it feels like you should be in high school or junior high school, right?

You are still very young, your feelings should be very innocent, don't think so much, students are under a lot of pressure now. He's all counted down in their class, and he's definitely under more pressure. If you love him, don't doubt his feelings for you all day long, you are still young, you are not married, there is no betrayal, if he likes you, he will definitely not be with other girls, you can rest assured!

Usually encourage him to study, he is about to take exams, so don't put so much pressure on him, if he has something unhappy, help him share it if you can. In this way, he will feel that you understand him so well and treat him so well, will he like others again?

Girls like to be considerate of themselves and understand their own girls! May you be happy!

High school students should be very sensible. If you love someone, give him some space to improve his taste and literacy.

Your boyfriend is really good, don't say give up.

You need to change your personality, otherwise your friends will get tired.

Focusing on academics and being admitted to university is the foundation of love.

If he really wants to change when the time comes, he will let it be.

Take advantage of it and cherish it.

I wish you all the best!

Too small, stay vigilant in love, don't take it too seriously!

First of all! High school is not the age to fall in love, at least college!

Second, you said that he doesn't care about you, so do you care about him, his pressure is afraid of being brushed off!

Third, you always nag endlessly, and I'm annoyed if I change it!!

Fourth, you're his girlfriend, not his mother, give me some free space!

Fifth, it is recommended that you consult a psychologist with him and consult separately. (ENDS).

"Try to break up".

Try to break up for a month.

Or two months.

It's like two people who have nothing to do with each other, and look at what you're going to think after a month or two.

Break up or continue.

You'll find out.

You're still young, it's normal for this kind of thing to happen, and it's only when you don't think about each other that you have problems.

I don't know how your grades compare with him, he is under a lot of pressure to study now, and the pressure in his family is also very high, and his parents expect him to get into a good school, and you always doubt him like this, which will only give him more headaches.

Although the relationship is two-sided, if you really want to maintain this relationship, you have to make efforts to help him overcome the difficulties of his current studies and help him improve his grades; This way, his parents will also have a good impression of you. (I guess his parents should also know about your existence).

You can do this by starting with the first step by buying him a study material and giving him words of encouragement.

The second step is to ask him to hand over the exercises he doesn't know every day, and even if you can't, you can ask your classmates to help him solve them, and then you can tell him how to solve them, so that both sides can improve.

The third step is to have time to find some classic test questions for him, and you can send him the answers after he finishes them, so that he can find out the errors and deficiencies against the correct answers. Don't look for too many exercises, and make an agreement with him to ask one or three questions a day. Because not only does he have to finish his school homework, but his family may also give him homework.

I believe that if you complete the above three steps for him, you will communicate with him every day, and you can promote his learning, and the two parties will gradually reconcile as before, even his parents will increase their good impression of you, and lay a good foundation for your mutual communication.

You are like a ship that has just started, looking for the last harbor, the road is far away, and sometimes there are risks. Today's friends replied that they are the best support for you, and the house is built on a rock that is not afraid of the wind, rain, or water.

The house was built on sandy land and collapsed as soon as the water washed it.

Sadness or unhappiness is because we can't let go and don't see things through, and I wish you a lot of good luck in the new year.

Like me, my suspicion is so severe that I want to see a psychiatrist, and I can't believe what my loved one says, and if I lie to me once, I won't believe it. **Just because we are proud of our judgment, absolutely believe in our own judgment, in fact, in the other party's heart only has a bitter smile, no matter how you explain it, you can't believe it, it's really only a bitter smile, I haven't been able to find a solution, I have to find a psychologist.

It's still early! It's really early!

Don't think so much!

Cut, little pion! Thought love was life! It's what life is all about!

I can understand your feelings.

You are indeed too nervous, this nervousness is caused by your excessive concern for him, and he is afraid of losing him, but your uneasiness, unreasonable communication, has brought pressure to his heart, you are too young, there are things that I don't know how to deal with, how to speak, I have a friend next to me, she is like you, in fact, my buddy has nothing, once we all had dinner together, his girlfriend hit **, there was a woman next to him talking, and his girlfriend thought he was with other women.

It's been in a trance all day.

It's going to break up.

That's excessive worry tension.

I think you should adjust your mood.

You have to trust each other Only the feelings of mutual trust will give each other space for a long time.

Not necessarily, slapsticks just help to increase the relationship, but the two are intimate and talk about everything, and they are very open, and they must be iron buddies. But even if you haven't been in touch for a long time, it's the iron buddies who are willing to help as soon as possible. This cannot be used as a criterion.

A true brother will be with you when you are lost, encourage you, stop your impulses and mistakes in time, keep a distance from you when you are beautiful, time is fast, manage your life with your heart, cherish what you have, try to have as few regrets, and wish you good luck.

On the surface, I love and hurt you, but in my heart I care about you very much, but I have to pretend that I don't care about myself, be the first to reach out when you are in trouble, no matter what you become, I will never leave you, and I have been silently supporting you behind the scenes.

A true brother is one who thinks of you and helps you when you are in trouble, whether you are together every day or never in touch.