Precautions for attending a funeral and what to look out for after attending a funeral

Generally, it is necessary to pay attention to four aspects: clothing, demeanor, funeral accompaniment, and return after the event.

1. Clothing wearing. When attending a funeral, it is not advisable to wear colorful clothes, shoes and hats, or sportswear and casual clothes. Both men and women should choose simple, dark styles of clothing, shoes and hats such as black, gray and blue.

Ladies should not wear heavy makeup, and can choose to wear plain jewelry. No pets, no red bags, scarves, gloves, masks, and the colors should be plain and elegant.

2. Demeanor. The funeral should be a calm and solemn final journey for the deceased. At the funeral, after meeting with the family of the deceased, you should shake hands politely and comfort the family members with appropriate language. Whether out of curiosity or for other reasons, the family of the deceased should not be looked at.

Precautions for attending funeralsAs follows:

1. Those who have not been married for 100 days, have not been married for 100 days, and have wounds on their bodies that have not healed are not suitable to attend the funeral. If you have to go, in addition to using red underwear, friends with wounds on their bodies should also tie five-colored threads or nine-colored threads to the gauze that wraps the wounds.

2. When participating in the funeral, the mourners must bring their filial piety cloth, filial piety cards and green yarn in the order of the eldest and youngest.

3. Don't make a lot of noise when sending off the body. In a place like a funeral home, silence is the norm, and generally speaking, loud noises are prohibited, not to mention that these are the resting places of the deceased. Out of respect for life and reverence for the deceased, you should not speak loudly, and try not to make a sound from your mobile phone.

4. In the funeral process, personal words and deeds will also be concerned, and it is also more important. From the outside, most of the funeral costumes are black and white, which must be paid attention to and not to commit taboos.

5. Most of the funerals should wear black or gray, darker colors to show solemnity and seriousness, and never wear red clothes, red represents festivity, which will give people a feeling of disrespect for the deceased.

OK. Funerals are usually done in half an hour at most. Cremation is then carried out, and the clothes and bedding of the living are burned. wreaths, etc. Because it's a loved one, be sure to take a last look. I've been tired all my life. Let the old man be like the earth.

The precautions after attending the funeral are as follows:

Many times, people will feel that after attending the funeral, there will be some bad luck, but this is only a psychological effect. A superstitious saying that it is better for us to want to open some things; It is a superstitious saying, but many old people are still very concerned, and it is recommended to attend the funeral:

1. It is recommended not to go home directly.

If there is a religious practice place such as a Buddhist temple or Taoist temple nearby, or a place such as the City God Temple and the Land Gong Temple, you can go in and worship for a while before going home. If you really don't have such a place, you can go shopping, have a meal outside, watch a movie, etc., and do something else before you go home.

2. It is recommended not to go to the homes of relatives and friends.

Many people will mind, so after attending the funeral, it is not recommended to visit the homes of relatives and friends.

1. Don't go home directlyAfter everyone attends the funeral, don't go home as soon as possible, you can go to a place like the temple to get rid of the bad luck on your body, and then it's not too late to go home, if you don't like to go to the temple, you can also go to the street for a stroll, or shopping, or eating, in short, don't go home directly, do something outside and then go back, so that you can also clean up the bad luck on your body.

2. Don't visit friendsDon't visit your friends after attending the funeral, because at the funeral, you may meet friends who have been very good before or haven't seen for a long time, and go to your friend's house to visit after attending the funeral, so you may bring the bad luck you carry directly to your friend's house, which will affect the feng shui and fortune of your friend's house, so you should avoid going to your friend's house.

3. Avoid visiting the old and weakThe elderly and children are more sensitive to some unclean things, so we should not meet the elderly or children directly after attending the funeral, the bad things on the body can easily affect them, so we should also pay attention to it, especially if there are elderly people and children at home, their physique is relatively weak, and they are easy to be affected by the bad luck on everyone's body, sick or bad situation.