Can we be together? What a difficult problem to solve!!

I read your request for help, I can analyze it with you, you can use it as a reference.

First of all, you are married, and you need to think more about your responsibilities than to be too selfish about what you now think is (perhaps temporary) happiness. A bad relationship with your husband doesn't mean that it can't be solved, I suggest that you can first sort out the dissatisfaction between you and your husband (no matter what, your husband is important, whether he is still your husband in the future, at least he is still now), summarize the problem and write it on paper, and then talk to him calmly, watch his performance, if he can't be serious or his answer you are not satisfied, if you really love him, you can do this: try to tell him your husband about your current mood, let him know that you are tired, You're getting a divorce (note:

It's not that you really divorce him, in fact, it's a test of him), and then you look at his performance, you can see how he changes for you for half a year (at least half a year), if he really changes for you, please don't let go. If it's just that your husband loves you in his heart, but doesn't show it, you can encourage him to show it, instead of letting others take advantage of the opportunity to choose a new partner because of the emptiness in your heart, the chance that you can really be happy for a long time is too small.

If you solve the above problems, there are two things that will happen:

First: You end up choosing someone you recently knew. Then my advice is that there is no need to tell him too much about your past.

Why, because those are in the past tense, you want to be happy now and in the future, so you don't need to give it everything at all. You must have reservations, and you must think about it before winning this relationship, he is worth your love. As for what you said, "He cares about me very much, cares about me very much, and likes me very much, often looks for me, accompanies me, he often comes to accompany me when I go to work, and when I wake up from sleep, he also sends me the first text message, asking me if I have woken up, whether I have slept well" That's all you decide to be with you is not enough, I think all these men can do this when they first start chasing girlfriends (I want to say that this is really trivial, it doesn't mean anything, because of emptiness you will think very well and understand you), And this is definitely not a guarantee that he will not become like your husband in a few years.

The second type: Your husband's love for you has been reactivated by you, you are amazing, and I believe that you will not be affected by other people at that time.

Finally, I suggest that you please solve your emotions first, think about it yourself, maybe you can choose no one now, you want long-term happiness, so calm down for a while. I wish you the best of luck!

I think it's a good thing, you should also find a way to let your husband know that this person exists, see how your husband reacts, if he still loves you, he will say something to you, if he doesn't love you, why bother and run away with him.