I m 21 years old, I haven t found a job, and my boyfriend s family looks down on me

Updated on society 2024-06-18
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's too much, money is more important than you, please think carefully about your relationship, you have worked hard, why should he be so demanding.

    He doesn't know how to understand the other person, he won't think about you, this is just the first time, if you're still together, you have to be prepared for the long term, there are a lot of trivial things in your later life, and you will worry about your future life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, it's going to get better slowly, let's get a job, it's really not like that without a job, what do you say, talk to them, I hope they understand.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Divide it early!! Just because he quarreled with you, saying that you shouldn't use this article and should be divided!! I really doubt he's a man?? Tell him to go to the rich woman!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Looking down on you is the reality of this kind of person I don't think it's worth it for you to continue Although his family conditions are good, but his family will always look down on you Can you bear it Materially you may be satisfied But spiritually you can bear it.

    Such a boyfriend gives up North Seriously, if I don't help you, I don't understand a man like you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This kind of man you still talk to him!! My wife is also from the countryside, I don't love her much, marrying a wife is painful, not looking for a rich wife, it's best to divide early, even if you get married, just like his family, do you think you will be happy in the future?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love marriage will be the right one! The lives of our poor people are not understood by the rich people! You're not a good fit for him!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Alas, this world is really realistic, sympathize with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, maybe the family hopes that you have a stable job, and you will rest assured that you will find a boyfriend after you have a foothold, after all, the daughter's parents are more distressed, and they definitely don't want their daughter to pin all their hopes on her boyfriend, mainly because of the frequent occurrence of various incidents on the Internet, parents are not very relieved to let you find a boyfriend, in short, they must love you too much.

    At the age of work, the family is not allowed to find a boyfriend.

    Hello, maybe the family hopes that you have a stable job, and you will rest assured that you will find a boyfriend after you have a foothold, after all, the daughter's parents are more distressed than the stove, and they definitely don't want their daughter to pin all their hopes on her boyfriend, mainly because of the frequent occurrence of various incidents on the Internet, and the parents are not very relieved to let you find a boyfriend.

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, and it is also relatively close to home, they all want me and my sister to find close, my boyfriend has two brothers, he is an older brother, I have a sister, this time my boyfriend said that he was going to come over to pay New Year's greetings, only my father was with my grandfather, my mother went to work, my boyfriend came in, my father didn't seem to want to see it, my grandfather was also there, and my grandfather also expressed his approval of the wide book, and my boyfriend also sent a New Year's gift, and we went to watch the movie after the scum Qiaoqin, My boyfriend told my dad that we were going to the movies, and my dad didn't respond to him, a little embarrassed, and then we went, and I haven't seen the movie yet, so he sent me a WeChat message telling me to hurry home, my boyfriend sent me back, my mom also came back from work at this time, and my mom didn't like it very much, and told me that he asked him to return the gifts he had sent to him, saying that there was a male brother who would earn property or something, and told me that my boyfriend told me to go ** don't want it in the future, what should I do, my sister 27 hasn't found a boyfriend yet, I'm 22 years old.

    It turns out that this is the case, that may be that your parents love their daughters a little bit, the girl's home is empty and the boy's family The thoughts of the two parents must be different, and if you say more, you are afraid that you will be wronged after getting married, I have personal feelings about this, the family of the two brothers is very guessed that the ant will be a bowl of water, so I can understand your parents' thoughts to some extent, but if the man is really good, you can choose more time to create opportunities for him to be with your parents, so that he can behave well, Can let your parents accept it as soon as possible, after all, your grandfather doesn't object, you can let your grandfather talk to your parents, after all, good people are important.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this sentence, there are two questions.

    First, if you can't find a job for the time being, what does this mean for the time being? If you can't find it, you will continue to look for it, and I feel that the reason why I can't find a job at the age of 20 is most likely not that I can't find it, but that I can't find what I like.

    It's very simple, ask not to tell like that, not to think about the future first, but to think about the present first.

    Second, the family did not help to find it.

    Everyone who is looking for a job has different requirements and needs, majors, etc., and if your family can find it, you will definitely be able to do it? Or do you have to go the long way?

    Please don't blame others, especially family members, for your responsibility. Look at yourself. Rely on others and you will starve to death on the side of the road sooner or later.

    Thirdly, I can't stay at home anymore, and I don't really understand what the situation is.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Second, the work is not good, but it also depends on the analysis from what point of view, the sales work threshold is low but it is difficult to do a good job, and the liquidity is large; The work of the production enterprise is boring but the stability is good; Technical work requires a lot of time to learn and accumulate experience, and it also requires a certain amount of talent; Management positions generally require the accumulation of work experience.

    Third, there are also many formal ** online recruitment, and you can learn more about it through other channels after you have the intention. You can also participate in some on-site job fairs, even if you are unsuccessful, you can learn about the current job search trends, and do some targeted learning and preparation.

    Fourth, young people have just entered the society, no matter what work they do, they must take it seriously, not only to learn technology, but also to learn to be a person. Don't be impetuous, there are too many people with low eyes, losers always find various external reasons, but successful people can find their own shortcomings.

    Finally, I wish you all the best in your job search and progress in your work!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not all jobs are for people to be interested in, work is to support your family, and if it's a job you're interested in, it's best, but it's rare.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When looking for a job, the safest thing is to ask your parents, family, relatives and friends to help. Help you find .

    A slightly safer way is to work in a job marketplace scam.

    The least secure is online recruitment.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are very few reliable ones online, you can go to the job fair, there are job fairs in prefecture-level cities almost every month, go to participate in it yourself, if there is a relationship, don't be embarrassed to use the relationship, the work is like this.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When people grow up, they must take the initiative to take responsibility, and they can't feel sorry for themselves because of their willfulness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Looking for a job on 58.com, someone publishes certified job posting information every day, there are many types, choose yourself

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