What can Kan Qingzi s love story inspire you?

Kan Qingzi's love story made many people sigh, before Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen broke up, many people said that there was a kind of love, called Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen, at that time, the two of them were also a couple that many people envied in the entertainment industry, after the breakup, Ji Lingchen was labeled a scumbag by many people, Kan Qingzi also took a long time to come out of the shadow of broken love, the end of this relationship makes us understand that love is not a love that can go on forever.

Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen belong to sister and brother love, many people think that love is regardless of age, sister and brother love, brother and sister love, as long as two people are in love, that age will not bring any resistance to love. But Kan Qingzi's story tells us that it is a difficult thing to wait for a boy to grow up, she is eager to take the next step in life, while the other party is young and just wants to enjoy the beauty of love, and two people who are not in step will inevitably have contradictions.

Secondly, the ideas of boys and girls are still very different, for girls, if they like someone, they want to be with him all the time, while boys need more self-space. We can also see from the relationship between Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi that Kan Qingzi is very close to Ji Lingchen, but Ji Lingchen hopes that the two can have more independent space, in his world, in addition to love, there are too many things that interest him, and in Kan Qingzi's world, it seems that there is only Ji Lingchen. True reciprocal love shouldn't be like this, and we can't lose ourselves in love.

Kan Qingzi's story tells us how important it is to find a boyfriend who has the same three views as you and has the same pace, you can make him handsome, or you can make him considerate, but you must learn to see through the real thoughts of the other party, if you are looking for a marriage partner, then you should find a person who is like-minded with you, the price to pay to accompany a boy to grow up is too great, you can go on with him if you win the bet, but once you lose the bet, you will be injured all over the body.

There is no need to have love in life, even if there is love, you must know that love has a shelf life, and don't expect eternal love.

Like her, I also experienced a sister-brother relationship, we were 5 years apart, and we were together for almost 6 years, but it ended in a breakup, so when I saw Kan Qingzi's love story, I could empathize with her very much. After all, there is an age difference between the two people, so the two people have different plans for the future, as a girl, they are about 30 years old, so they want to settle down and want to get married, but the boy is still young, and the marriage may not be in their plan, so in the end they can only part ways, in fact, there is no one right or wrong in this relationship, it can only be said that they have not met the right person.

Tell us that a woman should find someone who can accommodate her willfulness, take care of herself in every way, and be able to help you take on and share all the big and small things in every detail, so that she can make herself happy.

In love, you must not compromise easily, you must stick to your own principles and bottom line, so that the other party can respect you and fall in love with yourself.