I can t afford to ignore my boyfriend, what should I do?

Your boyfriend is so ruthless to a little woman I really don't know how much he loves to save face You just want to break up with him or not see him for a long time Say give you some time to think about whether to continue to maintain this relationship See how he reacts If he is willing to put down his face many times and ask you for forgiveness Then I guess you still have drama If he refuses It means that he doesn't care about you very much.

You still have the possibility of choosing now, leave him, don't know how to cherish you, let him regret what he did, leave him or change places by yourself, don't tell him, be quiet, let him be anxious.

First of all, it's not right for him to do this, you should leave him, and then he will think that you are the best and chase you back. He is happy, you are miserable, he doesn't think so much, but you will, so you are more passive now, and the analysis is complete.

Tighten it when it should be tight, loosen it when it should be loose, don't surround him all day long, pretend to ignore him, just cherish it for him to understand, if he doesn't understand, let it go.

That's because you're not very mature yet, and you don't understand and tolerate each other very well. If he is really a motivated and responsible boy, you will be happy in the future!

You and my wife's personality is similar, and I may be much older than you, and my personality is not so violent, and the example of you shopping may be angry, but I will let her go over to make her happy, and my wife loves me very much. We had occasional fights, but we were happy to come back.

Think about it, if I played violence like your boyfriend, maybe my wife and I wouldn't be husband and wife by now.

Such a man doesn't know how to cherish his girlfriend at first glance, so change it!Men shouldn't hurt women at any point.

Don't always look for reasons in the other person

Gritted his teeth and stomped his feet, ignoring him.

Speechless... Only bless you ...

Then you will be ruthless and ignore him.

1. With someone you like more, you can shift your goals.

In the beginning, that man may really just be in contact with you. But when he contacts you, when he meets a woman who makes him more excited, then he will often not be polite, and will directly use all his enthusiasm for you on that woman, at this time he no longer has you in his eyes, and of course he can no longer care about you.

2. I think you are not suitable and choose to give up on you.

Sometimes, a man has a good impression of you, just because of your appearance, or a certain behavior, at that time, he does not know you enough. In order to get to know you better, he will approach you, but if in the process of getting along with you, he finds that you are not what he imagined, or not what he wants, then he will give up on you at any time.

3. I don't think you like him and he doesn't want to waste time.

The man who likes you, at the beginning, he will indeed always revolve around you, to test you, to see your reaction. During this period of temptation, if you don't give him a more obvious response, then he will feel that you are not interesting to him at all, and he has no role in you. In this case, he often doesn't say hello and chooses to leave directly.

4. I used to be bored, but now I'm busy.

If a man always takes the initiative to find you for a few days or weeks in a row, it doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you, maybe it's just that he happens to be bored during that time and wants to find someone to pass the time, and that person happens to be you. So if he keeps looking for you because he's bored, then when that state passes, he will naturally ignore you anymore.

5. He cast a large net and you were released.

Not all men are dedicated enough to their feelings, and when they like someone, they only like one person. Many men always like to cast a large net and flirt with many women at the same time. When he flirts with too many women and can't take care of them at all, then he will selectively cut off some.

If he is slow to heat, too difficult to chase, and too serious about his feelings, he will naturally cut off contact first.

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Many times, there are some people whose behavior is difficult to figure out. Although many people say that women are fickle, in fact, men are also very fickle animals. It's like there are some boys who have a lot of fun with themselves a day in advance, some talk and laugh, but for some reason, they suddenly ignore themselves, and even become very indifferent, like they don't know each other, like strangers.

In fact, many times boys ignore girls, there must be a reason, it must be because of what happened between you to cause such a situation. Otherwise, how can an unprovoked boy have such an attitude towards you? Sometimes girls have to think about whether they are annoying each other by their own behavior.

If it's really not your fault, then it's likely that the reason is the man. Today, let's take a look at the reasons why boys ignore girls! Many times, girls may feel that there is nothing wrong with their behavior, but in the eyes of the boy, if you do it as if you are deliberately trying to make him angry, then he will cooperate with you and be so angry that he ignores you.

For example, you always compare him with other boys, or say something about your practices or a certain sentence you say inadvertently, so that he thinks you are neglecting.

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It may be that you did something wrong and made him very angry, so he ignored you, but he was afraid that you would know what difficulties he encountered, so he would ignore you ruthlessly.

Personally, I think there are two reasons for being ruthless, one is the community of interests, if you have no value, it doesn't matter, and the other is that there are too many selfish distractions, and there may be better goals are unknown, in short, think a little too much, don't think too much, now if you want to redeem it, take retreat as advance, everyone calm down and see if there are any regrets. Personal advice, hope to help you.

It must have been you who didn't do well and made him angry.

Many girls feel that they can't get along with their boyfriends during their relationship, and they want to break up with many contradictions, but in the end, reason loses to emotion and is reluctant to leave.

What should I do if I want to break up with my boyfriend but am reluctant?

What should I do if I want to break up with my boyfriend? ）

1. Think about why you want to break up.

Many girls are reluctant to break up when they want to, but they are easy to regret after breaking up, and the fundamental reason is that they have never thought about why they want to break up. Most of the time, a girl's breakup is actually emotional, she doesn't really want to break up, just because she quarrels with her boyfriend or is angry or simply thinks too much, so she breaks up inexplicably. So in order not to regret the decision she made, the girl still thinks about the real reason for her breakup.

2. See if the relationship still has a chance to be saved.

Many times there is a difference between true and false breakups, and when you think about the real reasons for breaking up, I believe you can also tell whether you are really going to break up. If you don't really want to break up, and there is room for redemption in the relationship, then find a way to change the current situation to save your boyfriend, don't be there reluctant and unwilling to make concessions, and it will be bad to put yourself and your boyfriend in a dilemma.

3. Remembering what Chu himself wants.

Many times girls are looking for in love, separating and merging with their boyfriends, and living a very unhappy life, the root cause is because she doesn't know what she wants, are you greedy for the emotional value your boyfriend gives you, or are you just reluctant to have those good memories, or you really love him, and you just want to be with him without asking for anything in return. Give yourself time to think calmly and figure out what you want, so that you can help yourself make the right choice when you are hesitating.

4. Be yourself.

If after thinking about the above three points, you finally come to the conclusion that you are reluctant but must break up, then the girl should be ruthless to yourself, be ruthless to break up, don't indulge in his sweet words or those untrue memories of the past, two people together should be able to promote common growth, if there is only pain together, then you are reluctant to do that, endure the pain for a while to leave some memories of the past, and give future happiness a chance.

5. Divert attention.

For the breakup, in fact, many girls will have the idea of reluctance, obviously they have blocked him and decided not to see him again, but his initiative and sweet words make you reluctant to leave, crying and leaving and crying and running back, and finally crying and leaving, falling into such a breakup cycle. Therefore, if a girl wants to break up successfully from the emotion of 'reluctance', she must jump out of such a cycle, you can divert your attention and do other things, such as work such as travel or give yourself some mental hints, there is always a way to make you forget the pain.

If you want to break up with your boyfriend and be ruthless, then you can only be ruthless, there is no such thing as a double in the world, and it is better to have a short pain than a long pain. It's going to hurt him if you break up, but it's sad that you don't break up, so it's better to make a decision early.

It's normal, after all, I've been together for so long, and I have a feeling.

If you have decided that you and your boyfriend have no hope and do not want to continue with him, then it must be better to have a long pain than a short pain, the longer it drags on, the more difficult it will be, and it will be a waste of each other's time.

It shows that you still have feelings for him, so don't divide it first, and then deal with it for a while, women must be self-respecting.

A person who says to leave is not your beloved; A person who says let go and let go, let him go. He doesn't deserve your good, nor does he deserve your entanglement.

No matter how beautiful the relationship was, once it has changed, it can never go back; No matter how many vows there once were, once they left, they could never be realized.

Don't leave yourself in the past, the days are forward, so we must also learn to look forward. When someone leaves, someone will naturally come. If someone hurts you, there will naturally be someone who will love you. Your entanglement will only bring more pain to yourself.

People always learn to grow only after experiencing loss. If you regard every injury as an experience for yourself, your life will get better and better after all.

People who want to leave you, don't dwell on them, because it's pointless. Calmly face the departure of those people, and calmly accept the bitterness and bitterness that life gives you.

If you feel annoyed, it means that you don't love you anymore, people who really love you will never find you annoying, even if you do something wrong, they will feel that you are right, and even if you are really annoying, they will not find you annoying.

Since I don't love you anymore, it's better for you to separate, but it's okay to fall in love, it's okay to find someone you love, but if you get married, you must find someone who loves you.

It will be very tiring and very sad to be with someone who doesn't like you, but you are reluctant to separate, because you like him, but there is a saying that long pain is better than short pain, it is better to find one.

Many years later, you will feel that you have been so stupid to be with someone who doesn't love you for so long, and you have been sad so many times.

Life is still happy. Even if you don't fall in love, it's better not to be sad or happy than to be sad and happy. If you love each other, it's still good to be happy and sad. If you don't love each other, you are sad and happy, why be together.

Long snack, I must have no feeling for you, otherwise how could I think you are annoying, just do what you want, hurry up.

In fact, the other party may be waiting for you to propose to break up.

You can only not bother him all the time, and give him space to wait for him to find you.

What did you guys look like in the beginning?

I don't know how you communicate with him? I don't know what kind of character he is, so I don't know what ...... I suggest to youBut everything is all about change:

When you first find out about this condition, you should ask him if he is not feeling well, if something has happened to his family or friends, whether he has been studying or working hard recently, or ......If so, give him some encouragement or comfort in time, men also have to coax, and fragility is not exclusive to women. If you ask these questions and he ignores you, you ask if you are putting pressure on him or something else. The tone must be tactful and resolved in private.

Be sure to take good care of his ......

He still ignores you after doing this, that's his fault, but men can also be willful and lose their temper, and sometimes women have to be generous and tolerant. You can ask his friends or family members about what's wrong and then make the next move. Be sure to stay calm and don't lose judgment when doing this.

Anxiety is certainly unavoidable, but it can't be too obvious. You seem to have made a big mistake in this regard, your mind is not cool enough, and your language is a little too aggressive. But since it's already happened, there's no way about it.

You should still ask his friends or his family to find out what is going on. Then, you go directly to him, and the tone must be calm, and you must talk (you should be clear about how to make him calm and talk to you.) ）。

If he didn't talk to you peacefully that day, you just told him that it was not easy for the two of them to be together, and bumps and bumps were inevitable, let him think about it during this time, and you should also think about it, and give you and him some time to calm down and think about it carefully.

Don't let him ignore you, you ignore him, this will not solve the problem, and it will not be good for yourself and him. When something goes wrong, if it's a two-sided cause, someone has to take a step back to solve the problem.

After all, it's not easy for two people to be together, I hope you think about what to do next. You can also talk to your good friends.

Hope you can take care of this! I hope you can be happy! (Based on what you said, it is estimated that he is in a bad mood and should not be a big deal.......)In the future, don't say the word "dump" in front of the other party, and don't say break up when you don't figure out what went wrong.

This can only make things worse and make the other party feel more depressed......）