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Agree with you, how selfish it is for a person to not even honor the mother who gave birth to him.

When the child grows up, repay the parents with a grateful heart to repay the parenting grace of the parents. But in real life, there are many parents who think that they have paid too much for their children, but their children do not know how to be grateful when they grow up, and these parents will feel chilled because of this. The reason for this is that the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, the unrealistic hope will definitely not achieve the desired effect, and the correct education method is the key to raising a grateful child.

1. The higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment. This is the primary reason why parents feel that they have given a lot but do not talk about raising their children.

The primary reason why some parents feel that they have given too much and their children do not know how to be grateful is that the greater the hope and the greater the disappointment, these parents overestimate their own efforts, and at the same time make too high expectations for their children's returns, so when the reality does not match their expectations, they will feel very disappointed. In fact, the child may do well with his or her hands, but the parents' expectations are too high.

2. Unrealistic hopes will definitely not get a satisfactory result.

When we encounter an event, we always predict the final result and hope to achieve our ideal result. But the reality is often not what you want it to be, and you will be disappointed. Those parents who think that they have paid a lot, it is because of this reason that they have so much disappointment in their children's gratitude and unrealistic hopes, so when the children's actual actions do not meet their hopes, they will feel lost, and even feel cold, in fact, the child is not wrong, it is the parents' unrealistic hope that leads to such a result.

3. The correct educational method is the key factor in cultivating children who know how to be grateful.

In order for a child to grow up healthily and eventually become a talent, he must receive a good education. Those children who know how to be grateful have this quality because they have received the right education. But in real life, some parents do not do a good job in educating their children, although they pay a lot, but because of improper practices, the educational effect is not ideal.

1. Parents who spoil their children excessively; 2. Parents who have high expectations for their children; 3. Parents who do everything; 4. Parents who only care about their children's academic performance; 5. Selfish and selfish, not knowing how to honor the parents of the elderly.

Children raised by parents who dot on their children too much do not know how to be grateful, cannot be considerate of their parents, and feel that what their parents should do.

For example, parents who often spoil their children, or parents who do not have a very correct three views, or parents who do not have a very correct concept of money, or parents who are very irresponsible.

It's a parent who spoils their children too much, and the children take everything they need to do.

is very pampered to the child, and often arranges all the children's chores, no matter what the child asks, he will agree, and when the child does something wrong, he does not teach him, but makes excuses for him, which will make the parents very tired, and the child still feels that it should be taken for granted.

First, parents only know what is good for their children, but they do not tell their children that these things are not easy to come by. Second, parents will only put pressure on their children and do not consider their children's feelings. Third, excessive spoiling will lead to gratitude that children don't understand.

Suppress children. Parents usually vent their unhappiness in life on their children, which will lead to problems in their children's growth and make children not know how to be grateful when they grow up.

I think it's just that I dote on my children very much, do everything by myself and don't let my children do it at all, and then the children will be spoiled.

Parents are very pampered with their children, and do not let their children understand that their lives are not easy, but take it for granted. There are also some parents who are very distant from their children, so naturally there is no way to understand their parents.

Every day, I work tirelessly to do some low-grade things for the sake of my children. Such parents are very hard, but when they grow up, children will not be grateful to their parents.

Parents who spoil their children too much, parents who expect too much from their children, parents who do everything. The parents helped the child to take care of everything, and the child did not disobey the parents' orders and accepted the parents' arrangements, but in the end nothing came of it.

This kind of parents generally dote on their children, give their children what they want, will not give their children their own independent space, and have no bottom line for their children.

Parents who will not educate their children. Although this kind of parents work very hard, they will not educate their children, so the children will not know how to be grateful when they grow up.

To quote a song to you:

Thanksgiving to the world" is grateful for every drop of water, it nourishes me, is grateful for every flower, brings me fragrance, is grateful for every white cloud, weaves my dreams, is grateful for every ray of sunshine, and holds up my hope.

I am grateful to my parents for giving me life, grateful to my teachers for teaching me to grow, grateful to the people who have helped me, making me feel kind, grateful to those who hurt me, and letting me learn to be strong.

Living in a world of gratitude, the world of gratitude is harmonious and beautiful, living in a world of gratitude, and the world of gratitude has me and you.

I am grateful to my parents for giving me life, grateful to my teachers for teaching me to grow, grateful to the people who have helped me, making me feel kind, grateful to those who hurt me, and letting me learn to be strong.

Living in a world of gratitude, the world of gratitude is harmonious and beautiful, living in a world of gratitude, and the world of gratitude has me and you.

Living in a world of gratitude, the world of gratitude is harmonious and beautiful, living in a world of gratitude, and the world of gratitude has me and you.

When you have a grateful heart, you will be happy that things around you are so beautiful. On the contrary, if there is none, the world is gray, and you will not be happy to see anything. Our parents gave us more than we knew, but many times I didn't notice it, and I always felt that they didn't understand us and didn't want to communicate with them, so there were some problems.

Many times when you care about why your parents are doing something for you, you will be able to know why you should be grateful.

Gratitude is not only for parents, but also for the team, society, and country.

To live should be grateful, not directly to parents, there are many, many more, all the favors received, need to be grateful and grateful...

Beginner practice 51 Snow Peaks.

51. Be grateful.

We live in a wonderful universe and are bathed in the care of Allah, the Buddha Jehovah God, every hour of the day, and we should be grateful.

Three meals a day, whether it is delicacies from the mountains and seas, or coarse tea and light rice, as long as you can fill your stomach, you should be grateful.

When we have spent a hard day in peace, we should be grateful when we have a place to lie down and sleep at night in shelter from the wind and rain.

When our parents are alive and there are still people to worry about us, and our children are healthy and alive on our knees, we should be grateful.

When we look at ourselves in the mirror and see that we have symmetrical facial features and a sound body, we should be grateful.

When we turn on the faucet and see the rushing water, wash our faces and brush our teeth with cool water, or pick up water from a creek or stream to quench our thirst, we should be grateful.

When we cut open the watermelon on a hot summer day and enjoy its sweet and delicious taste, we should be grateful.

When we see the blue sky and white clouds, the morning glow and the evening glow, the beautiful mountains and rivers, and the flowing rivers; When you hear the birds singing and the autumn cicadas chirping, you should be grateful.

When we are in the field, when the breeze is blowing and our hearts are relaxed, we should be grateful.

When the drizzle moistens the earth, the flowers bloom all over the mountains, and the vegetation flourishes, we should be grateful.

When we reap the fruits of the harvest with joy, we should be grateful.

When we look up at the sky at night and see the stars twinkling and a bright moon hanging in the sky, we should be grateful.

When we stand on the shore, the sea breeze tugging at our clothes, the waves crashing against the reef, and watching the waves rise and fall, and the white sails dot the dots, causing endless reverie, we should be grateful.

When we wake up in the morning, breathe in the fresh air, look at the crystal dew, and get up early to get busy with our lives, we should be grateful.

When the snow is fluttering, the earth is covered in silver, and we sit by the fire and do our homework, we should be grateful.

What are we not satisfied with, how can we not be grateful!

All this is given by Allah, the Buddha Jehovah God, and we wish to give all gratitude and glory to God Almighty.

Continued primary practice will surely enable us to achieve an ordinary life that is relaxed, wishful, peaceful, happy, and down-to-earth.

With a grateful heart, look at your parents, look at the gains and losses, look at the whole world, and hold the ship of life smoothly. Writer Yang Daxia said that to be grateful to parents is to be grateful for greatness.