Why do I like little boys so much?

Zhengtai control ......Like-minded people ......For me, it's my motivation to move forward!! There's nothing to worry about, relax and appreciate them like works of art hahaha!!

There must be a lack of communication and exchange! It's good to love children! Your child will definitely be happy in the future.

Hurry up and get married, have a kid and play with you.

The girl knows a boy and finds that the boy likes children very much, often communicates with herself about children, and takes the initiative to tease him when she sees children when she goes out. The girl thinks that this boy is very gentle, and his personality must be very good, and the boy who especially likes children has a good personality?

If a boy especially likes children, it means that his personality is warmer, and he is a patient and careful person. Because children represent trouble, they will cause destruction, may suddenly urinate, need to be taken care of by adults all the time, even if it is the biological parents of children, they will feel bored if they take care of too much. Therefore, many people do not like children, and even think that children are a burden.

People who like children, most of them are caring people, they don't think children are annoying, what children do, in their eyes are innocent, lively, cute, such people look at everything is very beautiful. It's the same way when it comes to doing other things or in life, so it's going to be very positive to be with guys like that.

Of course, some people will think that the boy who likes children is a bit mother-in-law, some mothers-in-law, mothers-in-law, etc., in fact, there are a thousand personalities in a thousand people, and everyone's personality is different.

Such a man is generally kind-hearted, very caring, very good at taking care of people, very good at hurting people, is a very good man, worthy of entrusting for life! However, they have a disadvantage in that they like children too much. Such men generally don't do much, but they will be very caring.

They will love the little ones very much, they will treat the little ones as if they were their own children, and they will treat your little ones as if they were his own children.

I think there are two kinds of people who like to be a child: 1I was loved very well when I was a child, and my heart has always been a child**.

A hail to maintain this innocence, can mingle with children, into the children's imagination, such a person is very confident, and the child dances carefully while singing does not mind, feel resonant with the child. 2.I haven't been loved well, or I'm not often recognized by the people around me.

But I found that the child's rare kindness, innocence, and being with the child can be fully accepted. I feel that I can ** myself with my children. Such a person behaves as quiet, kind, and cherishes interaction with children.

1. Men's face problems. There is a saying that the birth of a son is more masculine, and the birth of a daughter will be more gentle, and the established image of the Chinese for men is masculine and upright, so giving birth to a daughter will affect the establishment of this image to a certain extent. 2. Physiological factors.

China has always been a large agricultural country, and farming is a more physically demanding activity, and women are significantly weaker than men in this regard, so they all want to have a son to help with the farm work rather than a daughter to help with food. 3. The concept of raising children and preventing old age. The approximate meaning of this concept is to raise a son in the future, when he is old, someone will take care of himself who can't work, and he can provide for his own retirement, and when there is a disaster, he can also send himself to the hospital as soon as possible, and the most important thing is to be able to send himself to the sect, many traditional customs are not allowed to women to play, and the act of sending the sect is also exclusive to men.

4. The notion that girls are all members of other people's families. There is a saying that the daughter who marries out spills the water, and the family who gave birth to a daughter was not only unhappy when she was born in ancient times, but also like exchanging dowry gifts with her daughter to a certain extent. Sometimes it becomes a luxury for a daughter to return to her parents' home, which is probably this kind of concept.

5. The traditional habit of having a noble child and a cheap daughter. The ancient polygamy system made this vice spread more wantonly, and the status of giving birth to children was noble and the status of giving birth to daughters was low, so the women in those courtyards wanted to give birth to a belt on their stomachs to change the fate of their lives.

Widow Sichun, how can you do it without a boy? You think too much, it's not everyone, but some people like boys, and some people like girls. Opposites attract.

Whoever told you that, that's the old idea, and a lot of people like to have girls now.

With the continuous progress of society, women are no longer the same as before, and can only stay at home. Modern women have a stronger sense of independence, and they are not inferior to men at work, or even better than men, and the state does not encourage people to prefer sons over women. So why do they like boys in terms of fertility?

Why do you like to have boys?

1. Boys are inherently stronger than girls, and their defenses are much stronger than girls. For example, when a person goes out, if it is a girl, the family will be very worried, for fear that something will happen to the girl.

2. If the elderly in the family do not have a son, they will think that they are out of business, and there is no successor, they will be looked down upon by their neighbors, lose face and even be ashamed, which is most common in some places with relatively backward economic development.

3. The son's skin is good to feed, and it must not matter if the son is rough when he raises it, and he is not as delicate as his daughter.

If you think normally, it is out of the psychology of protecting children. If you don't think normally, it's patriarchal, and now there are many people who prefer sons over girls, like little boys and don't like little girls.

Patriarchal preference is a concept of inequality between men and women in society, which attaches importance to the rights and interests of men, while Gao Qiqi defines women as subordinates of men, and restricts their opportunities to develop their personal talents and personal freedom. This notion is common in patriarchy.

Society, often accompanied by the idea of male superiority and gender division of labor, emerges. Patriarchal attitudes can also affect parents' willingness to have boys and girls.

Change:

In recent years, there have been some positive moves to promote gender equality around the world. In the past two years, to developing countries.

In total, as many as 94 reform measures to promote equal rights between men and women have been enacted in the main 65 countries.

With urbanization.

However, in order to completely change this thinking, it is urgent to change people's social concepts and correctly view the roles, rights and obligations of men and women in society and family life.

The above content reference: Encyclopedia - Patriarchy.